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sooo confused!!


Question Posted Friday July 1 2005, 1:45 am

about a week ago, me and my boyfriend broke up after being together for about 7 months. then this guy that i had kinda liked asked me out and i said yes but now i'm regreting it. i still like/love my ex. he says he loved me. and my b/f calls me every morning and all the time. it is starting to drive me nuts. But i don't want to hurt him becuz he is a real good friend.and me and my ex broke up becuz i don't even know y. But he didn't treat me very nice. We did kiss but he never hugged me or called me. Then he went and bragged about it to all his friends and at the time he bragged to my now b/f. I don't know which one 2 choose..i love 1 but i like the other. i dont know...please help me out
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blondebaby1016 answered Friday July 1 2005, 9:33 am:
Hey I'm really sorry to hear about your boyfriend breaking up with you. However, Try not to worry about your ex, if he didn't really treat you all that well, hes not worth your time. Truth hurts, but if you're really not into this other guy, you have to tell him that. Don't keep in the relationship, because that only makes things worse, and there will be even more hurt feelings, but upfront and honest with him and he will probably understand.

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My_Lost_Hope answered Friday July 1 2005, 9:28 am:
wellaprently the ex was using you as arm candy so stick with the new one...its kinda funny i went out with a gf of mine for 7 months then i broke up with ehr but for a actual reason and thenshe had boyfriends shes also 13

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Rebecca answered Friday July 1 2005, 8:23 am:
Well first of all, if your last boyfriend treated you bad - then is that love?? I think it may feel that way - but love doesn't hurt and if he's hurting you - then you deserve better. The new guy - you probably got with him on the rebound -right after the last guy, right? Don't keep leading him on and letting him think you want to be with him if you don't. If you're old enough to have a boyfriend, you are old enough to be honest with them and not play games. I would leave them both alone. Ex boyfriends will say anything to keep you holding on...show him you have the power here (because you do) and pay him no attention. If he never called you - then he didn't like YOU -just the kisses, right? Let that guy go. The other one - let him go too. If you think you are doing him a favor by not telling him how you feel, you are wrong. He has a right to know you are not feeling the situation. Let him move on and find someone who is more into him. Get some time to breathe and the right guy will come. Don't hang on to guys just to have one - you will always end up unhappy that way. Don't settle for less - ALWAYS demand more!!!

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Satsuki answered Friday July 1 2005, 4:56 am:
listen, obviously you just stupid! you too yound anyway to have a boyfriend. Girls like you get hurt easliy, that's why you see girls on the streets or raped.They just stupid like you! Just follow your heart and break up with both cause u can't just chose like that!

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