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i heard somewhere that when you have your period you could lose weight..is that true?? cus that'd be pretty awesome haha =)
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Yes it is....sorta...you lose water weight (not fat). Before you start your period your body stores a bunch of water. After your period you would have lost 2 to 3 pounds :)
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Do u kno how you get cursors and music on your advice page?
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Yes..Under 'Profile Settings' go down to the text box where it says 'discribe yourself' and past the codes there. If you don't know what I mean when I say codes then drop another one in my inbox.
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i feel like i should exercise more but i don't know what to do, i'm really bad at sports and i'm not into running, got any ideas? (link)
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I really love the exercise ball. You can work all of your muscles on it and if you do it right you will always be working your abs. You can do either cardio or strength training. You can even takesimple exercises like crunches and push ups and do those on the ball.
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what dose it mean to ''give him a blow job''? (link)
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It's when you suck on a guys dick..AKA- give head or BJ
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i was wondering if anyone knew about some web site that could help me w/ my eye makeup. i want to use diff color eyeliner and eyeshadow to get new looks. can anyone help? (link)
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http://wwww.sephora.com/browse/tt/index.jhtml?categoryId-C11635&tt-getLook
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well i like some one elese and well i think she really likes me but i dont wanna break her heart plese jeni help me (link)
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you really just need to be honest with this girl. Tell her exactly how it is that you feel. If your not honest with her then the true you will eventually show through to her.. and then she'll be even more hurt. At y'alls young age she will heal fairly quick and she will get over it. Don't always worry about hurting the girl, you have to be true to yourself. YOU HAVE TO BE TRUE TO YOURSELF. You were put on this earth to live your life for you not live your life for anyone else. Stay strong babe! I know that you can do it. Good luck and keep me in touch.
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heyy, I need some help here.. can anyone get me some cute quotes that I can put in my pro? Any kind is alright, thnx!
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http://www.preciouscreationz.cjb.net/
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http://www.wittyprofiles.com/
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ok im 5'7 and about 118-120, (14) am i fat cuz i sure feel like i am? (link)
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No not at all. That sounds like a good healthy weight. At 14 you tend to be all self-concious about yourself, but really there's no need too. You are beautiful and if you believe that then people will see the convidence that you have in yourself. When I was 14 I felt the same way, now I'm 15 (almost 16) and 5'3" and I weight 131. To be honest I'm more happy with my body now then I ever was. So don't put yourself down. I'm hear to talk to you if you need somebody.
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alright well like ive been struggling with bulimia for the past like 8 months and now like everytimes im around some of my friends they talk bout ppl with them and it makes me feel uncomfortable ( like im livin a lie or sumn ) . .. what do i do? (link)
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I think that when you and your friends are together and talking that you need to tell them. Just be completely honest with them and they will be there for your moral support. Tell them exactly how you feel and that you do feel like your living a lie or something. I'm here for you also if you ever want to talk.
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my older sister is 15 and i am 13, and i can't stand her! like she just bugs the hell out of me. she tries to be like her "own person", she is obsessed with animals, mostly horses, and reading. but i am the exact opposite, i hate reading and i like partying, boys, music, and tennis. she is trying to act like me though. i mean she likes country music, and i like rap hip hop and r& b. now she is starting to like maroon 5 and stuff that i like it is pissing me off and its just cause she is trying to be cool because she knows she is really annoying. and my mom is making me spend the day with her at the pool tomorrow, which i really don't want to do because there are only 2 days until i go to camp and i would rather spend my time with my friends! how do i get out of it?!?! please help me! (link)
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I don't think that you should try to get out of it. I think that you should go and spend quality time with your sister. Get to know her a little bit better and let her get to know you a little bit better. Don't be all mean and distance to her like you normally are, because truth is it seems like she wants to be more normal and like you but you keep pushing her away. She is your sister and you live with her and y'all aren't that far apart age wise. You should takethis opportunity to develop a healthy relationship with your sister. You can hang out with your friends right before you go to camp or after you get back.
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Hey, here's something quick. My friends and I have nothing to do today! We really want to go out! It's raining and is supposed to continue all day! Have any fun ideas for teen girls? Mucho Gracias! (link)
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Go to the mall and go window shopping or just plain shopping. Try on stuff you would never buy and yall can all laugh at each other. It would also be fun if you had a camera y'all could take pictures of each other doing that or y'all could stay home and take fun and cute pictures. Also it's always fun for girlfriends to go get their nails and their toenails done. Also y'all could cook junk food and watch movies all day. Ya'll could call some guys over and chill. You'll think of something..be creative. Tell me what y'all end up doing.
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Heyy! I am a 14 year old girl
I have a MAJOR problem... I have a boyfriend of almost 5 months and we are really happy! He was my first kiss...let alone that but we haev madeout and french kissed! which sounds like alot but when you see how happy we are you could see why we have done that! The only problem is our parents dont know and we dont plan to tell them any time soon...both of us arent supposed to have a gf/bf until we are 16 or 17.... we are seriously meant for each other and he says he loves me and i love him...i haev never felt this way!
WHAT SHOULD I DO! I dont know if we shoudl tell our parents or just wait to tell them...what would you do???? any advice would be helpful!
