There is this absolute gorgeous guy who I have somewhat of a crush on. My friends and I just started hanging out with him a few times this summer. He was flirting with one of my friends at a party. I was talking to him on IM that night, and we were flirting alot. He asked me when we were going to hook up. I told him only if hes not hooking up with other girls, and he said no only you. A few nights before he told me he wanted to hook up, he slept with this one girl. They didn't have sex, they just slept together. I don't want to go out with him, and I know this won't be anything serious, but I'm scard that if I hook up with him, I might get involved, and end up with a broken heart. I've never hooked up with a guy before, and this is the only guy I would ever want to. What do i do?
Peachgirly answered Saturday July 2 2005, 12:04 am: It seems like this guy is just looking for a good time,wants to have fun and doesn't want to have a serious relationship. You can hook up with him if you want but I suggest that you shouldn't become too attached to him and prepare to have your heart broken eventually. So don't expect to have a serious relationship with this guy. ♥ Peachgirly [ Peachgirly's advice column | Ask Peachgirly A Question ]
Ladyfish answered Friday July 1 2005, 8:45 pm: I dont think you should hook up at all. You will probably end up with a broken heart. he will get what he wants from you then get bored then leave. I dont wanna sem like a downer, just be careful. [ Ladyfish's advice column | Ask Ladyfish A Question ]
Ekaterina answered Friday July 1 2005, 12:20 pm: Well I think you should hook up he sounds like a nice guy but you never know dont get to attached to him incase you guys break up or anything else. [ Ekaterina's advice column | Ask Ekaterina A Question ]
blondebaby1016 answered Friday July 1 2005, 9:51 am: He seems like he just kind of moves on from girl-to-girl. If you don't want a broken heart, try to avoid 'hookups' and try not to let your heart get involved. Just be careful. [ blondebaby1016's advice column | Ask blondebaby1016 A Question ]
My_Lost_Hope answered Friday July 1 2005, 1:34 am: hook up with him if u really want to...but if you get involved a good way out of it is to say that you thought you liked him but when you hooked up you jus twerent feeling it do you know what im saying? [ My_Lost_Hope's advice column | Ask My_Lost_Hope A Question ]
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