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Everyday, my neck hurts really bad. Sometimes it hurts worst one day, and feels better the next. I've got into this really bad habit of cracking my neck. My neck cracks so loud that my dad was a room away, and he could hear it. I've talked to my doctor but she told me to keep cracking it and stretching it. But I'm not sure if cracking helps or hurts me. Do you think I have arthritis? I'm only 13! Does anyone else have neck/shoulder problems? What can I do about this? (link)
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Cracking your neck would probably make it feel better. Think about what chiropractors do. Same thing. That cracking sound comes from the synovial fluid between your bones when you force bones apart. That fluid forms bubbles between the bones and they pop to make the sound. You aren't damaging any bones. Anyway, there's no scientific evidence that cracking bones will lead to arthritis, so I wouldn't worry. You could just be in need of a good massage.
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im just sayin whats needed to be said, and hoping that noone will follow in my footsteps, or else my problem just got worse (link)
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Well, it won't work seeing as how your comment is already lost in the sea of questions. I'm sure somebody else probably said the same thing you did at some point or another and it didn't work.
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Ok, this is starting to bug me, I know that in america we have free speech, but omg this draws the line, STOP WHINING! I know that some of you advicenators dont deserve this, because your problems ARE real, but i have just read a "problem" about a sister who is being "too bossy," im sorry, but this screams 9 YEARS OLD all over it. Please, do not post such petty problems, you just sound blatanly stupid.
Once again, my apolagies to the people on here who actually do have a problem, and I would LOVE to help you, but to all you WHINERS out there, please just leave the problem be. (link)
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Well, thanks for wasting space here... 9 year olds technically can't post here, but whatever. I know which person you're talking about too. I know someone just like her and she's 15. It's the same situation and it can get pretty serious.
Anyway, you just became what you hate most on this site. You're whining... and you aren't posting a question that requires advice. So please: follow your own advice.
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I've been with my girlfriend for over 18 months. I'm 19 and female and i just transfered schools. She's 18 and is just going in to college. We're only going to be about an hour apart, but for some reason she thinks she's going to get her heart broken. I keep telling her that we will have to work together to make it work, but for some reason she doesn't think so. Is it possible that she wants out? Can our relationship survive while we're in college? (link)
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Well, there's this thing about college. She's probably going through the same thing my mom is now that my brother's going to college. She cries like he's going to die. It's losing you that she's worried about. She probably likes being close to you (probably convinient for you both, right?) so the new distance probably sounds frightening. You're right though - you're going to have to work because distance is probably one of the biggest killers of relationships.
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ok im 13 and im 210 pounds but im also 5'6 and i need help to burn my belly fat and how do you get rid of chin fat like doubled chined fat i rank high (link)
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I'll agree that you should talk to a doctor. Asking people like us probably won't get you anywhere because we're like you - the target of advertising schemes. Your doctor will probably know the best choice for you. Remember; one thing for one person might not be right for another.
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Okay, so last night i noticed this HUGE like...pimple...on my uh...vagina..im so worried because i dunno what it is and it had to have JUST came up....it lookes like a big pinkish-red pimple and it is pretty big. I was thinking it was maybe a wart but im not too sure because this thing is perfectly round and warts arent. It hurts like hell when you touch it and then a few seconds afterwards it itches. I'm not sexually active so i think it cant be an std...if anyone knows what this thing is and/or how to cure it please help!! (link)
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I've had the exact same thing happen to me. It could just be a pimple because those kind of thigs happen all the time. You can't get STDs if you aren't sexually active, I'll tell you that. You can't contract genital warts from bathrooms or anything, so don't worry. But hey, it could be just a normal wart even. Sometimes things like that come up from moisture. Try getting some kind of antibiotics for it. Antibacterial cream might even lighten it up.
Also, it could be ingrown hair. I know that sounds REALLY weird, but that happens too. I was freaking out over that one time because I thought I had crabs or something! The only way to remove an ingrown hair is to get rid of it yourself... try not to scar yourself though if it is.
Hope that helps you!
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What do you do when everybody around you is turning their backs n you when your going through the consequences of the actions that came with the peer pressure they were putting on you to loose your virginity? (link)
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Well first I would tell them off. Seriously. They're probably just ashamed of themselves. They've probably already realised that it was because they pressured you and they feel horrible. Tell them that you need their help in this and that they shouldn't just walk away. Put them into a guilt trip while you still can. There's not much else you can do.
Aren't there centers for things like that? You know, like youth groups and the like. Usually they have those kind of things right at school. Try attending one of those sometime. If you can't get those friends back, then you could probably make some good ones from the group. We have a LIFE group at our school and it's pretty much like what I'm refering to. Yeah... you sound like a candidate for the LIFE group. If you don't have one, find one. They're good people.
