Hey my name is Kristina I`m 13 and I love giving advice to young kids,teen`s and somtimes even grownups. I`m new to this website so i hope to help as many people as possable, so feel free to ask me ANYTHING.
Some things I`m entersted in is hanging out with my friends,going out to places,shopping with my girls,movies with my guys,and most of the time I`m home on my computer. I`m a very outgoing person and I talk a lot haha. So message me whenever, I`d love it =D Xoxo`*
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gender~female
age~13
well a cuple of weeks ago i saw the sisterhood of the traveling pants and in the movie the girls my died and it made me think of my mom and after a while in the movie the girl said i miss my mom sooo much its like i have no mom and she was my best friend that i can talk to bout anything.....im crying rite now writing this to you..... my mom is sick but shes a pissy bitch sometimes i mean all my friends like her and alot of my friends that are boys say shes hot and i hate it bc its so annoying but the thing is is that i cry all the time and its not just bc of my mom its bc of boys to and i think about loosing my mom and as much as i say i hate her il miss her so much and i played this song the other day and it was a country song \"monday morning church\" by alan jackson and its a reli sad song and she walked in my room and said when i die make sure you play this at my wake the thing is, is that im scared bc maybe shes not telling me something and im moving with my dad soon but im not sure if i want to yet bc if my mom is ganna die soon i wanna be with her ya no...i mean i have alot of friends and all to talk to but for some reason u came to my mind first and since you dont no who i am it made it easier...
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you no me i was in your tech. class in school..if you think you no who i am im me (link)
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Jezz..I was heart broken just reading this brings tears to my eyes..Theres not much you can do except comferet your mother as best as possable..I know this is tuff and all,but your mom is also making you feel like shit by saying that about the song thing..I def. think you should talk to your mother about how this is confliting with you and how shes making you upset by this,because that wasnt rite..I understand why you dont want to move in with your dad..In ways this is good because if you move in with your father than the inpact of all the crap on your mothers side will balance out. And again you def. need to have a longg chat with your mother (this might sound corny,but TRUST me on this one she`ll def. understand)And before you jump to conclusion make sure your mother knows what shes talking about..you might just be getting upset over the littlest thing..Ask her questions like these.."How do you know that your going to pass?".."What are you going to pass from?".."Do you know if this will be happeneing anytime soon?"ect. I have never gottin a question like this,so thi sis very hard for me to answer,and i might not have givin you the best advice but i tryed yano? and im really sorry about your mom =`( I wish i could help so much more but i ran out of so many things to say..concidering the fact that its almost 6am. hah jezz..PLEASE message me back!! I`d love to hear about whats going on..HOPE I HELPED!! Xoxsorry
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gender~female
age~18
well i went out to dinner with this guy and hes soooo hot and he farted at the dinner table in a resteruant but i acted like i didnt hear him then we went to my place and we ended up fucking and when he was about to bust he farted i really dont wanna c him anymore and he keeps calling me how shoukd i tell him i dont want to b with him anymore? (link)
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Hmm thats a tuffy..call him and tell him that you think being friends is so much more better rite now. Tell him you cant handle a relationship,and it will be for the better. Dont break his heart..just be nice about it and tell him at the best time..hope i helped
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ok, i just met this guy in terrytown. He looked really good to me, and i thought id take a shot at it. Obviously im gay,My name is Tommy Thortan.Im 15,and i was born in NC,Raleigh. So i met him in a club, it was gay night on a friday, i met this guy named corneliouse. He was a real sweetheart his middle name was dana, and i was digging all of his energy. Well i brought him home after a few beers at the bar. I was eating sunflower seeds and we were watching BET nightley news. Well, He looked at me, in sort of a weird way, and said, "want to do something freaky?" I said sure why not, im in the mood to PARTAY. So he takes his cloths off and starts rubbing on my penis.And me and him are making out so i make the TV louder because my mom was sleeping in the next room over. So he takes the seeds and he is gentley massaging my butthole with the seeds. One gets stuck and i freak out. I throw him off and shove my hand up my ass, whiech forces my bowels to move,i shit on the floor in front of him, and he smelled like shit!He said "eew sick dude, get a life" put his cloths on, and left my house. I left a message on his phone that said " im sorry about the other night, i freaked out, but nobody ever shoved sunflower seeds up my ass before, it was a new expirience for me, but i hope u come by so i can annel atack you! Call me back later sweet pee, your lover, Tommy.Can you give me advice on how to get him back. Please i need you, or im going to shit on you, and thats promiced! (link)
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Hmm this seems pretty tuff..Iv never been ina situation like this before,maybe you can call him more and figure out what his deal is..tell him you didnt mean harm,but you were scured,tell him excatly what you toled me,and how you wanna start the relationship over(but have it clean this time)no dorty dorty just yet!! wait a week or to..than you can get your freek on..if he ends up not talking to you for a while,message me back..id be GLAD to help =D..
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and i love how as im writing this
im talking to you online hehe only WE
will know the insiders over this message..(if that made any sence haha)IHEARTYOU!!
