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hey my friend seems like she wants to have all the friends i have so she is trying to take them away and is saying that i cant be some ones friend because that person doesnt like her should i still be her friend if i am not she will make my life a living hell!!!!
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Well I will tell you by a personal <EX>
I had a friend the same way ! Her name was Kyla
but my friend would also have to get all the
clothes and other stuff that I had ! She would do everything that I did and it was just crazy !
But I was her friend for 3 years and that whole 3 years have been the worst EVER ! So wut I chose was to not be her friend and now my life is perfect ! I mean she may say that she will make your life a living hell but trust me honey ! SHE WON"T ! She is prolly just all talk !
Just ignore her ! U kno ! Just completlty shut her out of your life ! I kno it may be hard for alil while but it is best ! I still miss Kyla sometimes but I get over it ! Well I hope you make the right decision ! Just follow your heart on this one !
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HEY! she might just want to have some more friends she might feel left out and want to be your friend and friends with your friends. You cant control your mates if they want to be friends with someone they you should be ok with it. Because no matter what they arnt going to ditch you if there already good friends with you.
roxie
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Well you know what, she's not worth having as a friend. You shouldn't feel obligated to be her friend! Don't even tell her just sort of drift away. If you go to the same school, just sit somewhere else at lunch. If she picks up conversation just be sort of quiet. Don't do it spitefully and don't spread rumors or talk about her behind her back. It could get back to her. No matter what she pulls she'll give it up within a week or two.
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i absolutely know where you are coming from...the same thing has happened to me...i think you should take her aside and say "____, you are my friend, but not my only friend. if you cant accept that i have other friends, then please leave me alone." if she reacts badly to that, then she doesn't deserve you as a friend
x0 danii...trust me
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if you call somebody like that a friend, then you may be into some deep shit.but everybody will have friends that do not get along. so you can just stick up to her and just tell her that if she wont deal and snap up then its over.
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I would slowly drift away from her. and i mean dont tell your other friends persay "dont be her friend" but be like "hint:and:clue" to it that she isnt a good friend for making you choose other friends.. i get the jist that she may be using you to get other friends.. so i would drop her .. and if she doesnt have you to get those friends she want have those friends.. so her life will be the living hell and she is a douche so i mean dunt worry about it .. friends dont make other friends choose friends over each other thats just immature and she has lots of growing up to do
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