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Best Friend turning into girlfriend


Question Posted Tuesday March 1 2005, 12:59 pm

I am an 18 year old male. My best friend and I have been talking on messenger and we have both realized that we have extra feelings for each other. She is coming to my college next year to be with me. The only thing is she is bringing a guy who I am pretty sure is her boyfriend. She says she wants to start something when she gets down here but now I'm afraid with this guy coming too that I wont get my chance with her. Should I confront her about this guy and see what she says? Is there anything else I can do? Thank you

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XxJeSSeGeRbiLxX answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 5:11 pm:
yes confront her she will explain

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gummybearsLSD answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 10:56 am:
tell her how you really feel about the whole thing....maby you should tell her how you feel about her and maby she feels the same way...please rate

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XoXSparkles57 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 9:18 pm:
Follow your heart, maybe they are just friends. And if she wants to start something then i am pretty sure she doessn't have a boyfriend

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im_a_princess answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 5:32 pm:
u should ask and then ask how she feel about you

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kevin1986 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 5:23 pm:
Yeah confront her about the guy.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 3:59 pm:
Yes confront her about who exactly he is..Cause if he's more then a friend then it might hurt you to see em together.. and if she's comin up there to be with you do you mean as a couple or jus to be closer to her friend..? so i'd probably ask bout that too..much luv dez

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SugaHigh answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 2:29 pm:
I think telling her not to bring they guy would be wrong. I mean, it could be a co-worker or friend that wants to go to that college. Hell, he could be gay ;) I think you should ask her about him without seeming like you dont want him to tag along. But if you guys really like each other, a guy coming with her might not matter.

hope i helped....



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Karen answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 2:07 pm:
Yes, you should confront your best friend and ask her about this guy and see what she says. Tell her that you thought that you two had feelings for each other and that you didn't know she was going to actually bring a guy with her. If she's your best friend, then she is able to answer all your questions that you ask her and she probably won't mind.
-Karen

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mrs_radcliffe answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 1:51 pm:
Just ask her who this boy is. just say that you hoped that you could start a fresh with her and make it work between you that why you wanted to no if he was her boyfriend
plz rat honestly
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br0kenPr0miiSes answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 1:44 pm:
all you can do is tell her

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gakkuhideto answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 1:12 pm:
Maybe the "something" she's planning is a threesome with you and the other guy.

But that's extremely rude, telling you she's coming to see you and bringing another guy.

It could be her brother, though. I think you should definitely talk to her about it.

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