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my bessie's ex boyfriend.
so here's the deal. my current ex boyfriend and i broke up after being on a break for almost 4 weeks. we were together for about a year. a month before this all happened my bessie dumped her ex because she wasn't happy with him and because she started to like another guy. so when they broke up, i was there for him -- and while my ex and i were on break/broken up, he was there for me. and i guess he started to like me A LOT. i have a few feelings for him, but i'm not sure if it's just because i miss having someone care about me. so here's the question, would it be wrong if me and him dated after i get over my ex [ which might take me a while. ] or would that be really disrespectful to my bessie ? i'm not sure. we're happy together. but first i need to make sure that what i'm feeling is true -- and not just rebound feelings. and then i need to get over the ex. so my main problem is what do i do about my best friend ?
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Your best friend is no longer in the picture with him. They are broke up so they are both free to date whoever they please. If you want to date the friends ex, then go right ahead. It would be the polite thing to tell her about it, but it isn't her place to decide if you date him or not. It is yours. :)
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i think its better if you talk to her because if she feels left out thats when shes will really be hurt
hope i could help ya out xox SQuiRToFLeMoN
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well i dont think it would be disrespectful...you are broken up!! but ask your friend what she thinks and if she would feel disrespected...
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It is not disrespectful because I mean they broke up,you are single so I don't see the problem is but you have to let your best friend know because if you don't she'll eventually find out by other people and things could go really bad.Don't keep things from your friends especially your best friend because they will not trust you anymore if you do.Hopefully she does accept the fact that you want a relationship with the guy if she does not you would have to choose either the guy or your best friend and that will be very difficult but you have to make that decision on your own.
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