Well im not big on this "me" deal...but i guess im very understanding so i hear and like giving advice though i will tell you when not to take it to heart. I dont get over things very well i dont hold grudges but i dont get over things fast. I live for my friends, family and michael. Music is my world. I am currently agnostic. I love hugs "huggle whore" kisses are fun to. I adore the rain and i am a pyro. I love the beach and the sunrise at the beach and the full moon on the water. Well now that i sound it i will admit it i am a hopeless romantic. I think thats enough anything else just ask.
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I been with this guy for like 9 months, but of course as all realtionships you like being in feel like forever. So me and him have alrady had sex and oral, but I wanna do something more, cause as the girl I feel like I should be doing more to please him , I feel bad because he does kinda like mostly everything sometimes to please me. we already talked about it and he said he doesnt mind b/c when I enjoy it and get pleasure he enjoys it to..but I still wanna please him more! Can you tell me some things I can do to please him more..as in oral sex or sex in genral!? (link)
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my ex and i were like that. i honestly believe that they get off when you do. Role play, Dress up, Do what you would want done to you, tell him all your "dirty little secrets" and make him tell you his.... have fun go wild let your sexual imagination do the thinking... obviously again if he gets pleasure when or while you are.. hell probbly do anything to make you "happy" and scream. LOL! well again have fun go wild and enjoy it.
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Ok i am the same one who said she was raped and didnt know how to tell her parents because I was to scared...well see the thing is i am to scared to do that because the guy who raped me was my 18 year old cuzin and he said he would kill me if he found out I told anyone and well since hes my cuzin he will find out that people know very quickly even if he just finds out i told someone i was raped he will find a way to kill me...i really have no clue what to do and I am so freaked out...plz help
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I went through something similar and with the cousin too. I am so sorry first off.... secondly YOU DID NOTHING WRONG !!!! YOU SAID NO!!! it took me 7 years to tell my parents and now not much i can do. I urge you tell them while your still stable and prepared to say something. Theyll know what to do if they dont believe you which i highly doubt, go to the police, its assult to threaten somone and sagatory rape either way hes 18 and your a minor im assuming. PLEASE SAY SOMETHING.. dont wait 7 years like i did, its not healthy and what if your pregnant with his baby? I was young and it was something close to intercourse...not really but it was there you know what i mean. SAY SOMETHING...you will feel better and your parents will protect you... if they dont understand then stay with a friend to make you feel better.. tell the cops...call TIPS 713-222- TIPS. TELL ANYONE WHO YOU TRUST WILL BELIVE YOU. PLEASE Go have and have the rape kit test. If anything he ripped your vagina from forced entry. I am soo sorry, you did nothing wrong...say something.
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Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do? (link)
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in all honesty... you should tell him how you feel. Let him know that you believe hes the one you wish to cherish and expierience that with. above all RESPECT his decision and dont push it.. you might end up pushing him away all together.
Good luck... I hope it all works out in the end.
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i am 13 and i am gay i dont know how to tell my parents that i am i dont kno if i should just drop it on them one day or if i should let them down gently...see my parents and the rest of my fam think i am little mr. perfecto cuz they cant see anything wrong with me i make straight a's and i have lots of good christian friends (that by the way kno that i am gay) everyone in the entire world knos about me cept my family.................. i have to turn into i different person when i go hope like puting on a mask temperarily for every day for the last 3 years i dont kno how else to explain it!!! hope u understand and can help me and give me tips and things to let them kno i am serious and i dont want to get any mean stuff from people soo please help dont make fun thanx love sethers (link)
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Well ,like most parents they arent going to understand right off the bat unless your parents are just that cool. you know? I have plenty of friends like you, gay, bisexual. Name it ive had a friend like that. Since your still young, pre-adolecent, you could tell them that theres a possibillity that you might grow out of it so that way they will understand better when you let them know its not just a phase. Just as a comfort zone if you will. Although on the birght side at least its not when hormones are really raging and it gets to be a yelling fest, if it happens earlier it might take the stress off you and them to hear about it later in the game. As far as religion goes.... if your parents are really really, i mean just that religious then be prepared for those problems to arise. This is a lot of stuff to handle. It wont be easy it will be the farthest thing from easy. Just prepare yourself for every possible problem and be ready to stand your ground. Again if anything to give them a "comfort zone" maybe you should tell them that you might grow out of it. i hoped i helped... good luck and i hope all goes well.
