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peer pressure, teen pregnancy, bad reputation,etc.
What do you do when you loose respect for the ones you love most ?
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You keep doing the right thing and set an example for everyone else. But don't hate them. Show them kindness and love , just dont do what they do. Don't go out with them or go places they go. Live a life that is above people of this world. People try to do and follow what everyone else is doing and the world is doing. That rode only leads to death. Go the other path. Righteousness.
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well i dont think that having sex should be this difficult...... your friends are supose to be w/ you till the end... i guess you just get new friends.
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Losing respect for people you love always sucks. The best thing you can do is try to find what you do love about them. You cannot get your virginity back. That was a decision you made and unfortunately it's a permanant one. BUT the good news is that you can not have sex again until you are with a guy you really love. Don't give these people your power. Remember who you are and that you are strong and able to continue to be who you are - proudly. If you regret what you did - well, it turns into shame and you do not need to be ashamed. You did what you thought was best at the time and that's all anyone can ask of you. Don't beat yourself up over it. You can start focusing on what you like about these people and other people in your school (even though it's summer). Maybe when school gets back in you'll get hooked up with some new friends. Just remember to keep your power - your feminine energy and make your body a sacred place that no one gets acess to without the love card (preferably real love - not puppy love or a crush)
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Man, it sucks that you even have to ask this question, and i sucks even more that i cant give you a straight answer. One of the worst things i ever found out is that love and repect for a person doesnt elevate them like it should, they are still mean and petty and hypocritical. When it comes to sex you have to realise that NO-ONE is adequately prepared to deal with the issues is thows up and the fact that you are seeking advice is a good start. I know i haven't helped much but all i can say is try and keep the faith- and try to find out which people are DESERVING of your respect, despite their flaws. Those who judge or have double standards don't sound like good candidiates.
Ask me more questions if you feel blue and i'll give you mor crappy answers (hey, i mean well).
Be safe.
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I guess you just accept it.. take it how it is.. acknowledge that it was a bad choice.. and keep on tRuckin'. Bottom line, don't spend FOREVER dwelling on the past; most of the time it is iRReveRsable and you can not go back...
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I really don't know I'm needing guidance in having my question asked because I'm really in need.
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