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Hi,My name is Quinn...i like to skate and i love music im a pyro and...ive been through alot and I always help my friends cept im never helped...so i decided to open up a cloumn to help everyone trust me i can help
Gender: Male
Location: New York
Occupation: skating
Age: 13
AIM: xAutumnsAshes21x
Member Since: June 30, 2005
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Hi I need to find some skater sneakers and i am a girl does any one know any stores in the Glen burnie MD area where i can find them any malls what!!!? also i need to find nice jeans that are tight at the top and that are really long at the bottom and i really need to find a cool t-shirt to match thnx I Rate 5's all the way no matter what:-) (link)
hah ale shut up you fucking faggot maybe she wants to skate or maybe she likes the fucking shoes shut up ok so where you would get shoes is at either pacsun hot topi or ccs.com you an find pac sun or hot topi in your mall also you can find skater shoes in any shoee store


what kind of music is this grateful dead, frank zappa, little feet, the who, rolling stones, led zepplin, pat b., santana, weird al, rage against the machine, jimmy hendrix ?? (link)
grateful dead is metalish i think frank zappa he'sdead but idont know what you would call his music rock i guess dont oknow little feet the who is classi rock rolling stons zepplin pat b are also lassi rock santana is rockweird al does paradoys of sognsa(makes fun of) rage against the machine is rap/rock. hendrx is rock/blues


Ok, this is starting to bug me, I know that in america we have free speech, but omg this draws the line, STOP WHINING! I know that some of you advicenators dont deserve this, because your problems ARE real, but i have just read a "problem" about a sister who is being "too bossy," im sorry, but this screams 9 YEARS OLD all over it. Please, do not post such petty problems, you just sound blatanly stupid.
Once again, my apolagies to the people on here who actually do have a problem, and I would LOVE to help you, but to all you WHINERS out there, please just leave the problem be. (link)
you do have a point ause these questions are so riducloulous i awnserered 12 within the first 30 minutes i started here idont ask questiosn jsut awnser and ive seen stupid shit like my bak hurts what should i do and i mad e out with a guy and im a guy AM I GAY OR BI its ridiulous so yea you whiners GO FUKING DIE


I had me an epiphany (a revelatory manifestation of a divine being.)

this morning .. the doorbell rang .. about 8 o'clock (ish) .. behind the door was a 20-something old man .. neat looking character ..

he handed me a pampflet and .. the message was .. "have you seen Jesus?" .. danm! .. i said DAMN! .. as it so happens with me that in situations like this i tend to act very arogantly and .. allthough it may seem cool at the time .. it really is not cool at all .. one needs to take into acount the feelings of the person he or she interacts with .. i said .. "Jep! I just did!" and slammed the door shut.

later i thought .. a. did i hurt that poor bastards feelings .. and .. b. what does it all mean? .. (link)
haha ounds like in intresting story i woulda loved to see that one but....it probably was a warning of some sort or you know some guys doing his job idk this might not work with you but go look in the mirror look at yourself and ask yourself outloud what it means and then it'll prbably come to you if nto sorry

hope it works...

sincerly quinn


about a week ago, me and my boyfriend broke up after being together for about 7 months. then this guy that i had kinda liked asked me out and i said yes but now i'm regreting it. i still like/love my ex. he says he loved me. and my b/f calls me every morning and all the time. it is starting to drive me nuts. But i don't want to hurt him becuz he is a real good friend.and me and my ex broke up becuz i don't even know y. But he didn't treat me very nice. We did kiss but he never hugged me or called me. Then he went and bragged about it to all his friends and at the time he bragged to my now b/f. I don't know which one 2 choose..i love 1 but i like the other. i dont know...please help me out
13/f
i rate 5's (link)
wellaprently the ex was using you as arm candy so stick with the new one...its kinda funny i went out with a gf of mine for 7 months then i broke up with ehr but for a actual reason and thenshe had boyfriends shes also 13


i didnt know what category to put it in..but like besides spin the bottle, truth or dare, dare or double dare, blow/suck (with a notecard)...what other games are there to play at parties with boys and girls that are fun? thanks a bunch. i rate 5s!!! (link)
ok so a girl or boy gets blind folded if its a gril whos blind folded all the boys stand/walk around the room whoever the girl touches first she has to take off the blind fold and kiss them...or the the boys blindfolded and the girls stand/walk around the room


