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this year i have lost alot of friends for things that are confusing me. 1) i lost 2 frinds because of the way i eat (i put ketchup on chick'n) and because they said i talked alot about my family.
2) i lost a friend because her friend walked all over me and she never did anything to stop her/because she keept secrets from me about cutting herself but told everyone else and mad them promise not to tell me even though i was her best friend(at least thats what she said) 3) i lost 2 friends because of something someone else did! they blamed me even though i appologized for what happened. isnt that alot of friends to lose in such a sort period of time? what am i doing that is driving away all my friends? should i change myself? please help!!! ill tell u everything that happened!!
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You shouldn't change yourself for other people. Maybe you just find the wrong kind of friends. My advice is just wait for a new friend to come along. I've lost my fair share of friends and it sucks. I hope i helped.
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don't change yourself. they are obviously really sucky friends. the kind of friends you want are the kind who are honest, forgiving and dont care how you eat your chicken! my advice is to can these people who you call "friends" and get a new group..that may sound really tough after you've been in this group for so long..but i did it in 8th grade. i had a group of friends (about 6) and there was kinda a leader of the group (nina) and she would cause fights about the stupidist things and i got sick of it so i told her off and none of my so-called "friends" would back me off so i told them to never talk to me again and i left. now i had always been friendly with another group of people but not best friends(like i thought i had been with nina) so i went into that group and they were the funniest, nicest, people EVER! and they are now my best friends because they know exactly how i feel. and i have never been happier!!!!!!!!!! hope i helped!
~Candace
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If you are losing friends, then they werent true friends to you. No you shouldnt change yourself!<that is the last thing to do. Be yourself and try making new friends
Good Luck, I hope i helped
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you're probably not going to like what i'm about to say, but if they were willing to not be your friend because of the way you eat,because of what another friend did to them, or whatever #3 was.. then they weren't true friends. Don't change yourself.. that's the worst thing you can do. Just... get involved in local activities... like something at a church or something inside your school like a club or something. Get yourself out there and let people see how much of a personality you are... and... you have to be a friend to get a friend... if you see someone having a bad day at school or something... then make their day and sit with them at lunch or just encourage them or something..
HOpe it works out
God Bless
~aeromonkey~
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