I have long blonde hair and i usually just wear my hair down or in a messy bun. but over the summer, i wanna try something different. are there any hair style suggestions that you guys could give me?
thanks! ill rate good!
bangs! bangs are a great summer look with long hair =)
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Well my friend Jake is in love with me, and I cant date anyone without him getting mad at me and I really wanna go out with this guy named Austin, but I cant I feel forced to go out with Jake cause if I dont everyone is going to get mad at me and he will hate me forever. Jake really loves me a lot all of my friends and his friends no it HELP! what do I do?
(I am a female and im 15)
well you have to look at it like what do you want more to lose your friend jake or go out with the kid you really like.
hope i helped..good luck
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i usually dont have confidence issues like this, but i needed some help, lol.
i`m going to a new high school this year, with mostly new kids. i want to try out for the football cheerleading squad. tryouts are in late july. anyway, i don`t know why, but i`m having confidence issues about it. i`m not sure what they expect of us, i`m afraid i`ll screw it all up, and i`m afraid i`m going to embarrass myself since i haven`t done cheerleading in such a long time. should i just go for it, or forget it?
i`m also shy to tell my family and friends that I want to do it and i don`t know why because really looking at it its not a big deal. i can dance and stuff, but like i said i don`t know what they expect. ugh, can someone give me some guidance?
you should always give something a try so go for it..your friends should totally support you.
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do you kno the song concrete angel? ya well that is me! i am sick of getting thrown around please help me!! i need all the help i can possibly get. am i going to die? i hope not! please this is all that i ask you just give me advice i need it so badly!!i mean i have gotting stiches 7 times cause of my mom and dad! please help!
im so sorry..you really should stay with a friend for a while..if you really want this to stop you should call a child abuse thing
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okay so i have this friend (im 13/f-hes 13/m.)he always seems depressed about everything. he says he really depressed and ive tried everythign to help him.he says he knows cutters and im worried that he cuts.he got out of this REALLY deep relationship with my best friend and he was soo happy with her but without her he seems empty and more depressed. he likes a new girl now and that helps...but im not sure how to help him get outta his "I hate life. It's not worth living." mode.and hes not suicidal-just any ideas? thanks a bunch!!! i rate extremely high!!!
tell him all the things he has to look forward to in life like getting the girl he likes,graduating,going to collage and etc.
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Im 15/f
I have 3 best friends. Well, all these guys like my one best friend and their always around her and soo many people follow her and try to be her friend! It's so annoying because sometimes she ignores me, and my crush is one of the guys that likes her, and shes always hanging out with him. My first question is do you think I should be mad at her becuase shes always ignoring me for boys and shes ALWAYS hanging out with my crush??? She also hangs out with this girl that hates me and she tells me she doesn't like her. I think thats a lie because shes always hanging out with her too and the girl thinks shes her best friend. It's werid because no boys liked her last year and she was alot different last year, she was a lot nicer and payed more attention to me. I'm not jealous but it just bothers me alot. My other best friend gets annoyed by this too. What should I do??? Please don't say talk to her because I already have and she didn't listen and I get in alot of fights with her and I don't want it to cause another one. Thanx
you could just start ignoring her for a lil while and see if she even cares that you are doing this if she doesn't then yeah shes not a true friend..you could also do something to get her to notice you like dye your hair or something? then you should talk to her like if shes over at your house just tell her how you feel about what shes doing and tell her that its not only you that is annoyed by it.
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There is this absolute gorgeous guy who I have somewhat of a crush on. My friends and I just started hanging out with him a few times this summer. He was flirting with one of my friends at a party. I was talking to him on IM that night, and we were flirting alot. He asked me when we were going to hook up. I told him only if hes not hooking up with other girls, and he said no only you. A few nights before he told me he wanted to hook up, he slept with this one girl. They didn't have sex, they just slept together. I don't want to go out with him, and I know this won't be anything serious, but I'm scard that if I hook up with him, I might get involved, and end up with a broken heart. I've never hooked up with a guy before, and this is the only guy I would ever want to. What do i do?
maybe you should give him a shot if its the only guy you would ever want to hook up with.
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heyy i really liek this kid but he goz 2 a different school and i really like him at should i do?
call him and ask him to come over or ask him if he wants to go somewhere like the mall or sumthin and get to know him better.