Hope everything works out okay for you.
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Ok..i was wondering..how can you make your jeans like..all ripped..instead of buying them for like 80 bucks..how can you rip them and make them look good you know.? like on the knee areas you have the white things going across and near your pocket you have a little rip..if anyone knows what to do and knows what im talking about...PLZZZZZ answer this..
oh yea..and dont tell me to go wear the jeans and jus keep on sliding on the cement with them on..
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Cut them with scizzors and then pull on the loose strings a little. Put it in the wash and when it comes out it should be frayed more. I did that recently with a pair of shorts. It's definitely a better idea than buying them now. They're all expensive and they look like crap. Preripped jeans just look awkward instead of natural, you know?
But anyway, once you have them ripped like I said, they'll rip even easier when you walk on them.
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I haven't ever really played any sports but this year i am ready to try because i am finally in shape (i've ALWAYS been a big kid). I want to play softball but I have anxieities that i will let the team down because i've never played before. Is there anyone who waited till High Skool to pick up a sport and did okay?
Thank YOu
Worried. :( (link)
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I had a friend who picked up softball last year and their team did really well. You never know. If you practice and have faith in yourself then you should do fine, I figure.
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i need that friend. that 1 true friend. when you get your first broken heart, she stays on the phone with you and will listen to you cry for hours. that friend that you can feel so comfortable around like your sisters or something. not all uptight and trying to act like someone your not. that friend that will come to you first before anyone else when shes crying. that friend that will listen close when you need her too. and will make each other laugh to your stomac hurts. my problem is, im so shy!! im never going to meet this person if i'm one of the quiet, shy types. i act all awkward around new people. i need someone like this. im trying so hard 2 find them. (link)
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Just try to relax around people. Generally, if you're in high school especially, there are people around you just like you that you might not even notice. Try to find something you have in common with somebody and talk to them for a while. With the right prompts, you can ask them a little more about themself. What's funny is that I know somebody who's really shy. Somehow I managed to pair them up with one of my older shy friends this summer and now they're great friends! So yeah, try finding somebody like you. Let them know about yourself. Let them talk about themself too... then you should be fine! Get a fire started and let it burn!
Hope that helped ya!
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I dated a guy for a few months last year. Things moved way to fast and I found out that I really didn’t like who he was, he was lazy and sports obsessed and treated me like a child. The last straw was a very racist comment he made. I broke up with him almost 6 months ago.
The problem is he still calls me, sends me text messages and insists he wants to talk to me for ‘closure’ and to ‘explain himself’ or just to hear the sound of voice agian. I don’t even like the guy, he kinda creeps me out and have no desire to speak to him ever again. Do I owe him this? Or is okay to just keep saying that I don’t want to talk to him and want him to leave me alone?
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I suggest listening to him as a last favor, just to show him that you're the better person at least. Just make sure he understands that you want him to leave you alone though.
I had the same kind of problem. Just talk to him and eventually he'll get the idea and back off... if he doesn't and it gets serious then I suggest telling somebody else.
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Alright lets start from the very start.. I used to have very short hair and glasses that made my eyes look bug eyed.. Well last year I got contacts (which I must say has changed my life) and My hair has grown out and is very long (blonde) and my eyes are deep green.. Well lets just say I have not had an easy time. Before I got contacts people would pick on me about my glasses and my hair. Well when I went into 8th grade My hair was long and ai had contacts so they didnt have a reason to pick on me but yet.. people still tryd. I did have bfs but i also had boy troubles.. no bf that actualy lasted long.. the longest was a month. Now I am going into highschool and I want to be noticed and i would like to not be picked on as much. I think it would also really be nice to find a guy that I could be with for atleast a while.. and I would like to get some guys attention.. Can you help me? please..
love maddie (link)
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I like your subject title because it's the truth about high school. High school is a completely fresh start. Most of the people there won't know you. Make friends with the people that don't know you. That way, when the kids you knew from your old school try to pick on you, they'll realize there isn't much of a reason to because other people love ya! That's probably the handiest tip I can give to you. Find people who have things in common with you. In high school, contrary to belief, there aren't many of those stereotypical "scenes".
As for boyfriends, kind of try the same thing. Try getting a guy that has something in common with you. If you're comfortable talking with him, then you'll have a better chance of keeping the relationship.
Hope that helps ya! Good luck in high school!
