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He's gone cold.
I'm a 13 year old female. Almost a year ago I became friends with a boy, also 13. We have always been very close, we have gone out at some points and up until last Friday we would hug and kiss all the time and we were close. Then on Monday night, he told me that he didn't think we should be so close anymore and that he wanted to stop. We weren't a proper couple so he wasn't breaking up with me but it felt like that. Now he wont hug me and he barely talks to me. He's suddenly got very close to another girl and I have no idea why he's suddenly changed. I really miss his friendship and I miss our closeness. I have tried talking to him about it but he tells me I'm being pathetic etc. Next week I am going on a school trip to France and I am so scared that he will get closer with the other girl I mentioned. I know I'm being posessive but he was my best friend and I miss him, I have no idea what to do.
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..Well like others have said..You cant control his feelings..Maybe you should just try and talk to him and see what he is feeling..Maybe he just wants to try something else for a little while..But your still very young and have your whole life to find people..So you shouldnt worry about it now you should just try and move on and meet new people..Hope I helped`
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well its pretty obvious here...he likes that other girl and thats why he didnt want to be so close because he thought it would ruin things with the other girl...you should tell him that you just wanna talk to him now you dont want to be ignored or avoided only thing is you might have to deal with his girlfriend..if they start to go out and i dont know...but just talk tohim about it tell him you would just like to talk to him still and not just drift away from eachother
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This is a pretty hard situation, because you cant help somones feelings towards somone elts yano?..and i know you have tryed to talk to him and if he doesnt understand than just give him somtime..Im glad you relize that you shouldnt together at this time because he ovesally doesnt feel for you,maybe his other girl hes intersted in is a bitch,maybe SHE changed him.Or if not maybe he is just growing up and he relizes that having a long trem relationship is just not for him.Listin out,you both are young and you still have so much more to life.Let him be his own person,and be free damn girl your single theres so much more out that yano?..He`ll come around i know he will and even if it takes him weeks to relize how much of a jerk he is,trust me he`ll come around.Good Luck..if this continues please message me back =D Xox0`*
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You're not going to like this part of what I have to say, but it's really difficult to carry on any type of relationship at your age. What I want you to remember is that people go through life and will get "broken up with" or do the breaking up themselves several times throughout life. A lot of times you won't understand why, and yes it will hurt, but sometimes you just need to except it and move on. Now, losing a friend is much harder. In order to at least keep him as a friend you have to first except that he doesn't want to be intimate with you anymore. I'm sure the reason for that is because he's found someone new, I know this sounds harsh and I'm sorry. You need to let him know that you support his decision and you support him being with this girl because if it makes him happy that's all you want. That shows a good friend. Explain to him that you still hope that you two can try to go back to being friends as you were before. Now I want you to think about your trip in a completely different light. Instead of thinking of it as a way for him to get closer to some girl, think of it as a way for you to take your first big step in getting over him. I think it will be an excellent way for you to get your mind off things. Just think about all those cute French boys who are just waiting to see you! I hope this helps and let me know how you do!
~Devan~
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well i guess the only thing to do is to move on and forget him im sry but ya know thats life
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