I'm really worried about my girl friend her grandpa is in the hospital. Well she's sad and streesed out. I'm sad for her, but I don't know what to do for her. So my question is... What should I do for her? Or should I do anything at all?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? jeni_xoxo answered Friday July 8 2005, 12:12 am: The best thing to do is tell her that your there for her always. And that she can talk to you about anything. Sit her down and talk to her, but don't ask specific questions. Give her lots of hugs and show her you really are there and she'll do the talking. Respond in the best most supportive way possible. There will probably be a lot of silence but just hug her and if she crys just hug her tighter and don't let go till she does. Trust me that really helps someone let things out. Good luck.
Peachgirly answered Thursday July 7 2005, 11:27 pm: Awwww....that is so sweet...You should support her and tell her that you'll always be there for her if she needed anything or a shoulder to cry on. Try to cheer her up and make her feel happy by taking her out on a date for dinner,going to the beach,watching a movie, or somewhere fun. ♥ Peachgirly [ Peachgirly's advice column | Ask Peachgirly A Question ]
sexyEuropeanchick answered Thursday July 7 2005, 10:30 pm: I think you should just let her know that you're there for her. like just be there for her when she needs u and be her shoulder to cry on cuz i'm sure she'll need that. Hold her and talk to her about it. [ sexyEuropeanchick's advice column | Ask sexyEuropeanchick A Question ]
HAILEYX3SYOU8246 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 9:14 pm: i think you shood go to her house and cuddle with her and eat icecream with her and bring her presents
X_Amanda_X answered Thursday July 7 2005, 9:06 pm: Just be there for her when she needs you. Be her shoulder to cry on because I'm sure she will need one. Comfort her when she is stressed out. Insist to her that everything will be okay.
xbrunettex answered Thursday July 7 2005, 8:12 pm: Well comfort her.. maybe go with her to see her grandpa that would mean a lot to her.. and when she says she needs her space.. give it to her.. and when shes crying ; let her cry on your shoulder..just mainly be there for her.
KATAxTHExADViCEgURL answered Thursday July 7 2005, 7:29 pm: just spend time with her, make her feel loved and let her know that you`ll always be there for her, and that everything`s going to be alright. Make her day buy giving her flowers or any little gift could do really. Take her to see a movie one night, go out for dinner, everyday boyfriend and girlfriend stuff. As long as you confront her and tell her that everything will be fine.. i`m sure she`ll feel a lot better knowing that you`re there to help her and to get through this.
karenR answered Thursday July 7 2005, 7:02 pm: Just be there for her to talk to when she needs it. Let her know you care. That's about all you can do. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Briht_knee_89 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 6:50 pm: awww, thats' really sweet. haha, sorry, i just think thats cute. i think you should just call her, and tell her your there for here whenever, wherever, however. tell her if she needs anything that she can call you, and just show her more affection & stuff than usual, so maybe she wont be so worried about her grandpa.
S_C answered Thursday July 7 2005, 6:19 pm: I guess the only thing you can do is be there for her. Like make sure she knows she can talk to you. Tell her you'll be her crying shoulder, you'll listen to everything she has to say, and you'll do your best to comfort her. Tell her you might not have all the answers, but you're someone she can vent to. Just make sure she knows you're there to listen. And then of course you have to be there to listen. Lend her your shoulder to cry on, do whatever you can. Ask her if there's anything you can do, and if it's a reasonable request, then try your best to do it. I'm sorry about her grandpa, hope everything goes okay. [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
icey0990 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 6:06 pm: let her know your there for her to talk to and your there if she just needs someeon to hold or cry with
be there for her and support her..that would do thee world for her
Tinkerbelle answered Thursday July 7 2005, 5:51 pm: just be there for her when she needs you, make sure she knows she has a shoulder to cry on if she ever needs it. don't be overbearing, though, she might want some alone time as well. [ Tinkerbelle's advice column | Ask Tinkerbelle A Question ]
CameronASTB answered Thursday July 7 2005, 5:38 pm: well, when my girlfriend's dad died, she was in Quebeck & I ws is Dallas, so I couldn't do anything, but she wanted a space, but her & I broke up, but theres other reasons, but I sent her a card
the only thing I can say is comfort her & let her come to you when shes ready, & thats all you can really do
xcuriousx0 answered Thursday July 7 2005, 5:35 pm: hey,
woah im sorry about my 1st answer i didnt know. wow im very sorry. just sit down and talk to her about it and let her know that your there for her. [ xcuriousx0's advice column | Ask xcuriousx0 A Question ]
I_love_horses answered Thursday July 7 2005, 5:12 pm: Maybe you could have a nice night out to help her try and forget her grampa for a little bit or maybe take her to a mall and pay for whatever she wants....and dont mension her grandpa at all. Hope I helped...I feel bad for her and also for you because you have to deal with her. You are a very good person...:) [ I_love_horses's advice column | Ask I_love_horses A Question ]
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