Dear Katie,
I'm so confused! There are these 2 guys. One likes me and tends to hit on me a lot. The other guy, I like him, but he doesn't like me. I want the guy who likes me to back off, and the guy who I like to like me! What do I do??
Well, the first thing I'd do is talk to them, individually. Don't talk to them in a chat room, bad idea. Find out why the guy who likes you, likes you. When you get a reason, analize it or go to someone who can help. Tell them how you feel about them, and tell them why you shouldn't go out and try to have him understand. About the guy you like. Did you tell him you like him? If you did, then tell him it's more of a personality crush. Tell him you think of him more as a friend, and then later in the month (yes, month) slowly hint the change in mind. If you constantly talk to him, maybe his mind will change too!
Hope this helped!
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