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i need that friend. that 1 true friend. when you get your first broken heart, she stays on the phone with you and will listen to you cry for hours. that friend that you can feel so comfortable around like your sisters or something. not all uptight and trying to act like someone your not. that friend that will come to you first before anyone else when shes crying. that friend that will listen close when you need her too. and will make each other laugh to your stomac hurts. my problem is, im so shy!! im never going to meet this person if i'm one of the quiet, shy types. i act all awkward around new people. i need someone like this. im trying so hard 2 find them.
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i can't say i know how u feel b/c i don't!!1 i have that kind of friend!!! you really need to get over being shy and get out there!!its the only way you will find that friend.usually though your friend will find u.thats what happened to me and my friend.so i guess you will just have to get out there and find that person,or they will find you.if u need someone to talk to e-mail me or im me!!!i'm sorry you don't have that friend!!! i feel bad now!! but e-mail me and i guess we can be pen-pals!!:D bratzgyrl
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Yah deep down everyone needs these types of friends. the key with gaining friends is just going out there and doing it you cannot be shy. wait untill you see someone that is really down in the dumps or sad or mad or something and just go in for the kill. ask them whats wrong and if there is anything you can do. then just continue to talk to them. this way they know that they have your trust and they know that you are a caring person. stay strong
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heres the thing a girl isnt allways the best kind of friend like that im a guy and im best friends with a girl and we do all that stuff(im stright) so try talking to boys and girls
hope i helped
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Yes, it is hard to find the best friends that will always be there for you. I'm sure you have plenty of friends but if you need BEST friends, just find the people you are really close to. Get together sometime! Heck, go see a movie, have a pool party(if you have a pool). Eventually you will have a GREAT friend.
I hope I helped.
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sweety we all get shy at one point
im shy to0 to be honest but i did find those friends. in my group there is that 1 special one that i know will always be there for me
stop being so shy i know its hard but youll grow out of it if you try
try making friendly small talk with people you think you would want to get to know better but remember be your self
hope i helped if you need anything ask
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i know what you mean. i used to have "pretty good" or "close" friends, but i wanted the kind you're talkling about. the thing is, to make a friend like that, you have to BE a friend like that. you can't just be like "she's my 'good' friend ,but not the kind i want, so i guess we'll just stay 'good friends'". you have to be the kind of friend you want to let your people KNOw that you're WILLING TO BE their best friend like that. when they see what a great friend you are to them, they cna't deny you when you need a friend like that too. when you tell them you need a laugh, or a shoulder to lean on, or a person to just talk to, or that you can BE a shoulder to lean on, they wont hesitate to give you a laugh, or to be that shoulder to lean on, or to come to you when they need someone. trust me. (all comments, good or bad, are greatly appreciated. thanks.) i hope i helped, and cant wait 'til you find that friend...or even friendS. *MaRi* (:
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Just try to relax around people. Generally, if you're in high school especially, there are people around you just like you that you might not even notice. Try to find something you have in common with somebody and talk to them for a while. With the right prompts, you can ask them a little more about themself. What's funny is that I know somebody who's really shy. Somehow I managed to pair them up with one of my older shy friends this summer and now they're great friends! So yeah, try finding somebody like you. Let them know about yourself. Let them talk about themself too... then you should be fine! Get a fire started and let it burn!
Hope that helped ya!
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