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Question Posted Friday July 1 2005, 9:14 pm

there is this guy who went to one of the local schools in my town. he is black and really fine.. he moved to tx w/ his mom and now he is back for the summer... i really do like him and he seems like he likes me.. well im sortof in a lil thing w/ this other guy like we dated and then he got sent off and came back and wanted to get back together w/ me but hasnt yet. ok well i love him and am in love w/ him... but now that this other guy is back in town i find my self wondering if i should just break things off with him totally.... but the guy that is back in town for the summer is leaving when school starts again in august.. i tink its possible that i may want to pursue things w/ him though..what do u all think? the 2 guys know each other and may even be cousins--but didtant.... help....

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crazyoutyamind answered Friday July 1 2005, 10:03 pm:
so you love two guys but you should ask your self whats the most you would sacerfice for one of them i mean like if you are only going to see one of them only ever summer then can you handel a long distance realstionship or just go with the guy that lives by you but if you have a car and you love the longdistance one more than date him
but i dont know how far he lives away from you or how old you are well i hope i helped

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stalkingroxy911 answered Friday July 1 2005, 9:57 pm:
i would say go with the guy that is staying here because after this summer hate to break it to you but you will probably never see him agian. but it is your desition (sp?) it sounds like you like the one that is here now better, but agian it is your choice which probably what you didnt want to hear. just think in a couple months the one that lives in texas will be gone, for a whole year, or more but the one that you have been out with before will still be here.

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JazziJazz answered Friday July 1 2005, 9:40 pm:
You've just got to decide wich guy you like better and wich one can you relate to more, but if one guys only here for the summer and you want a serious relationship you should go with the other one or find a new guy

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Courtney answered Friday July 1 2005, 9:39 pm:
You have to ask yourself what you want and who will be able to provide that for you. You have to ask yourself who you know better and who makes you FEEL. This is very important and it's a good thing if a guy can make you do this because it's really special. Ask yourself who you're more comfortable around and list reasons. You should ask yourself if it's totally worth it risking everything on a guy that you'll only see for two months out of a year. Especially when there's the guarantee of having a steady and satisfying relationship with another guy . Only way to be sure about the black guys feeling is to ask him directly. No guessing. Find out and then decide is he worth it because their could be something excellent with the other guy. So, ask yourself the questions and remember what I said. And follow your heart but don't let your heart rule out sensible things too.

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