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Somebody Please Please Help!
Ok, first off if you are reading this and you know your just going to put something everyones going to say, please stop. I really truely need help! Ok, my best friend, lets call her 'Kristina' and me are going out with these 2 guys, lets call them Drew and West....ok well i go out with 'Drew' and 'Kristina' is going out with West! wellll....are relationshiphs with them are very....serious! i mean we love them to death buttt....me and 'west' have been talking online and becoming really good friends! and now...i find myself thinking about him sometimes and thinking about if i was with him and ive also had like 2 dreams about us making out or being together or something like that! andd everytime i think about this i cry and get upset because i dont want this to happen....but i think it is! i really dont have a clue what to do....somebody seriously needs to help me! like please dont send a smart remark please please try and see things from my point of view! act like you were me! ....thanks so much!
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wow! thats tough! umm... theres really not that much to say...all i got to say is follow your heart...and if you want to be with 'west' then be with 'west' but i see why your scared. wel maybe you should hold it off for a while. maybe you can sit down with your freind and have a serious talk with her! same thing applys with west! if you feel trapped dont be! because this happens to everyone in life. your not the only one.so dont feel alone. you need to follow your heart. and if you want to be with west then go for it. but about your freind. its going to hurt her very much if you take her bf away. maybe you should just wait. wait till maybe they breakup. then you can have a chance. but even though your freind still might get mad, thats just life. you need to tell your freind how you feel about west. speak your heart out to her! if your guys are really realy close like sisters then i dont think she wil break your relationship off...and if it does then do everything you can to get it back...be strong!! follow your heat! good luck! you need it ;)
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talk to 'west' about it.. if he feels the same way then you should tell 'drew and kristina' too. if not, then try to get over him. it will be hard but think about 'drew' more. take a break from 'drew' if you need time to yourself to think everything over. dont talk to 'west' online as much anymore. i really dont know what else to say unless talk to him about it and see how he feels. good luck with all of this hun ♥
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If it were me, I would just hide my feelings. Don't tell anyone because it might get back around to your best friend. Maybe stop talking to him online- separate yourself from him for a little bit so you can get over it. I can tell you don't want to loose your friend over a guy and that's awesome!
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The truth is you can't do anything so long as he is dating your friend. Well, you can but you would be out a friend. Stay friends with West and if they break up then you'll be free to date him. I know it will be difficult, but you don't want to lose a friend over a guy, especially since there is no guarantee that it would work out. You should probably think long and hard about weather or not you want to continue your relationship with Drew. If you two break up, might cause a chain reaction, and West will become free. That does happen sometimes, especially if you become free and West truly has feelings for you. You may have to wait a little while before jumping into a relationship with West, if your friend and him have a nasty break up...as in she doesn't want it and he does. :)
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Well i'm goning to try not to give a 'usual' answer but what i have to say is u need to pick 'west' or 'kristina' i no it may be hard best friend or your 'love' but they are going out and you need to respect it. You might as well leave your boyfriend out of this, but if you don't like you boyfriend then break-up, what i'm sayin NOT to do is break up with your boyfriend for 'west' because that is your friends boyfriend not yours. would you want your boyfriend to break up with you because he liked your best friend? i didn't think so. i hope my advice helps you out even a little bit!
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ok well i think you should first break up with your boyfriend, because if you like someone else then there is no point in having a bf that you dont love. you are in a tough situation, i mean...should you tell your friend that you kind of have feelings for her bf or keep it a secret...what i would do is tell her the situation and that you are not trying to steal him away from her...you are just feeling this way. if she reacts badly to this understand where she is coming from. appologize and keep everything else to yourself
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hmm..it seems like you might have a little feeling for 'west' but i wouldn't worry too much about it. maybe you juss think he's attractive er a good friend ya know? try getting your feelings straight first. if you really do think you're starting to like him, you need to talk to 'kristina'. i know that sounds difficult since you don't want to hurt her, but i think if you were in her position you'd wanna know too. if you don't plan on doing anything with 'west' er having a relationship with him, then don't worry about telling anyone and fight through it. if it's a different case then you should be honest with 'kristina' first. it could be completely innocent. really though, the dreams aren't your fault. you can't control what you dream, unless you daydream, but then again that's different. you juss need to straighten out your feelings, and then go from there.
good luck!♥
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This is a hard question. Well, if I were you, I would re-think and make sure who do I like more, Drew or West. Because sometimes you feel like you like someone more than your boyfriend, but then after you break up with your boyfriend, you'll regret it. So, I don't want that thing happen to you. I think you should re-think it again, and if you find out yourself loving West more than Drew, you should break up with Drew. Hope I helped!
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