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Im 15/f
I have 3 best friends. Well, all these guys like my one best friend and their always around her and soo many people follow her and try to be her friend! It's so annoying because sometimes she ignores me, and my crush is one of the guys that likes her, and shes always hanging out with him. My first question is do you think I should be mad at her becuase shes always ignoring me for boys and shes ALWAYS hanging out with my crush??? She also hangs out with this girl that hates me and she tells me she doesn't like her. I think thats a lie because shes always hanging out with her too and the girl thinks shes her best friend. It's werid because no boys liked her last year and she was alot different last year, she was a lot nicer and payed more attention to me. I'm not jealous but it just bothers me alot. My other best friend gets annoyed by this too. What should I do??? Please don't say talk to her because I already have and she didn't listen and I get in alot of fights with her and I don't want it to cause another one. Thanx<333
ShAnNoN***
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Sorry about your friend. But it seems like she really isn't a true friend. You said that you guys get in a lot of fights. In my opinion, I think I would be mad at her for all that she is doing. If she was a real friend, I think that she wouldn't be doing this to you. Does she know that you have a crush on that boy? Also, she wouldn't be hanging out with the girl that hates you. She could easily be talking about you behind your back. If this was happening to me, I would just tell her that I don't want to be friends with her any more. You don't deserve to be treated like that.
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First of all if your friend is ignoring you for boys than she isn't really a good friend. I had this happen to me once. I let it go and I made new friends. You should try that too.You never know maybe she will become nicer again,but until then let it go and make new friends.
I hoped i helped
claire
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you could just start ignoring her for a lil while and see if she even cares that you are doing this if she doesn't then yeah shes not a true friend..you could also do something to get her to notice you like dye your hair or something? then you should talk to her like if shes over at your house just tell her how you feel about what shes doing and tell her that its not only you that is annoyed by it.
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just talk to her and say how you feel about the guy and how you dont like that girl and say that she is ignoring you for them she might not even relized it but unless sumone says sumthing to her it will keep happening and you will feel better for telling her
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I dont think you should be mad at her.Talk to her and explain to her that you feel like your being angored and try to not get mad ... you could ruin your friendship because u got mad.If she wont talk try to get her to listen to you and ask her to give you a chance to explain.
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Well you have the same problem as my sister and my cousin well last summer me and my sister went down to mt cousins house and alot of guys liked my sister one of the guys that like her was my cousins biggest crush ever but at first my sister went out with this guy named chad then in the middle of this summer my sister started to go out with my cousins crush well my cousin was mad but she did deal with it and she still is.
what you should do is ask this guy what your best friend has that you don't if he answers don't try to please him that way just be your self and if he doen't like that then he is not with your time.
I hope I helped alot
YOUR friends always
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If your friend is hanging around boys that much and ignoring you alot you should talk to her and if she continues maybe it's timed to find a new
BF
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well shannon im not going to lie or try and tell you everything will work out between your freind and yourself. it sounds like you care a lot more about your guy's friendship and are pulling a lot more strings than your friend is. i hate to bresk it to you but if you tried everything and i mean everything in the book and she still wont budge, i think you need to find a new best friend. no friendship is worth being sad and angry over. try one more time but tell her this is your last chance caouse it sounds like your fed up with her bull. write back and let me know how it goes.
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i would ignore her for awhile if talking doesnt help. hang out with your other friends and forget her...if shes true she will come back to you and realise what shes been doing and how shes been acting *fake* and neglecting you.
friends are made and friends are lost..friends stay forever and others..dont. i lost a couple friends..its what happens especially in High School. it sux i know..but your true friends will stick by you
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