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my boyfriends friend...gone sry it is long
i have no idea what to do. my boyfriends friend (Karly)was getting in the way i talked to her and set her striaght.(we r in a lone distance realtionship) and now one of the other girls (katie)that did like him drug her self and died on his porch. the other friend of his who was a guy which he was so closed the used to do everything together found out the girl kaitie (who drug herself) and took a guy and killed himself. i have no idea what to do about my boyfriend he is really depressed and he thinks it is his fault i dont know why he does. i am scared he is going to do soemthign stupid and hurt himself. and know him and his sister want me to email Karly and talk to her make her feel better , but i dont want to do this because she slept with my boyfriend 5 months ago while he was drunk.. some one please help me!if i email her what should i say?? i need to do something i cant sit her and listen to my boyfriend tell me "if i dont email u back.. u will no it is becuase i have died of sadness in my sleep. Me.. The boy who is sitting in a coner crying... the bastrd, remember me? " please help me!
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Wow.. unfortunatly all you can do is be the "friend" in grilfriend. continue your supportive nature. if karly is a really good friend of his.. then she needs to be yours for the time being.. you can be the bigger person and will know what to say if you know what she means to him. If she means nothing to him then maybe you can just be a bigger person and just help to help. Life is rough and yea it sucks but might i suggest therapy... its not scary and its all confidential... it just might help if you both went.. hope all gets better and your troubles fade... good luck and stay strong..
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first of all, you dont KNOW that he got taken advantage of...that could just be his cover up...but you just need to let him know that he needs to realize that it isnt his fault and tell him to look around and realize all of the people that care about him. let him realize that if he does it just because she does it is just goin to create a huge chain reaction and more people are goin to probably do the same thing. show him how selfish it is to do that because look what this kd chic or whatever is doing to everyone else. ask him if he wants you to feel the way that he feels right now because you are sure its a terrible feeling. just let him know you are there for him no matter what
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For 14 year old girl, you are far to young to be mixed up with a guy with this many problems, or in a long distance relationship. How do you even find a way to see eachother? And I can't understand why you would still be with him after he cheated on you. Why put yourself through this misery?
You are upset right now because he is not giving you the attention you want. Well, at them moment he has a lot of problems to deal with, he can't give you attention. I think you should give him some space; end the relationship and let him figure things out. Clear your life of this drama.
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