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sord of embarressed
I don't really like talkin to my mom and or dad about boys or if have a boyfriend i get sord of embarressed that they will make a big deal out of it and i dont really want them too. Any tips on not to be embarressed or nervous???
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well- not to rain on your parade- but no matter what its gonna be embarrassing- but once you break the ice- its smooth sailing(wow- too many metaphores...lol)..but my advice is to go for your mom 1st- dads are more prone to freak and moms are also girls(believe it or not) so they know a thing or two about what your going through...
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well i talk to my mom about lots of things. remember parents are interested in your life because they love you and want to know whats going on in your life mainly to make sure that you are safe. at first i was SUPER nervous to talk to my mom about boys and stuff but now it has come easier...on the other hand i dont like talking to my dad...see my parents are divorced. but in most cases you dont have to, because if your parents are together, your mother usually tells your father everything. let your parents know whats happening...just because they care.
x0 dani--trust me
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Heres an idea: Don't tell them. learn to lie.
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okay now i have the same problem sometimes but if you dont tell them or let them find out somehow they might think you are trying keep things from them and thats not good because they might take ur privliges of having a boyfriend away...
well i hoped i helped at least a little
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This depends on how old you are. I'd bring it up to your mom, actually, because moms are USUALLY (but some of the time they're not) good sources of dating advice - don't use your mom as the ONLY source of dating advice, but she will most certainly be influential.
So, the age-old question of Boys. Definitely mention this to your parents. I was a little frightened when I brought the subject of my first crush up to my mother, in eighth grade, and even more intimidated by my mother in my junior year of high school when I first mentioned my first (and current) boyfriend, whom I've been dating for over a year and a half now!
Your mom's been there, done that - because she gave birth you, and your father had to factor into the equation there somewhere in order for you to be alive, and the vast majority of the time, children are a result of sex within a loving partnership. She'll understand where you're coming from. It's okay tell her you're a little embarrassed, because she will most likely be able to understand where you're coming from.
Hope this helps.
~Kathy
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well if i were you i would just do it. i mean their not going to go around && tell everybody about what you say to them. they are your parents you should be able to talk to them about that kind of stuff. hope i helped!
-brii x333
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Hey ! Just Calm Down. I'm pretty sure your mother will understand. i mean i talk to my mom about boys all the time, ones i like, ones i hate, ect. on the other hand my dad isnt so supportive, as a matter of fact i dont talk about any guys while im over there. but my parents are also divorced. they both were your age before to you know? well i think you should talk to your mother but maybe keep it quiet from your dad for a little while until your ready to talk about it in front of the entire family !! good luck -- erica
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