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Really confused about what to do
To start out, I'll tell you this. I'm only 15, but regardless of my age I think I could be in love. I've liked this guy for almost three years and he's pretty much all I think about. Every song I hear relates, in some way, to him. But that isn't the problem. He recently told me he liked me. And a few days later said he thought we would eventually go out. well, I don't think that's going to happen. I heard from a friend that he hasn't liked anyone since this one girl he liked a few months ago. Which would mean, he didn't like me. I asked him and he said I'm great and all, but he didn't like me any more than a friend. That kind of made me give up, you know? I felt like I failed or something? I don't know. I'm not really the jealous type, until it comes to him. So recently I've been talking to this other guy, he really likes me and I really like him. But the way I like him doesn't compare to how much I like the other guy. so, this guy is supposed to ask me out when we hang out this weekend, so I've heard. If he does, I'm scared to ruin the chance with the other guy i REALLY like. Although, I can't wait forever. But I need help soon. I have to decide. I'm really thinking to go for this guy that really likes me. What do you think?
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I think you should go for the guy who actually has feelings for you. I was in this same situation. Sooner or later you'll forget about the first guy because you'll have someone wonderful in your life! I hope i helped.
claire
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Wait a while for the guy you REALLY like...if he dosn't make a move,your feelings will eventually fade for him...probably.
You could always tell him how you feel as well.
What I would give to feel like I was in love again...
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i think you should go out with the 1 that likes you, cause if some 1 really likes you you shouldnt have to wait for them. I know how you feel. i have loved this guy for like 2 years and i dont even think he likes me, but i still go out with other people. so there 4 i think that you shuld go out with the one that likes you. you sound really nice and that guy shouldnt make you wait
i hope my advice was helpful to you.
and goodluck with whoever you choose
~*Brandi*~
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just go for the one who does like you . obviously the other one who you like more isnt feeling the same way for you so its really just a waste of time. go for the possitive.... if he doesnt ask you out that weekend, maybe he will eventually, you never know what could happen. but just try the guy with real feelings. he sounds like a better catch neway .. hope i helped xo0x -- kelsey
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You can't ruin a chance that isn't there. The fact is that some people will connect and some won't. Just take it as there is something better out there. Don't save yourself for a guy who is not interested and told you strait up that he wasn't. I know that sometimes just not being able to have the person makes you like them more - but that really isn't healthy. Take back your power - because right now you've given it all to him. Thinking about him all the time is definatley not healthy. Let him go. Remember that the only person you need in this world is you - period. And when you can be fine with you and let this other thing go - then you will be in a place where a good guy can come along. Don't say yes to this other dude if you are not feeling it. He has feelings too. If you truly do like him - go for it! If not - be honest and let him know. DON'T BASE ANY OF THE DECISION ON THE OTHER GUY!!! This is your life and trust me - this other guy will not be in it forever!!
To love someone in the way you say you do requires a lot more intimacy. I'm not talking about sex - just intimacy of the soul. Remember this - if you wake up more than 3 days in a row thinking about him - you are likely slightly obsessed with him. It feels like love, I know, I've been there. And for where you are - it probably is love - but not the healthy kind. Let him go and move on - PLEASE!!!
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Ok, good question. The guy you REALLY like doesn't seem to want to give you the time that you would like. I mean I hate to put it so bluntly, but it seems to me like he's just not interested in you like that. Now, this other guy may really have something for you. He seems like he's really willing to be with you and appreciate you. Now, I think you should go ahead and give this guy a chance instead of waiting on your major crush. Who knows, you may begin to like this new guy more than the other. It's worth a shot. I hope I helped.
Burnie Mac
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