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ok well there's this guy in my neighborhood and i'm new here (well not really cuz i lived here for 3 years) but anyways... i think i have a crush on him and stuff but hes always around his friends and i met him like 3 years ago and we don't really talk and he's one year older than me.I'm really shy.... what should i do to get him to notice me???
go crazii ;] haha jk. invite him over to your house one day to hang out and try not to be shy cuz after he leaves you'll think about all the things you should have done and guys really don't like the shy type..so just act like hes your family or someone ur not shy infront of.
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last night we were online talking and i asked him who he was talking to, his ex gf carrie who goes to mentor and i dont even know her but i have heard about her and im like oh.... because i got extremely jealous and i never thought i would get jealous from him talkign to a girl and i dont even know why i did.... must have been because shes his ex and then hes like "she seems upset" and im like maybe she needs your makeup sex and i was being super gay about it and stuff and he stopped talking to me online and signed off to call her which made me feel bad....and.... then i signed off to go to bed cuz i felt upset and he called me and asked what was wrong and i said i didnt wanna talk about it and stuff and i went to bed but we still werent fighting and then today things were fine but i was still a little gay and just every little thing has annoyed me and i feel like talking to him im always being interrupted and i can never say what i have to say and everything i say is used against me and i feel bad for everything i say or do and i feel so frustrated and hurt and mad and sad all at the same time so we were on the phone and hes like "youre always selfish and i have never said anything" so i got super hurt and defensive and pissed so i was like "whatever im going bye" and he said bye and i hung up. and he just has a way of making me always feel bad. cuz hes like "sorry im a shitty bf" and i didnt say nething and hes like "thanks for telling me im not" and stupid crap like that. and hes like "ur selfish and i dont know how to get through to u". i dont wanna talk about it to him because he never says nething when im with my guy friends....but then again none of them are my ex's! im sick of always being scared to do anything because he will make me feel bad.... i cant deal with always feeling bad for everything! its like he can do whatever he wants but i cant because its wrong if i do it. what do i do?
you really should tell him that you are jelous of him talking to his ex and you should tell him that he hurts you alot and also that he makes you feel bad..don't let someone do that to you..
hope i helped-good luck
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im 5'7" and i weigh like 110. im really thin and i have trouble finding jeans. whenever i find some that are the right length theyre too baggy and stuff... i shop at wet seal, forever 21 --abercrombie sux so dont tell me to go there--any other stores where i can find relatively inexpensive jeans that have a lot of sizes? thanks
areopostle and hollister
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I'm 16, moving to college this fall, I have at the moment 3 people I consider to be my best friends... we're not going to the same colleges, but I never doubted for a second we wouldn't keep in touch, we've been friends for nearly 5 years, had our ups and downs but been solid for a year!
Well we decided a month or so ago we were all going to go together to get some piercings done! and tried to decide a date, it kept getting moved for various reasons... finally we decided wednesday but I found out I had an appointment on that day... and also needed to check with my workplace they didnb't have any problems with facial peircings... so asked if we could go next week instead... anyhow I found out today they went without me! the thing is, they didn't even tell me they were going... my friend said the other two decided to go because there was a party today and they wanted to show it off there... and she went along with them... now the thing is, I wouldn't have minded so much if they'd told me this, but I'm really hurt they value showing a pericing off more then going with their friend... and also that they went behind my back :(
What should I do about this? I have events and gigs coming up where I'm going with them and I don't know what to say to them or how I should react! I do tend to be a little emotional about these things but to me this is a big thing, that they chose this party over me!
i would be a lil emotional also if this happend to me..really i don't think you should stop being their friend or anything cuz then a whole buncha drama and everything and who really wants to lose a friend?..well i think when ur around them you would feel left out so just try to make the best of it and just forget about it
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I think my parents are gonna get a divorce? What do i stop or help to prevent that?
tell them how bad ur life is gonna be if they get a divorce and whatever else u feel.
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people say im really pretty and nice but it doesn't seem like anybody wants to be my friend. should i be like hyper and wild? cuz i have noticed that people like hyper and wild friends. idk what do i do?
you should really just be urself but if your boring then go crazi.
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