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okay so my ex-boyfriend cheated on me, but i still love him and i wana talk to him again cuz its hard to jus forget bout him. and this new boy that im feelin, i feel like hes just using me. he says he loves me though. what should i do?
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plain and simple..- GET OVER IT - theres gonna be more guys out there and if this clown that cheated on you is able to do that..then you dont want anything to do with him anyways just forget he ever existed and the person you think is using you..he must be doing something to make you wonder if hes using you..so ask some of his friends to ask him how he feels about you and stuff like that and if it turns out that he is then just get over him too and the day you find someone that makes you real happy your gonna forget those 2 idiots ever existed :)! add me to your friends list and let me know how it goes!! xOx
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stay with him for a little more than if its the same tell him how u feel!
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I think you should talk to your ex; maybe like friends or something, but that should be about it. I think if a guy cheats on you once, he will definately do it again. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Thats just the way it is. Oh, and if you think the other guy is just using you, he probably is. Theres no reason why you should feel like someone is using you. You will know when you find the right guy, and you wont feel like hes using you OR cheating on you!
♥Emily
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First of all, i really think you should still talk to your ex and still be friends, but thats it. I also think that you should give the new guy a chance.....get to know him more...if he really is using you, then break up with him. please tell me what happens or if u want u can ask me something else about it. Hope i helped...
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i wouldnt talk to him he cheated on you once hewill do it again if he betrayed ur trust once he will do it yet again.
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Why would you want to get back to him if he cheated on you? That shows that he doesn't really care about you. And about the second boy, always trust your gut feeling. Don't go out with him just because he says he loves you. Find someone who really cares about you.
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how long did you two go out for? well anyways, dont waste your feelings on him. he CHEATED on you. thats just fucked up. now thats using you. if this new guy u feel is just using you...let him go!! you dont need either one of these guys. stay away from your ex. let him come back to you. if he misses u like you miss him--he should be the one trying to get you back..cuz he cheated on you. just wait it out..youll find a new, better guy. you dont need a guy to make you happy.
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you could give him another chance but if he cheats on you again DUMP HIM! if you think the other guy isbusing you i think you should leave him and follow your intense.hoped i helped!
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Girl he cheated on you, i know you really wanna forgive him and forget that he did it but truth is you cant trust him with that kinda stuff right now, just keep him as a friend, and maybe if he grows up sometime you'll be there. I say you give the new guy a chance, you never know if he's using you or not, but just take it slow with him and if he cant put up with your slow pace then let em go!
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