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Can i still date him??
Hey. Okay so I have this really great friend and i like him. He likes me too. The problem is he's a grade younger than me ( i'm going into 8th .. he's going into 7th ) and he asked me out and i said maybe. My friends tell me to say no because everyones gonna make fun of us .. especially me. But im afraid if i say no because im afraid he'll get mad at me and we wont be friends anymore. So i made a list of things i can do.
1. Say yes .. but not tell anyone
2. Say yes and ignore everyone ( this might be a hard one .. )
3. Say no and explain to him that we should just be friends & nothing more.
Im having a hard time choosing one of these .. Help please! i rate high!
thanks in advance
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If you like the guy, GO FOR IT. Don't worry about age. ALOT of people who are married sometimes have HUGE age differences. Who cares if people make fun of you, it matters how you feel about the person, and not what others think. :)
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Okay, so you like the guy right? Guys go out with girls in lower grades all the time in middle and high school. Before you make a decision - figure out what you REALLY want. If you really like him - regardless of others opinions then don't let them dictate your happiness. If you say yes you cannot keep it a secret because that is just plain mean - like saying that you like him, but not enough to admit it to anyone but him. Just think - he may be the next Michael Jordan or Donald Trump and if you let your friends dictate how you feel - you could miss out on something that really makes your heart sing.
Go for what you know and forget what they say. If you are strong and sure, they will follow suit. Just because they are not sure enough of themselves to do something like that doesn't mean you have to be that way!!!
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Listen here stupid.Don't listen to what others say follow your heart! Girls like you get influenced to easliy!
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hey! you should go out with him! who cares what other people think! when i was in 7th grade (im a freshman now) i went out with a 6th grader and no one made fun of us. even if they would have i would have ignored them. you dont no if ppl are gonna make fun of you or not. just because your friends say that dont mean they are! i highly doubt youll get made fun of! good luck with your decision tho!
~*Sarah*~
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Honestly, you shouldn't do any of those. If you really like him, who cared what people think at school. If they make fun of you for having a boyfriend, that's lame. If they make fun of you because you have a boyfriend younger than you, whats the big deal, i mean one year isn't that much. If you two really like eachother tell him yes, and tell everyone yeah we are going out, we like eachother and just we ignore them. To me they're prolly jealous...well i hope you make the right choice!!
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