A lot of times my back hurts when I'm sitting in one position for just a couple of minutes. And I don't know what it is! Does anybody have any suggestions as to what this pain is? I rate high. (link)
doyou slouch alot that could be it... suggest you see a doctor or ask a parent...not much behind that...

sincerly Quinn


(i'm 14/F and so is the guy)
This guy i met earlier this year (he went on a school trip to Paris that i went on too) , asked me to dance at the end of the school year dance, and so we danced three times. in the days following he and i talked on the phone and my friends kept telling me that "you like him so much" and "you two are so gonna go out." well sure enough he asked me out. I wasn't sure if i really liked him... but i said yes. a couple days after he went to San Diego, and i went to summer camp so i didnt see him for about 2 weeks. the first week i talked to him on the phone, but our conversations were just so dead... and i didnt think i liked him anymore. I decieded that when we were both in town we'd see a movie or sumthing with friends and if i really didnt feel anything i would break up with him. well we are both back. and i REALLY dont like him. i dont need to hang out with him to realize that. the only thing that has kept me from breaking up with him is that i hate to hurt people's feelings. I know he still likes me, and i'm his first girlfriend and all. i know i can't pretend like this forever... but I just don't quite know what to say.. or how to minimize how much his feelings are hurt.

HELP! thanks much (link)
uhm...the longer you wait the longer its going to hurt him so you should break up with him soon real soon...tell him...that tits over theres no other guy in your life and that its not him or you your just not feeling it our onversations are dead and theres nothign going on between us

hope it works...

sincerly Quinn


My Golden Retriever named Katie is 13 going on 14, i havent gone through a pet dieing experince my question is there any way to prepare myself in case my dog dies anytime soon? Katie's my First Dog and i love her sooooooo Much i would hate it if she died this Year Month Week Day
Can You Please Help Me Prepare for the Sadest Day of my Life???!?!??!?!?!?

HELP i'll RATE HIGH (link)
teheres no preparing for a death...im going to be straight forward here it might hurt but im sorry whatever is going to happen is gunna happen and nithing can change that your dog is getting old now its just life theres nothing really you can do to make yourself not sad when your dogs dies...sorry...but whenever it happens it happens and your gunna be sad but you'll get over it...

sincerly Quinn


Okay so Tuesday morning I woke up and I found that I had a bunch of bumps on my face. It kind of feels like sandpaper, and it's only on the edges of my face. Like my jawline and the top of my forehead and the lines around my nose and eyebrows. Does anyone know what this is? And how can I get rid of them? Thanks to anyone who answers! (link)
pimples...get like acne cream or something and wash ur face more often(if u dont already)...or your like breaking out in hives i dont know consult a doctor?

hope it works...

sincerly Quinn


There is this absolute gorgeous guy who I have somewhat of a crush on. My friends and I just started hanging out with him a few times this summer. He was flirting with one of my friends at a party. I was talking to him on IM that night, and we were flirting alot. He asked me when we were going to hook up. I told him only if hes not hooking up with other girls, and he said no only you. A few nights before he told me he wanted to hook up, he slept with this one girl. They didn't have sex, they just slept together. I don't want to go out with him, and I know this won't be anything serious, but I'm scard that if I hook up with him, I might get involved, and end up with a broken heart. I've never hooked up with a guy before, and this is the only guy I would ever want to. What do i do? (link)
hook up with him if u really want to...but if you get involved a good way out of it is to say that you thought you liked him but when you hooked up you jus twerent feeling it do you know what im saying?


OK well I was just talkin to my b/f and hes like "call me tomorrow cuz im tired n stuff and i wanna talk to you when im not tired so i can tell you the truth and not be all silly n stuff" and i was like "truth about what" and he wouldnt answer me but hes like "good luck tomorrow on your thing" then i was like "thanks.." and hes like "bye love ya" and i just don't know what to expect and don't know if i should call him or not and if i cant trust him and he cant tell me whats up then i dont know if it'll work out..what do u think will happen and what should i do? (link)
well dont just go off expecting hes gunna break up with you and dumphim what ever is going to happen is going to happen maybe its going to be a good thing theres not much dont call him tongiht though hes probably alseep or really tired...if he wanted to be awake to do something its probably fopr the better...but really cant tell you anything just hope for the best