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A week ago, my friend dumped her boyfriend (my crush) and 2 days later he told me he liked me. I said i like him too and we are together now. But he really doesnt act like he likes me. I mean when he was with my friend, he would follow her but he doesnt do that to me, and once on msn i said I love you to him and he just didnt say anything...im worried that i might be some kind of rebound girl...but on the other hand he asked me to do something with him in the holidays..so that means he asked me out..but i still think that im a rebound girl for some reason...help!!! =(
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Hey chill! Maybe he's just nervous. Not everybody can come out and say "I love you". It's something deep and personal. Look at it this way; he might not want to say it if he doesn't mean it yet. That's actually a good sign because that means he cares about your feelings. He could just be looking for a little bit of recovery room now, so he wants his space. If he was that quick to get with you though, I doubt he's not interested in you. Keep your chin up! Try asking him what's wrong. Being straight forward works best sometimes.
Hope that helps ya!
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im 14/f and i have never had a boifriend. i am really outgoing around my friends but whenever i'm around guys i get shy especially around guys i like. and it seems like all the guys at my school only like the sluts and nobody else.. what are some ways to get to be better friends with more guys and how to not be shy around them? thanks. (link)
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You're probably shy because they're just not your type. If the guys in your classes don't seem interested in you, or if you just aren't interested in them, try looking at guys in other classes. Sometimes that's good because then they're friends won't know you and you can make a first impression with them too. You shouldn't have a problem with shyness if you're around a guy you like. You'd be surprised. Just try to find somebody with something in common with you, that way you can always find something to talk about. Talking is always the first step. Good communication means a good relationship!
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i am a gril and whenever i watch "those special movies about sex" and how females and males reporduce i am fine when they talk about the male body but when they talk about the female body parts i get really sick and a dizzy. i have my period and everything, but it doesnt disgust me it just makes me quesy. why is this? (link)
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I'm pretty sure I know what you mean. Maybe it's just kind of an apprehension thing. It's not necessarily something to look forward to. Maybe you're just still a little uncomfortable with it all. That's a pretty usual thing, really.
Personally, I don't like thinking about "the inner workings of the body". It creeps me out. Maybe that's what you mean. That's perfectly normal too.
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hi, i really like doing creative writing exercises and stuff to help me get ideas. i've been on the internet looking and was just wondering if anyone had any they could share with me? Thank you (link)
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Listening to music usually helps me. Lyrics can be pretty inspirational. One of my personal favorites is Clay Aiken. Crazy, but his lyrics are amazing.
Also, weather is a good muse.
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Okay, I need an anwer a quick my boyfriends grandfather passed away and I am doing this realy nice thing for him but I need to know an html code so i can put a united states flag and or a wwII flag on my website! (he was in the navy too if that helps some!) If it works you get a 5 no questions asked. Please no website i got 7 browsers open but if you have to give me a browser than okay.
THANKS! (link)
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Okay, I gave an answer butit messed up my HTML. lol
Go to Photobucket.com and they give you the codes when you upload a picture.
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How do i find a person's email adress without askinhg someone?
Like is there a website?
I will rate 5's to whoever helps me (link)
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If the person has an online handle you can almost always find their email address... such as mine. Search Google for "Nanaki BH" and you'll get pages of mine with my email on it. If the person doesn't have any websites, then you're stuck. AOL used to have a directory. I don't know if they still do for security reasons though. If it's an AOL address, that could be pretty easy to find if you could get the directory and search their name.
Now, if you know that the person has something like a daily planner or palm pilot, you could be sneaky and get it from there. I've been shameless enough to do that one. That's a really easy one if you're in school with them. Snatch their assignment book (which hopefully they'd have) and write it down from there. If it's not in theirs, then try one of their friend's.
Well, it's all underhanded and sneaky, but I hope that helps.
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when i open google, there is a drop down list of things i have in teh past searched and i need to know if there is a way to delete some or all or not havea drop down list. i hae already deletd ym history.. i neeeed help. (link)
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Some browsers don't do that, such as the one I'm on. I'm using Opera right now. I know what you mean though. I've searched for some pretty odd and sometimes dirty things and I've been afraid somebody'd see them from the pull-down menu. Internet Explorer, Mozilla, and I believe AOL, tend to do that. If you want to get rid of them, from what I know, you just can't. The history has nothing to do with it. If you want to avoid it, use a different browser like Opera.
Those things in the list go away eventually over time though. It takes a month or a week or something. I know the Googletoolbar thing holds only so many in the pull down. After so many, they start getting over-written by new search topics.
Hope that helps you!
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has anyone ever heard of buying a house for one dollar,how do you do it? (link)
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That's... impossible. I guess it's called eBay. They've sold cars and computers on there for a buck, so I guess anything's possible on the internet.
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