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Age: 14
Member Since: June 29, 2005
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Last Update: August 13, 2005
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hi i am worried about my family and how they yell a lot. My brother is dating a girl that has a baby but is not his. And he wants to marry her. But my father is against it. And if my brother marries her than my father said he will disown him. What can i do to help both my brother and my father? (link)
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Wow, that's rough! Really hard question too... I think that You should talk to each of them first individually. To your father simply say "Dad, I think that maybe it's okay that ____________(brother's name) is in love with ___________(girlfriend) and even if she has a baby, it's ok. People make mistakes like having a child early on. She did a good thing and kept the child, even if she could have put it up for adoption, she kept it because she loves it." etc....
To your brother say something like
"It's great that you love _________(girlfriend) but are you sure that marrage is coming up soon? Dad's not very happy about it and well, I see where he's coming from, not saying that you shouldn't get married, but I see where he's coming from. Even if it is quite normal in the world for there to be a child in the family that's not the husband/wife's. But still, thinking about it dad does have a point. But you should follow you're heart."
I can't make the choice for your family. But I think that you should just show your brother and dad the other's side of view. Maybe they will agree on what is best for them.
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hey, i understand what your saying..but its not like shes making fun of me..its just that she doesnt like me and i dont like when people dont like me...has anything like this ever happened to you? (link)
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Well, if you live in my town, and you know who I am, it's very well known that I'm the most hated person in my town. But hey, doesn't bother me. I'm who I am and I don't change for anybody. If she doesn't like you, she doesn't like you. The world isn't going to like everyone. Otherwise, would the Iraq war be happening? Would there have been a Berlin wall? Would Lindsay Lohan and Hillary Duff be fighting? (Humor...)You need to realize that it's not going to be a perfect world. Everything has something negitive to say no matter what. It's just going to get more complicated with more thought. Ignore it and it's going to calm down. She may not like you, but it's not the end of the world. Is she so important to you that you have to spend time thinking about her if she doesn't like you? Me for example, a lot of people don't like me and spend their free time obsessing on ways to torchure me that doesn't even work. If it bothers you confront her, but I don't see a reason why you should. Like I said, everyone's going to hate someone and someone always has something negitive to say no matter what.
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this girl in school rele hates me and idk wut to do-im not mean to her @ all..shes always telling people im a snob and that im stuck up and rich. but mean while shes the one with no friends so its sad. idk wut to do..
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Well, have you ever done anything to her in the past? Sometimes, the past still lives in people's heads. And this girl most likely DOES have friends, but not with the people in her town. She's probably very popular with a type of group of people. And if it pisses you off, stand up to her and ask her for a full-on fist fight. It may not be the smartest idea, but it shows her you're not scared. This person may not turn this fight down either, so beware of the conciquences. Do it if it get's out of hand.
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dear abby opps i mean dear katie,
all my friends are at camp..and there are no hott guys at the camp i work at what do i do with my time?!
- mike hunt (link)
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Well my cunt, i mean Mike Hunt(c)
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umm my boyfriend still likes his ex girlfriend...and i really really like him ALOT....like u hav no idea...and they were both on theyre way to my house ((together))...walkin n they left at 6 and its now 8 it was far away but not THAT far....please help me!!
sincerely,
oo god bf problems! (link)
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Well, there's a big problem in this tangle. The cause of the tangle: Trust and comitment. The fights between you and your boyfriend and the two exes and your boyfriend weren't much of a help. Spend the next date alone. Do not allow anyone with you. Go out for something to eat and hang out somewhere, like the park. Talk to him and find out if he likes his ex to the point where you know what's right from wrong. If you think he likes her more than you, tell him you need to wait. You can't trust him to be in love with just you and not his ex. You can still love him and not be with him. Wait until he works it out by himself. And all you do is hope.
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y do u copy people???? (link)
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Who am I copying and what am I copying? I can only give you a simple answer. I do not copy people. I always stay myself. For example, I stay away from coach bags, prada bags, and other labels simply to not copy. And all those people with the same bags, aren't they the ones who copy? They copy style off others. And here's me, staying away and being myself.
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Dear Katie,
I'm so confused! There are these 2 guys. One likes me and tends to hit on me a lot. The other guy, I like him, but he doesn't like me. I want the guy who likes me to back off, and the guy who I like to like me! What do I do??
Signed,
Love Triangle (link)
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Dear Triangle,
Well, the first thing I'd do is talk to them, individually. Don't talk to them in a chat room, bad idea. Find out why the guy who likes you, likes you. When you get a reason, analize it or go to someone who can help. Tell them how you feel about them, and tell them why you shouldn't go out and try to have him understand. About the guy you like. Did you tell him you like him? If you did, then tell him it's more of a personality crush. Tell him you think of him more as a friend, and then later in the month (yes, month) slowly hint the change in mind. If you constantly talk to him, maybe his mind will change too!
Hope this helped!
Yours truely,
Katie
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