sincerly quinn


okay so i have this friend (im 13/f-hes 13/m.)he always seems depressed about everything. he says he really depressed and ive tried everythign to help him.he says he knows cutters and im worried that he cuts.he got out of this REALLY deep relationship with my best friend and he was soo happy with her but without her he seems empty and more depressed. he likes a new girl now and that helps...but im not sure how to help him get outta his "I hate life. It's not worth living." mode.and hes not suicidal-just any ideas? thanks a bunch!!! i rate extremely high!!! (link)
ah he soundslike me even my age...well how i used to be...when my gf of 5 months(we were togehter 7 this is jsut one break up) broke up with me i thought nothing would ever cheer me up...i tried to commit suicide and eventually it got to my parents and they brought me to a asylum to get an evalutationn...nevermnd that what you should do with him...is try to show him a good time...if you know what he likes to do or things he likes bring him out and do those things try to make him feel like people actually care about him and maybe try to hook hikm up with that girl....



hope it wokrs...

sincerly Quinn


I'm a 13 year old female. Almost a year ago I became friends with a boy, also 13. We have always been very close, we have gone out at some points and up until last Friday we would hug and kiss all the time and we were close. Then on Monday night, he told me that he didn't think we should be so close anymore and that he wanted to stop. We weren't a proper couple so he wasn't breaking up with me but it felt like that. Now he wont hug me and he barely talks to me. He's suddenly got very close to another girl and I have no idea why he's suddenly changed. I really miss his friendship and I miss our closeness. I have tried talking to him about it but he tells me I'm being pathetic etc. Next week I am going on a school trip to France and I am so scared that he will get closer with the other girl I mentioned. I know I'm being posessive but he was my best friend and I miss him, I have no idea what to do. (link)
well its pretty obvious here...he likes that other girl and thats why he didnt want to be so close because he thought it would ruin things with the other girl...you should tell him that you just wanna talk to him now you dont want to be ignored or avoided only thing is you might have to deal with his girlfriend..if they start to go out and i dont know...but just talk tohim about it tell him you would just like to talk to him still and not just drift away from eachother


hi. I was hoping one of you could help me. I used to smoke pot. not alot maybe 7 times. but i havent since april 20th(i quit). I was hoping if one of you could tell me if i have any THC in me at all. even if its like.. 2%?? after two months?? thanks. (link)
uhm two months most liekly gone i went through this with my brother...but he was worse he had to use more pills to ge it out i think...but it should be out try looking it up online


Ok well i ive been in a relationship for about 2 months now with one guy and things are getting kinda boring and well his friend i really really like him he is just funny and pretty cute hes not bad at all and well.. I dont know what i should do i dont even know if I might be cheating on him I think I am like ive kinda been talking to his friend alot and flirtin with him so what should i do dump my boyfriedn go out with his friend
or w8 a while im so confused help!!!
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HAHAH nice question ive been in the samemix before and ifyou really want to you dump ur boyfriend....but after you should wait a week or 2 or until he's over yuou cause uf you dont wait he will get mad and wind up hating both of you after i while he'll get over himself but that will happen and there might be a few arguemnts maybe a fight ifyou dont wait but yea thats pretty much it

hope it works...

sincerly Quinn


all through middle school i had like 3 good friends. then i went to highschool... and there's a lot more people. i made new friends. so what... right? well my new friends are kind of the "fast" crowd and i wont do everything they do and they're cool with that. i hang out w/ them a lot during school because none of my old friends are in any of my classes. i still hang out with my old friends on weekends, and call them all the time, and talk to them at school when i can. i eat lunch w/ them about half the time. but they get mad at me sometimes and get all snappy for no reason. and purposefully make snide remarks about my other friends. if i tell a funny story or something about something i did with my other friends, they get all mad "oh you were with them friday night." i mean really, i'm not their propery. my other friends dont like my old friends that much either, but when i ask them to stop talking bad they do. my old friends wont. how do i make them understand that i'm not going to ditch them? (link)
you dont really need to make then understand that if there not going to accpet that youve made new friends and didnt exactly move on they shoudlnt be so pissy about itthere most likely just jealous maybe you could invite them along with your friends...but you should tell them that your not going to leave them that you just like to be with other people sometimes and not just them all the time cause i think we all know that the same people over and over gets boring after a while

hope that works...

sincerly Quinn




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