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okay, i just met this guy about 4 days ago and i really like his personality, so im starting to like him.. and he was kool earlier today untill now when hes acting like a jackass but in a flirty way. well i get mad easily so i got mad at him and asked him why he was acting like that and that i thought he liked me and he said he does, but he has yet to call me back or txt me or anything.. what should i do? was i too fast for liking him? (link)
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Well..Insted of jumping to conclusion, ask him why hes not responding to your text mesages and why he wont call you back..Maybe hes shy to talk on the phone but yet he has no problem talking to you over the computer,so he obvesally isnt ignoring you if hes still talking to you over the computer,dont get all teary eyed over this though..Theres a resionable explanation for this..and somtimes its good for him to fool around (it shows his personalty) but if hes a total jackass than fuck it..you dont need some guy bossing you around..remember he doesnt own you,YOU OWN HIM ;-D hahah later sweetheart xo
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ok so i got this sample called biosilk from a friend n you just put it on your hair wet or dry and it makes your hair all silky or w\e....where can i find it and how much is it??....its called BIOSILK!!! thanks..by the way it works awesome!! (link)
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I LOVE BIOSILK!! its about 25$ (very expensive,because it works really good!) and i got mine at CVS you can get it in any hair product store or at the mall..
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i know these two girls. one has been trying to be friends with the other for a long time but the other girl doesnt care at all, and she thinks the only reason she wants to be her friend is because she likes a boy or something. im not sure of the whole story. what should they do? (link)
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I would absoutly love to answer this question but i dont understand the situation,you made it seem so confuesing..can you message me back explaining this question more carefully?im sorry for the inconveenence..Xoxo
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my deals only 2 feet long how does it get bigger? (link)
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Hmm, ever watch Auston Powers?..well try using a penis inlarger haha...
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i know this girl and i really like her....she likes me bac but we nvr talk anymore....what should i do????? (link)
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Hey,this is a great question..You might be embarressed to start a conversation with her,but dont be..even if your not embarressed, It`s always good to start a convo. with her..If its on the enternet dont always wait for her to IM you,somtimes you gotta do it yourself..If its out in general and if you see her around go up to her and ask the little ladie how shes doing,It doesnt hurt to talk to her i hope,rite? If this young ladie likes you she probably feels the same way,Just always try to talk to her even if its about the most corneyest things,i mean its still a conversation,and its good to make a girl laugh! haha I wish you best of luck,and if anything elts is bothering you or if this doesnt work out please message me back,I really hoped i helped you!!.. Xox0`*
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Im going to the movies with my boyfriend on Friday, all we do is hold hands and a couple times before he put his arm around me. How do I know if he wants to kiss me but is too nervous? (link)
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You`ll know if he wants to kiss you..If he constentlly stares at you,talks to you a lot,and when you turn your head away he`ll keep looking,you`ll also know when hes just about to kiss you is when hes leaning towards you..Good Luck, tell me how it went ;-D
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I am trying to get in shape over the summer...any ideas? And i am trying to eat healthy. thanks (link)
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Yeah Im trying to get in shape also..Try Jumproping for at least 30 min. a day for a week,you`ll see a BIG improovement. Try eating more healthy foods such as appels,cheese,carrots ect. Try not to eat much of the junk food with lots of calories,because trust me thats what puts on the pounds for you. Maybe you can exorcise in your room to music..(I do it hah). Even going to the gym 3 times a week is good for you. Doing situps is also very good for you,it not only balences your weight but it forms yourself a little sixpack and TRUST ME all boys dig chicks with sixpacks..When you find out whats helping you,send me a message because I`d like to know myself ;-D..Hope I helped,and Good Luck!
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what are some ways to tell if a boy likes you? (link)
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These following signs are way`s to tell if a boy likes you..
-*-He will call you beautiful insted of hot.
-*-He will call you back when you hang up on him.
-*-He will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
-*-Wait for the boy who kisses your forhead.
-*-Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats.
-*-Who holds your hand infront of his friends.
-*-Who thinks your just as pretty without makeup.
-*-Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you. how much he cares about you.
-*-And how lucky he is to have you.
-*-Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says "That's Her."
Hey was there a poroblem with my answer that you had to delete it?
