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boy troubles..
im 14/f and i have never had a boifriend. i am really outgoing around my friends but whenever i'm around guys i get shy especially around guys i like. and it seems like all the guys at my school only like the sluts and nobody else.. what are some ways to get to be better friends with more guys and how to not be shy around them? thanks.
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well my advice is to find a guy you have a lot in common with or make small talk with him, and not all guys are like that. If that doesn't work, if he doesn't lke u then hes not the right one for you.
i hope i helped
~claire~
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You cant stop your face from getting red....sometimes my face does too...you could put foundation on or something. You should always be yourself around guys cuz they should get to know the real you. Be like you are around your friends. I used to get shy around they guys I liked but now I'm pretty much the same as i always am...i havbe a lot of guy friends now that i act regular around them...so just....be yourself! AsH!
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picture they are your friends
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Well what I would suggest to do is that whenever you're around the guys just take a breath and calm yourself down a little ( which is how you can prevent the redness on your face too ) and just listen to them talk for a bit and whenever they say something that you can relate to just start talking to them about it.. it's a little easier to talk to them whenever you have friends around cause it eases the tension and then you can have backup if you were ever to do something stupid. But just start slowly getting into the conversation with him, and be funny and stuff and then before the night is over maybe just be like," Well tonight was fun... hey can I have your number/screename so I can talk to ya again?" or maybe he'll ask for it =) Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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hey I was in the same trouble you were! I relized that you need to remeber that you are who you are and guys need to except that. Also when you are older and look back at now you are gonna regret that you didnt open up more! because in the end if you do something embarassing no one will remeber it in 20 years!just remember to be yourself and have fun and you'll be all right~lol~ hope i helped!
.:Sarah:.
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I used to be shy around guys because I never knew what to say what we started talking. When I meet a new guy, I usually start a conversation myself with a compliment or a casual question. For example, I would look for something we have in common and being it up. It can even be something as simple as wearing the same color shirt. It might not guarantee an instant friendship, but it's definitely a smooth start. Just remember to not underestimate yourself and swallow your fear. If you hesitate, just tell yourself that a minute of talking can change your life. In this situation, it's better to take action than to wonder "What if...?" for the rest of your life. I'm sorry id I didn't help, but good luck! Stay strong!
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u jjust have to confidence in yourself. let loose and show them that your not that same shy girl they all know. tell yourself to shut up and do what you KNOW you want. just dont think .. Hope i helped!! XO0X -- Kelsey
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that is the kinda thing you dont want to rush just sit back and be yourself and he will come to you! lol i know it is lame advice but hey life is to short to waste your time changing yourself for someone you will only be with for a couple months. that would be basically have a relationship of a lie. with isnt a good idea.
hope i helped
cam
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i used to shy around guys because i thought i was this ugly girl that no one liked but then my friend told me i was never going to get a boyfriend like that so she told me even if you dont know if the guy likes you or not what do you have to loose to drop some hints if you like him and also just be more realxed around guys they will like that better
well i hope i helped
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The only guy your gonna find acting like a slut is the kind of guy that will never respect you just be yourself and one day you'll find the perfect guy
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You're probably shy because they're just not your type. If the guys in your classes don't seem interested in you, or if you just aren't interested in them, try looking at guys in other classes. Sometimes that's good because then they're friends won't know you and you can make a first impression with them too. You shouldn't have a problem with shyness if you're around a guy you like. You'd be surprised. Just try to find somebody with something in common with you, that way you can always find something to talk about. Talking is always the first step. Good communication means a good relationship!
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