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i have no idea what to do. my boyfriends friend (Karly)was getting in the way i talked to her and set her striaght.(we r in a lone distance realtionship) and now one of the other girls (katie)that did like him drug her self and died on his porch. the other friend of his who was a guy which he was so closed the used to do everything together found out the girl kaitie (who drug herself) and took a guy and killed himself. i have no idea what to do about my boyfriend he is really depressed and he thinks it is his fault i dont know why he does. i am scared he is going to do soemthign stupid and hurt himself. and know him and his sister want me to email Karly and talk to her make her feel better , but i dont want to do this because she slept with my boyfriend 5 months ago while he was drunk.. some one please help me!if i email her what should i say?? i need to do something i cant sit her and listen to my boyfriend tell me "if i dont email u back.. u will no it is becuase i have died of sadness in my sleep. Me.. The boy who is sitting in a coner crying... the bastrd, remember me? " please help me!
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Wow.. unfortunatly all you can do is be the "friend" in grilfriend. continue your supportive nature. if karly is a really good friend of his.. then she needs to be yours for the time being.. you can be the bigger person and will know what to say if you know what she means to him. If she means nothing to him then maybe you can just be a bigger person and just help to help. Life is rough and yea it sucks but might i suggest therapy... its not scary and its all confidential... it just might help if you both went.. hope all gets better and your troubles fade... good luck and stay strong..
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Well i met this really great guy, i really liked him, we hung out for a while at a dance, we danced all night. I fell for him, i thought he liked me to. Later that week i found out he asked my friend out to the movies. There not officially going out but soon they will be (knowing her) I'v called this guy and we've talked, but nothings happening. Do i just leave him alone? Or do i get in the game and try to date this guy. I dont know what im doing:( i need help, and FAST!! ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
-Heartbroken (link)
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Well is the friend your best friend? If its just a friend then you have all the right to play the game. Guy send weird signals... ask him..communication is the best thing that ever happend to people.
If shes your best friend, then back off... dont ever screw your best friend in the back... then 1 really is the loneliest number.
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I'm sorta chubby, and i have been invited to a pool party. anybody have anty good ideas wear to get a suite for a c36 5'5" 160pd girl?
please i really don't want to look like a fool! (link)
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wear a tankinie and the shorts if you want something "showy" black swimsuit one piece, tankinie and i cant think of the names of the other bottoms i think they're american cut bottoms.
You cant look like a fool if your comfortable with yourself.
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Is it possible to lose 10-20 pounds by July 20? If so, can someone please give me some tips? Thank you in advance. (link)
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"portionize" your food.
Drink just water with everything.
Dont eat at night and if you do fruit or a bowl of cerel a small one.
And finally exercise daily.
With just drinking water you can loose up to 5lbs a week.
Hope i helped..Diets are bad And over rated. Good luck!
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I RATE 5s!!!
okk well i play volleyball at my summer camp and the thing is, i'm one of the worst players because it's a more "advanced" volleyball class. we're doing overhands and like everyone can get it..like i can do it but i'm not that good. i need some really good volleyball overhand advice on how to get it over the net. sometimes i hit it high enough but it's not far enough. sometimes i hit it far enough but it's not high enough, sooo yeah
and there's this one girl (a few others too every once in a while, but she's the worst!)..well she's pretty good at volleyball but she ALWAYS picks on me! not in the teasing way, in the bossing around way..like if i do one itsy-bitsy little thing wrong, she says "DO THIS, DO THAT!" and it becomes SO ANNOYING! i don't have the best temper so sometimes i stomp away after she's bossed me around like 20 times..how can i get her to stop? i'm sorry i'm not as good as the other people but she also has to realize i'm one of the youngest players there..i don't know what to do please help!!! (link)
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Well as far as your "bossy pants" player unfortunatly there will be those types of people everywhere you go its life ...sad i know. Just tell her off one time and No Fighting!!! she should get the picture after that if not well its happens. That is just the type of person i am so yea.
Overhand takes a while. You ever play softball? well its kinda like throwing a ball. Well try this... hold the arm you arent using up above your head toss the ball up and it should go right above your finger tips .... then its timing and strength from there, strength will come with age..but timing is very important. You should hit the ball with the palm of you hand. It takes practice. I hope i helped. Good luck and have fun!
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how do i tell if i'm a good kisser.............................................................if ne one knows how to tell please do (link)
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Personally i could tell you unless i kissed you but what kinda kiss was it? When i was about 13 my friends and i knew we could french kiss good if when we said things with a "th" and "l" words our tongue came out of our mouth. Thats all childs play you know you kiss good when you feel comefortable with yourself.
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do yall know who sings the song that goes
where is your boy tonight i hope he is a gentalman
maybe he wont find out what i know
you were that last good thing about this part of town
thanks!
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Fall Out Boy i dont remember the name of the song but i sing it all the time. go to purevolume.com you can hear it there.
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