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Ok i am the same one who said she was raped and didnt know how to tell her parents because I was to scared...well see the thing is i am to scared to do that because the guy who raped me was my 18 year old cuzin and he said he would kill me if he found out I told anyone and well since hes my cuzin he will find out that people know very quickly even if he just finds out i told someone i was raped he will find a way to kill me...i really have no clue what to do and I am so freaked out...plz help
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I went through something similar and with the cousin too. I am so sorry first off.... secondly YOU DID NOTHING WRONG !!!! YOU SAID NO!!! it took me 7 years to tell my parents and now not much i can do. I urge you tell them while your still stable and prepared to say something. Theyll know what to do if they dont believe you which i highly doubt, go to the police, its assult to threaten somone and sagatory rape either way hes 18 and your a minor im assuming. PLEASE SAY SOMETHING.. dont wait 7 years like i did, its not healthy and what if your pregnant with his baby? I was young and it was something close to intercourse...not really but it was there you know what i mean. SAY SOMETHING...you will feel better and your parents will protect you... if they dont understand then stay with a friend to make you feel better.. tell the cops...call TIPS 713-222- TIPS. TELL ANYONE WHO YOU TRUST WILL BELIVE YOU. PLEASE Go have and have the rape kit test. If anything he ripped your vagina from forced entry. I am soo sorry, you did nothing wrong...say something.
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you need to sit down wit your parents one evening when the police dewpartment is open and go right to the police and make sure you tell them that he threatened to kill you so they protect you until they catch him hopefully they will sneak up on him but do you think he go you preganant if he did thats not good but that is more proof but if he didnt you have do do this soon before the evidence is gone
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you definetly HAVE to tell your parents! Let them know! Because you don't have to worry about him threatening you..because he'll have his ass in jail!! And I mean..THATS YOUR COUSIN! That's just so wrong in so many ways. I'm so sorry you went through that experience, and I hope everything gets better for you. =)
Love,
MELii
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u absolutely HAVE to tell your parents. make them swear they wont tell NE1 but the cops.. your "favorite" cousins about to have his ass in jail
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You tell your parents you were raped. You tell them who did it. You let them deal with what to do with him. The cousin took advantage of your friendship and should be in jail.
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screw him. you've been through alot. first...tell the authorities. that way they can get to him before he has a chance to get to you. (btw..dont forget to mention the fact that he said he would kill you.) i have an idea of how this feels cuz my little sister was raped in january. she was just 13. do your duty and get this guy behind bars. DO NOT keep it in your head and to yourself..the best thing for you is to get all your emotions out in the open. please please tell!
<3 Candace
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quite being dumb and tell somebody. I wouldn't even let my cousin do that. I'd hurt him so quick! Shot, u just need to confront or call the police. duh!
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first of all your cousin wont dare lay a hand on you. when a rapist says he's going to kill you if you tell someone thare just scared themselves that there going to get cought. i am so terribly sorry that happened to you. i know whats its like to have someone threaten you and you feel you can never escape from the fear that person puts into you. but you know what? the first step in getting over this fear is to tell someone. if you are not ready to tell your parents then tell a good friend you can trust. sometimes it feels better to know that someone is on your side, then you can tell your parents together. but please listen to me, i am begging you from the bottom of my heart to tell someone. if you dont then he's won and he just might be raping someone else. every thirty seconds a woman or child is sexualy or physically abused. your thirty seconds may have gone but someone else's will come if you dont get help now! if you need support advice, or someone to talk to please dont hesitate to e-mail me. i wish you the best of luck.
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tell someone they dont have to be in your family. call the police or call an abuse hotline. he needs to be punished. they have an abuse thing on advicenators to report abuse. please report it.
~Maegan~
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That doesn't change a whole lot - instead of being "mom, dad, I was raped" it's "mom, dad, I was raped by my cousin and he swore he'd kill me if I ever told anyone, and I believe him. I need your help." And if they don't do anything quickly enough, you call the police. Or you could forgot the "mom, dad..." and call the police first. I would suggest taking it to your parents first, and then the police.
And I would definately not try to keep away from counseling. I don't care how much you think you'll be ok or don't want to face things or whatever - you should find someone to talk to about what happened that will counsel you so that this does not come back to haunt you in later relationships.
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you should STILL tell your parents!! its not good not to tell anyone! because then the evidence of him raping you might go away! PlEASE TELL YOUR PARENTS THEY WILL HELP YOU!!!! i am worried for you...even though i dont know you!
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Sounds to me like your life is at risk whether you tell or not. I would first get the cops involved but make sure you tell your parents, but it'd be safer to have the cops involved when you tell your parents that way, you are protected from your cousin from the beginning.
I can't really say what will happen after that, but I really think you're in danger either way and telling your parents and the police would be safer than just hoping your cousin won't kill you.
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ok well first that is discusting but it's not your fault
so you should first tell your parents and tell them that he thretened to kill you
they will understand and they wont be mad
as for your cousin STAY AWAY FROM HIM!
hope i helped good luck!
xoxooxox im_falling_4_u
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