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I'm a 13 year old female. Almost a year ago I became friends with a boy, also 13. We have always been very close, we have gone out at some points and up until last Friday we would hug and kiss all the time and we were close. Then on Monday night, he told me that he didn't think we should be so close anymore and that he wanted to stop. We weren't a proper couple so he wasn't breaking up with me but it felt like that. Now he wont hug me and he barely talks to me. He's suddenly got very close to another girl and I have no idea why he's suddenly changed. I really miss his friendship and I miss our closeness. I have tried talking to him about it but he tells me I'm being pathetic etc. Next week I am going on a school trip to France and I am so scared that he will get closer with the other girl I mentioned. I know I'm being posessive but he was my best friend and I miss him, I have no idea what to do. (link)
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This is a pretty hard situation, because you cant help somones feelings towards somone elts yano?..and i know you have tryed to talk to him and if he doesnt understand than just give him somtime..Im glad you relize that you shouldnt together at this time because he ovesally doesnt feel for you,maybe his other girl hes intersted in is a bitch,maybe SHE changed him.Or if not maybe he is just growing up and he relizes that having a long trem relationship is just not for him.Listin out,you both are young and you still have so much more to life.Let him be his own person,and be free damn girl your single theres so much more out that yano?..He`ll come around i know he will and even if it takes him weeks to relize how much of a jerk he is,trust me he`ll come around.Good Luck..if this continues please message me back =D Xox0`*
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I got involved with this guy at a camp i was at... and we love each other a lot.. but he lives 4 hours away from me.. We are both devastated by this... But what i want to know, is how am I supposed to keep this relationship going when, I rarely will see him.. maybe at the most 3 times a year... ... Help, I'm heartbroken. (link)
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Aww sweetheart, long distance relationships are hard i have a friend thats involved in one..In all honisty most long distance relaionships do not end up lasting for a very long time, eather because at one end or another the person ends up cheating, fights occure,and trust is gone..In order for you to keep this relaionship you need to have a long conversation with your boyfriend and tell me how you feel, he probably resembels the same way you do. You also have to know that you trust him with other girls, because since you dont live rite down the road from him your not going to know where he goes and what he does every friday night, yano what im tryna say?..well i hope everything works out well and maybe you can be one of the first young ladies to make a comitment to a long distance relaionship =D Good Luck Xox0`*
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ok me andmyb/f were in his pool and he stuck it in me for like 3 min but ti kept comin out(in those 3 min) and he said nothing came out of him ....we didnt use protection, wat is the chance of me gettin pregnamt??????? (link)
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99% chance..anybody can get pregnent with out the use of a condom, even with a condom you can still get pregnet in a way..Dont get to worked up about this tho..and don thave sex with out a condom if your younger, you dont want to take the chance`s of becoming preg. it would suck BIG TIME ..good luck
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lately ive been getting horny more often than i used to. what does this mean? am i just going through a weird hormone stage or am i like addicted? (link)
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Hunny, you cant be addicted to being horney, its just a natural thing that most boys and girls go through..trust me its just a stage youll grow out of it unlike some people they dont..but its totally natural..xo
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i seem to have bad taste in guys.. i always end up meeting guys that doesnt work out right but im seriously unpatient and i dont know what to do.. i dont know if its i get too jealous easily or i get attached but everytime i seem to like a guy too fast i get heartbroken.. how do i fix this? (link)
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Stop rushing things, it will get you no where..If you choose to always have to like a guy than do so..but that doesnt mean you have to be together with the guy,your going way to fast and this will interfear with other things you have to acomplish in life..You will also be labled by people this way. Try to hang out more with you girl friends, there always fun. And yes i admitt iv been heatbroken before also and it SUCKS and i totally and resemble to how your feeling, but if your not with sombody how can they break your heart..you see they cant! so try to take things a little bit slower this time and get to know this person before you get together with them, that way your realtionship will last and stay strong..I hoped i helped you, and Gook Luck with your future.."Girls just wanna have fun"
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My friend was trying to set me up with this kid.. And when I was talking to him he had a friend over his house.. I guess you can say me and his friend kinday clicked.. I have to say I do like him a little bit but I denied that I do and that ive heard he is interested in me also. The thing is a while ago him and his gf of for what i hear 2 years broke up. I guess they are trying to fix things and I respect that. The reason I said I dont like him is because Im afraid of her gettin hurt.. But I heard he was interested in me.. I dont want to hurt the girl because Im not like that.. any advice on what I can do? (link)
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Well if you have feelings for this boy, and he has feelings for you also you should def. talk it out with him. Just tell him.."We both have feelings for eachother and were not getting anywhere in this relationship, i need to know whats going on because if your trying to fix things with your X than i totally respect that, but you cant keep me waiting like this because its not fair for me eather.." trust me thats excatly what i said to my x boyfriend..And if your really close friends with her maybe you should try to move on..or at least dont tell her how much you like him because it could end up in a girl fight or never talking again, but on the other hand if you want to be totally honist with her you can tell her but try to leave out the fact that he likes you back because than you`ll be starting a whole other fight not only between the two of you but him also..I hoped I helped you, and good luck =D xo
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so theirs this boy and my best friend likes him nd hes trying to fuckk me and i dunno what to do. . help
thanx (link)
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Well if you respect your best friend a lot, than you wont fall for him..Just tell this boy that you respect your friend a lot more than to go behind her back a do somthing that you`ll regret..and always remember " Hoe`s before bro`s" =D..hoped i helped
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waht about popping a cherry
and what the hell is masterbateing ..
and how do you no if you bleed when ur cherry pops
please help me !! (link)
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Masterbateing is a way to pleasure yourself..
The expression of "popping a cherry" means when sombody that is no longer a virgin anymore (had sex for the first time) have a blood vessel type thingy inide of them..and when a man sticks his penis into the woman it pops..the way you know weather its poped or not is if a little bit of blood appers..
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If you go to the Doctor's and get tested to see if you are a virgin or not, could it come up posotive even if you haven't had sex?
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No, doctors tests have increased over time, and the only thing you can acutally get tested for is if your preganent or not..theres not tests to see weather your a virgin..xo
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