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friendship
weird question i know. my best friend is moving soon, and i sent her a text telling her i was gonna miss her and a bunch of other friend stuff like that. everything i said i meant in a friend way but she took it the wrong way. someone read her fone and saw the texts and thought the same thing. now every one of my friends thinks i like her. and other people i dont even know! shes gonna be gone in 3 weeks.. and idk what to do. haha its funny cause i know its not true and that rediculous anyone would think that, but sucks cause no one believes what i say. help =/
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tell your friend that no matter how much she thinks that you like her more than a friend you dont its just that you consider as a best friend and will miss her and tell her if you were gay you would tell her up front
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There's not much you can do the best thing to do is ignore the rumors, and just tell your friends what really happened.
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Well,
like I said in my profile, I don't care what people think or say about me because things that people say, I KNOW aren't true so why would it matter? Why would it matter if a few people call you a lesbian? It wouldn't matter to me. When they say something, play it cool. Don't act like it matters. Just do normal stuff and when they say something and see you don't care about what they're saying isn't effecting you, they'll leave you alone. The reason why they're saying these nasty things about you, is because they want it to get to you. They want to make you mad and they want you to cry and be all upset but once they see that what they are saying to/about you, they'll get bored. Then, once that happens, talk to your friend, and tell her that what you said about "Missing her" was not like that! You're rioght... that IS rediculous because I said that to my friend, who moved away, and she said she would miss me too and we weren't lesbians or anything like that! My best friend is moving in a year and I'm going to miss her and I tell her that every day and a lot of other people tell her that so tell her that you're friend, (me, Kayla) tells her to straighten up because she's wrong about you and she knows it. She just wants to p*** you off and it's NOT gonna happen! If you want to talk about something TOTALLY off topic or need more advice, email me in my advicenators inbox OR email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
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Just tell your friend what you really meant by the text, so she understands. That might sound like a really short & lame answer but it will work. you'll probably laugh over the whole situation after!!
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ok i am on your side on this one but you'll have to..........you guessed it talk to her. thats the only way to sourt this problem out. look her in the eyes and tell her she nothing more than a good friend. but i do have to ask you, are you sure you only like her as a friend? let me know how it goes. i like to hear from everyone.
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Your friend thats about to leave is going to have to staighten this whole problem out. your going to have to tell that peeps took it wrong and that she's going to have to help you so this problem will be staighten out!
I hope i helped
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