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Question Posted Friday July 1 2005, 9:05 pm

people say im really pretty and nice but it doesn't seem like anybody wants to be my friend. should i be like hyper and wild? cuz i have noticed that people like hyper and wild friends. idk what do i do?

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DancingKiwi123 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 8:31 pm:
i think that you should just be yourself but maybe be a little more outgoing if you are not already doing that. you shouldn't have to change for people to like you. people should want to be your friends for who you are. ~Kerri~

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Sw33t_Dr33ms_xOx answered Saturday July 2 2005, 8:57 pm:
ii DONT THiiNK YOU SHOUD BE WiiLD ND HYPER JUST BE URSELF..M0ST PPL JUST LiiKE FRiiENDS THAT ARE FUN TO BE WiiTH AND DONT GET B0RED ALOT..SO JUST BE URSELF AND MAKE THinnGS YOU DO FUN !

XOX ViiLLY

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mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday July 2 2005, 10:23 am:
You should just be your self!!! Why should you be someone else to fit in find friends that will accept you for who you are!

luv roxie

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xsunxkizzedx3 answered Saturday July 2 2005, 12:42 am:
you should really just be urself but if your boring then go crazi.

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PrincessOfAdvice answered Saturday July 2 2005, 12:28 am:
dont pretend to be someone your not thats not the right thing to do, the best thing to do is to be yourself and try to make new friend by being yourself and being really nice might help. I know making new friends isnt the easiest thing to do but in the end it will be worth it.
Good luck and i hoped i helped

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MELiixMARiiE answered Saturday July 2 2005, 12:28 am:
Weell if you maybe you should be a little wild and hyper not like HUGE hyper and wild ; just be more friendly and goofy and just having fun and talk alot because if people see you're having fun...they'll want to have fun with you. And then you talk to them, and then get a friendship going... so whenever you're out at a party or just hanging somewherre with friends friends.. just start making jokes, having a good time, and talking to them alot and find out what you have in common with them.. but if you don't like being hyper and wild I suggest you don't ; cause then you're not being yourself and then people won't get to know the real you. Hope I helped!!




Love,
MELii



p.s. And if you do decide to be hyper and wild.. don't get to carried away =)

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jodyfresh answered Saturday July 2 2005, 12:20 am:
girl you should just be yourself and dont care about what other people think of you. you want friends that will like you for who you are so you shouldnt try to be fake and be somebody you are not. you will find out who your real friends are.
BE YOURSELF!
*JODYFRESH*

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MD_Girl101 answered Friday July 1 2005, 10:38 pm:
Well if pple don't want to hAng out with you than I Am sure you Are a greAt person And that is there problm you should just be your self.
Hope I helped
MD_GIRL101

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crazyoutyamind answered Friday July 1 2005, 10:11 pm:
all i can say is that you should never get a friend without being your self around them because they awalys be excpting a lie from you and one day you will get tired of it

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KELSiixGRACE answered Friday July 1 2005, 10:03 pm:
just be yourself. dont try to be nething you're not because then you could come off fake or cheezy. be yourself and if people dont like you then fuck them, they havnt gotten to know you and are just jealous so play it like that.. keep me posted!! XO0X -- Kelsey

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JazziJazz answered Friday July 1 2005, 9:53 pm:
Just be yourself and eventually you'll find the right friends

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Mackenzie answered Friday July 1 2005, 9:19 pm:
To a ceRtain degRee yes, because hypeR and wild catches eveRybody's eye. Of couRse, make shoRe you do not oveRdo it.. you'll have the exact oppisite Result that you want if you take it too faR. Just smile, and be fRiendly and polite. OveRall, just be confident. Basically, it's all about confidence. Confidence is sexy, and confidence shows. Goodluck!! Hope I helped!! :D

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exyweetee99 answered Friday July 1 2005, 9:19 pm:
well u should never try to be anything that your not.. i think u should be yourself n you'll make friends..

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Courtney answered Friday July 1 2005, 9:18 pm:
People say the exact same thing about me too. But I really do think that you should be yourself because you'd be better off in the long run. Then you wouldn't have identity issues with recognizing who you truly are when you wake up one morning, in the future of course, and ask yourself this question which often does not involve simplicity. It's not about who you should be it's about what you want to be and if you're truly satisfied with yourself; the fact that no one seems to want to be your friend is irrelevent in this matter of if you're satisfied with yourself. You should be whatever you like to be. Friends accept you for who you are no matter anything and you shouldn't have to really front about it or pretend that you're someone that you're not . You're only hurting yourself. And when you think about it long and hard enough, it really just is childish and stupid to pretend b/c they're doing the same thing too. They have things that they're doing because they want to be " cool and popular" but they know that they want to show their own individuality and uniqueness ; for them to see that you're doing this makes them envy you. And that's why some of them can't deal with the fact of them being your friend. If they can't deal with it, then they don't deserve you. Understanding this is very important and you should really consider this very seriously.

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