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Boy Issues
Well i met this really great guy, i really liked him, we hung out for a while at a dance, we danced all night. I fell for him, i thought he liked me to. Later that week i found out he asked my friend out to the movies. There not officially going out but soon they will be (knowing her) I'v called this guy and we've talked, but nothings happening. Do i just leave him alone? Or do i get in the game and try to date this guy. I dont know what im doing:( i need help, and FAST!! ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
-Heartbroken
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Well is the friend your best friend? If its just a friend then you have all the right to play the game. Guy send weird signals... ask him..communication is the best thing that ever happend to people.
If shes your best friend, then back off... dont ever screw your best friend in the back... then 1 really is the loneliest number.
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Well talk to him and ask if he is still interested in you? and if he says he isnt, then go out and try to meet new guys! =D maybe at the next dance you go to you'll meet another boy! don't worry there are many boys out there and i know its hard, but you CAN get over him =D
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Aww!! My heaRt goes out to ya, Kid.. honestly. I've been theRe, it sucks, I know. =/ But it seems like he alReady has his heaRt set on someone else at the moment; kind of an 'end of stoRy' deal. Bottom line.. you CAN NOT **MAKE** someone like you, as unfoRtunate as that is. And what's the point in foRming a Relationship when only ONE paRtneR holds Romantic feelings foR the otheR?? I hate to tell you this, but I think you should be faiR to YOURSELF by accepting and Respecting his stance with his feelings. Then I think you should tRy to gatheR up the pieces of youR bRoken heaRt, and keep tRuckin' on. Think of it this way: what's the point in giving youR heaRt away to somoene who won't give you theiRs??? 'Love' is RecipRocal; meaning, it's NOT just one-sided. Relationships RequiRe a 120% effoRt fRom *BOTH* paRtneRs, and without that.. you've got nothing. I wish you all of the best. :)
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Talk to him- say outright, "okay this might sound dumb and don't laugh at me if I'm wrong or dumb or whatever, but I thought you liked me at the dance- you sure were acting like it i don't know am i an idiot? is it just me? because you just asked *insert name of friend* to the movies and i know she likes you- talk to me. if we're just friends that's cool but i could have sworn there was something more there...is there?"
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If you relaly like him, ask him to do stuff with you. You shoudl be real good friends and see what hes like. I mean you only spent one night with him. Good luck. ANd if you and your friend get mad at eachother...its not worth it. No guy shoudl ruin a friendship. Tootles.
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he might be playing both of you.. or maybe he wants you as a friend.. get one of your friends to ask him if he likes you. guys can be really confusing
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I think you should just let it go. He may have been hanging out with you to get to your girlfriend. Its not a good thing to have happen but it does. Since nothing is happening just let it go. :)
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hey!
well. if you really like him, i say, go for it! it wont hurt. find out if he likes you. ask him yourself. if he says 'no'(which i doubt) then say, 'good, b/c i dont lik you either, its been bugging me since the dance!!'--it'll work, and if it doesnt then there's something messed up there! hahah.
well hav fun and good luck!
hope&love
danni<3
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Hey babe, i say you call both of them out on it! tell them, you dont appreciate being in a little triangle of love. tell him, he needs to decide... either you or your friend. BECAUSE TRUST ME, if he is going back & forth like he seems to be now, you need to put a stop to it. i think your better off moving on, find someone whose all about you, and only you. If you try to date him, what makes you think he wouldnt be going behind your back while you guys were dating? boys lie... but then again.. if he picks your over your friend, then i say go for it.
best of luck hunny!
♥ Brittany
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