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loving his friend?
Ok well i ive been in a relationship for about 2 months now with one guy and things are getting kinda boring and well his friend i really really like him he is just funny and pretty cute hes not bad at all and well.. I dont know what i should do i dont even know if I might be cheating on him I think I am like ive kinda been talking to his friend alot and flirtin with him so what should i do dump my boyfriedn go out with his friend
or w8 a while im so confused help!!!
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i know exactly how you feel in this situation.. and honestly if you dont have feelings for your boyfriend anymore then you should break up with him and not lead him on anymore.. but as for the friend.. if he likes you as well and you two want to get together you should wait a little while just for the sake of your boyfriend.. because i have dont that before broken up with a byofriend and went straight onto his friend.. and it ended up messing up there friendship badly and hurting my boyfriend at the time who was really an amazing guy.. and youll feel guilty for it and it will end up getting in the way of things. you know?
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HAHAH nice question ive been in the samemix before and ifyou really want to you dump ur boyfriend....but after you should wait a week or 2 or until he's over yuou cause uf you dont wait he will get mad and wind up hating both of you after i while he'll get over himself but that will happen and there might be a few arguemnts maybe a fight ifyou dont wait but yea thats pretty much it
hope it works...
sincerly Quinn
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OMG, I've been in your situation before and I had no idea what to do! I didn't want to talk to anyone about it because I was afraid that they'd think I was betraying my boyfriend. I really liked my boyfriend, but I wasn't feeling it back from him, so I started to talk to his friend more. I started to get feelings for him and I was afraid to choose between him and my boyfriend. Before making any rash decisions, talk things over with your boyfriend. Tell him that things might not work out if there's nothing exciting going on. If you decide that you don't like him anymore, then you should break it off with him (after careful thinking.) Continuing to date him will only hurt both of you if your feelings for him aren't there anymore. Furthermore, if you decide to go out with his friend, you should make sure that no one gets the wrong idea about you and label you as a "player" or anything like that. If your boyfriend cares about you right now, he should be able to understand that your relationship will be better as "just friends." The rest is up to you, I'm sorry if I couldn't help. The decision you make will be the right one if you really know what you want and consider all the consequences. I'll be here if you ever need anything. Good luck!
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ok if you really think you like his friend better than you should tell your bf that you think you think that theres not that connection between you two anymore and that you like his friend and you would like to be just friends
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For me the whole friend thing gets pretty sticky. If it were me, I'd probably let it go for now. Break up with your current - and just be honest - tell him you are not feeling it and that you just want to be friends. Wait for the dust to settle before you actually talk to the friend.
Now, I'm not sure if you've had sex with this guy - depending on your age, I really hope not. Also if the guys are best friends you may be putting yourself right in the line of fire to get hurt. Just think about this and make sure you really like this other guy before you really hook up with him.
Either way, ditch the current boyfriend. You can be single for a while - get some air and some space.
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