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sex, teen pregnancy, badreputation ,etc.
What do you do when everybody around you is turning their backs n you when your going through the consequences of the actions that came with the peer pressure they were putting on you to loose your virginity?
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Don't listen to them. They are following the world and what other people do. That rode only lead to death. The Bible says
1 Corinthians 7:2
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication(sex before marriage), let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
So wait til ur married. No matter what they sae A REAL MAN will respect the fact you kept your virgintity. I know I would. It's hard to do it in today's society. But ask urself is a lil pleasure worth my soul????
The Bible says that fornocators won't make it into Heaven. It's not worth is. Read Galations 5:17-25
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If you're saying that you are pregnant and your friends now want nothing to do with you...been there, done that. Nothing you can do to change the minds of those who suddenly feel they are better than you. You will learn real quick which friends are your true friends. I think I had one left. Believe it or not, you live through it. Get tough and take no crap from anyone. :)
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i hate that...fuck them...dont have sex until married and who cares if there like OH COME ON YOU WILL BE SOOOO MUCH COOLER... truth is there the morons and there going to get themselves hurt...
!LIZ!
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r you saying that you had sex because you were pressured into it and now you r pregnant??? if so then this is the best time to find out who your truest friends are and who is gonna be there till the end..
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Ok there is a thing called SELF RESPECT and that is what can help.
and i am sorry to hear that. i know what it feels like to be the odd one out.
but you cant let that get to you. i mean them seeing you suffer is their goal and you dont want them to achieve their goal do you?
ok before you do anything hear me out
and try to think in different perspective...
1. I know you heard this so many times but i will say it one more time. This is Just TEMPORARY!
and i promise it will get better.
2. People can not hurt you if you dont react to what they are doing. (meaning, ignore them)
3. There Always will be at least one person who will love you and care for you.
so please you do not want to let those whom loves you down. so please, even if you have to take time off, think over about what you want to do with your life. and if you neeed someone to talk to, please feel free to confide in me. and let me know about it so i can help you the best i can because i know what its like to feel that way.
i hope i helped you~
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Find new friends. As bad as it sounds, the truth is when crisis hits, you find out who your true friends are. If you are going through something your friends (whether they had something to do with it or not) should be there for you. I'm not sure what consequences can come from loosing your virginity aside from being pregnant or catching an STD, but nonetheless, find new friends.
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Well first I would tell them off. Seriously. They're probably just ashamed of themselves. They've probably already realised that it was because they pressured you and they feel horrible. Tell them that you need their help in this and that they shouldn't just walk away. Put them into a guilt trip while you still can. There's not much else you can do.
Aren't there centers for things like that? You know, like youth groups and the like. Usually they have those kind of things right at school. Try attending one of those sometime. If you can't get those friends back, then you could probably make some good ones from the group. We have a LIFE group at our school and it's pretty much like what I'm refering to. Yeah... you sound like a candidate for the LIFE group. If you don't have one, find one. They're good people.
Hope everything works out okay for you.
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I guess you just accept it.. take it how it is.. acknowledge that it was a bad choice.. and keep on tRuckin'. Bottom line, don't spend FOREVER dwelling on the past; most of the time it is iRReveRsable and you can not go back...
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