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I wouldn't just yet. Wait til the time is perfectly right then tell them. With my boyfriend I didn't tell my parents we were even together until 9 months later and I was 15 and I was allowed to have a boyfriend. But they didn't approve of him that's why I waited soo long. Also after you tell them they might want you to break up with him (at least mine did), but stay strong and put your foot down and tell them no. They might threaten to ground you or anything but it's not worth it, tell them that's fine. That will also show thkem how much you care for him. Good luck with everything and keep me in touch. Come to me if you need moral support.
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He makes fun of me...n now he says he loves me..what should I do? (link)
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Some guys will make fun of you to get your attention so that you will notice him. If you notice him back they usually stop. Also as time goes one it will probably stop too. Or if your not intrested then tell him that and tell him it's because you think he's immature the way that he always picks on you. Good Luck with the guy.. keep me in touch!
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I'm really worried about my girl friend her grandpa is in the hospital. Well she's sad and streesed out. I'm sad for her, but I don't know what to do for her. So my question is... What should I do for her? Or should I do anything at all? (link)
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The best thing to do is tell her that your there for her always. And that she can talk to you about anything. Sit her down and talk to her, but don't ask specific questions. Give her lots of hugs and show her you really are there and she'll do the talking. Respond in the best most supportive way possible. There will probably be a lot of silence but just hug her and if she crys just hug her tighter and don't let go till she does. Trust me that really helps someone let things out. Good luck.
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I have a very close friend that i met this year. she moved here from out of state. not too long into the school year she was homeschooled because of a stupid mistake. i couldn't imagine living without her but made many new friends. she still wants to keep our friendship and i agreed becasue she has no one else, i'm her only friend. she has lots of free time but since i go to school and have other activites not to mention other frieinds that i see more and want to spend time with more, it is hard for me to spend time with her. she is constantly pushing me to do stuff. how do i let her no that i have a life and she isn't my only friend without hurting her feelings? also i have realized that as time goes on i don't like spending time with her as much as i did because i'm not myself with her and we don't have as much in common as i thought we had when we first met. is this friendship worth it? sorry this is complicated but i need advice!!!!! (link)
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Don't just not me her friend, because you should never burn bridges for no reason. I think that you should sit her down and talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel. Let herknow that your there for her if she needs you, but you feel that you click with other people now. And also tell her that you don't feel like y'all are as close as you used to be. It's not going to be easy because your going to feel weird saying it to her and she'll probably feel a little hurt. But you should always let the truth out no matter what wil happen. Stay strong and I hope everything works out for you. Tell me how it goes.
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I wrecked my dad's car this morning, and he's out of town until tomorrow morning. I haven't got the guts to call him and tell him about it, cause there's a huge dent in it and the garage door is messed up. I also pulled the bike racks off the walls. I know that I'll be in big trouble if I wait til he finds out, but I really don't know what to tell him on the phone. I feel so bad. HELP ME!
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I think that you should truely call your dad ASAP and tell him the whole story. Don't try to hide anything or make yourself look like the victom. Tell him that your really sorry and offer to help work to pay for the damage. He'll see your honesty and he'll probably be a little frustrated, but if you wait til tomorrow he'll be pissed. He'll also see that you cared enough and had the guts to call him, so that will probably make him feel a little better too. Tell me how it all goes.
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how do i get my advice column known and have people ask me questions? (link)
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What I did was answer alot of questions and give the best possible advice that I could to everybody. That got my ratings up. And also when people liked my answers alot of them came back to me with more questions needing advice. So give it time and I'm sure people will start coming to you for advice.
Also you can write me back with your user name and I'll add you to my favorite colum list and that might help you some too.
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On the last day of school a boy told me he liked me, well his friend did, the problem is this boy is very, very shy and i have never talked to him. I would like to get to know him but the next problem is that i am also very, very shy. Since both of us are very shy how do i get to know him better? (link)
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You should try your hardest just to be as brave as you can, and walk up to him and say 'Hey, your friend told me that you like me.' You know just confront him about the whole situation. You can rephrase it in any which that you would feel more comfortable saying. As long as you get that message across it should be fine. Then I bet, that after all of that's say and done, that he will respond to you. And it might be a little aquard at first, but trust me after a few little aquard silences y'all will start to feel more comfortable around each other. Trust me one this one.. you won't regret it, but you will if you don't say anything at all. Please keep me updated. Good luck!
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is there any way you can determine when you have your period when youve had it for a year? (link)
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Make a mark on the calender the represents when you start and another one the represents when your off. Do that for 3 or 4 periods. Count how many days are between each of them. And then average those numbers. That will tell you about how long between each period so you'll know about when you start. Also if your on birth control you can control when you have you period or not. For more information about that (i'll explain the best I can if you want) contact your local gyno. I hope that all made sense and I hope I helped..If not write me back and I'll try again.
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hey well i get hot in the car and when i do i freak out and my mom is trying to talk to me when i am freaked out and i get all mad at her and she dont talk to me...she wants to take me to our phycologist and i dont want to.. what do i have?? is this a mental problem?? (link)
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I don't think your mental. It's actually normal when you get really hot in a small area to be on edge. I don't really know why but I know that it has something to do with the chemicals in your brain. So if you're already on edge and then people are talking to you then it can be normal to snap at them for no reason. Your mom is doing the right thing to by not saying anything. If she was to continue talking it could cause ya'll to fight for no apparent reason and could therefore damage ya'lls relationship. Hope I helped.
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