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people need to mind their own busness!
ok so i like this guy ALOT we hold hands at school and are togteher all the time. he likes me alot too. hes so sweet. but we BOTH jsut got out of long relationships and don't want a relationship right now. but its practically like we are going out. and EVERYONE is asking BOTH of us.. "do you like her??" "do you like him??" "i heard u like him..are you going out!?" like seriously soo much people...people i barely even KNOW..its getting soo annoying. i usualy just say yea i do...but its getting super annoying. how can this stop..i dont want to be rude or make it seem like i dont like him but people need to mind their own freaking business!
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tell them to leave you alone and even if you two were going out, they would need to mind their own buisness. Tell me how it works on my feedback or inbox.
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I agree. If you are holding hands can they not get it? I don't know how you can get them to stop asking. Maybe when the next person asks you tell them yes you like each other. Then, tell them to pass the word because you're really tired of the question. Don't know if it will work but give it a try. :)
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Most likely it will get around to everyone and they'll find out and most likely leave you guys alone.. shouldnt be long hun..much luv dez x0x0
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People will get bored of it, If they both to ask again just say its ur buisness and its got nothing to do with you. Just keep out of other peoples way, and then they will get bored of asking you questions day in day out.
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haha don't get too pissed k ? if you saw two people holding hands , you would most probably ask them if they liked each other etc. the problem starts when everyone thinks this way , and everyone asks , and the number of curious/annoying ppl rises and rises . And of course , people DO need to mind their own business . . hmm . a suggestion would be to "go public" or somehow get everyone to know that you like him and he likes you . That way , you wouldn't be rude and people would stop asking .If you decide not to do this,and people carry on annoying you , just smile really sweetly and be all : "i love him " . That way , news would travel fast that you really do like him , and people would stop being busybody and stop doubting that you two like each other . Cos mostly , they just want to make sure if you two do like each other and that its not just a rumor . the most important thing is not to hide or try to draw attention away from yourself . If you do , more people are likely to think that you are hiding something or lying when you're not ! Hope i've helped , and good luck with your problem . Gods bless , *wondering*
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You shouldn't be bothered by other people. If you like the guy and you wanna hold hands with him, just do it. Even though it may get annoying getting asked all the time about your love life, it's only because people are naturally curious. Who wouldn't be? You should be honored getting so much attention lol.
I was in the same position as you. I held hands with this guy (who is now my almost five month boyfriend! lol) and we were not going out. It made everyone wonder and I got questions daily, no exaggeration. People I didn't know (I didn't even know their names) knew about him and me. lol. It got annoying, but it was nothing to get upset about.
There are only two ways to get it to stop. Just wait it out until everyone's tired of talking about you and him. If you want to keep your relationship with him as it is, then that's fine. It's your choice and you shouldn't let anyone change your mind. Or you can go out with him and the questions with cease. Coming out of a relationship is hard, but getting into one is wonderful, doncha think? Dating is all about trying new things. And if it doesn't work, you move on and find what you really want.
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if you both like eachother alot then what's stopping you, what, are you gunna go around flirting with other guys just to be free or something? i dont get it just go out with him, forget the past. that way people know you like eachother and you are going out, no more questions asked.
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o my god i totally understand what your going through... well i know it gets annying and everything but if you feel like its geting to much into your privcy dont answer them because it really isnt any of there business
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Next time someone asks you just ignore them. Be like its none of your buisness and if we are I`ll let ya know. I hate people like that to but you gotta tell them to fuck off and to mind their own buisness. x0
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