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Friends but sorta more,,, i think...???
Hey Ya'll,
First off Im male and 15. I've kinda got a problem... There is this girl that is pretty much one of my best friends I guess you'd say. But we hang out alot or atleast when we can. And for the last few(2) months I started liking her as more than a friend. But the problem is that I don't know if she likes me as more than a BFF. I mean some days she really seems to like me as more than a friend in my opinion and some days it just seems like were just like best friends. I really don't know what to do cause i dont want to hurt our friendship if she doesnt feel that way... Because I love hangn with this girl shes so awsome!
I was thinking of asking her to prom (my schools screwed up and small so I can go to prom if I pay) because I know she'll make it a fun time even if she doesnt like me that way because she just makes me have a great time hangn with her... Should I ask her?
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Yes! She would love to go, just let her know you r inviting her as a friend. You wouldn't want to scare her. When you do go, talk w/ her and show her what a flirt you can be. If she doesnt like u now, she'll like you afterwards!
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Im 15 too, and I have a bunch of male friends. Sometimes we may be a little flirtatious, but it's all in fun. Going out with any of them would just be WEIRD. Im not so sure if you should ask her as in romantically, just as friends, and let the pieces fall where they may. Maybe prom night she will realize that she has feelings for you, and she will make the first move, just don't come on too strong.
<3 Nikki
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I say you ask her, even if she doesn't like you you'll have a good time.
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Its pretty hard having a best friend thats the oppostie sex. Because, you find qualities in the person that you would find in a potential girlfriend/boyfriend, in your case girlfriend obvioussly lol. Well, you could say to her that someone told you that she said she liked you and you werent sure if you should believe the person. Who knows, maybe she does like you.
Deffinitly ask her to the prom as friends. And if things go well maybe give her a kiss. Start flirting with her more. Good Luck Hun. IM me or email me and tell me how it goes!!!
~Brina~
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I think you should tell her that you think you like her more than a friend and tell her that you would love to be more than friends. But make it clear that if she doesnt feel that way also that you still want to be BFF's. Because you think she is "so awsome!". And hopefully you're friendship will stay strong and firm if it stays as just a friendship. Good Luck!
And for sure ask her to prom going as friends would be kool! Thats what Im doin this yr.
--Kuzo
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ask herr!! and if she says no, then...yall can go as just best friends..hope everything turns out good, goodluck!!
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YES! Go for it, you and her seem like the perfect couple. Don't be afraid to ask her. Trust me, she's going to say YES! God-luck, and tell her what happenes!
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YES!! ask her to prom! even if she doesnt like u as more than a friend, u can go as best friends and have a kick-ass time! <3
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hey it's normal in my opinion that you like your friend because you hang out with her all the time...okay well i think you should go up to her and be like since we're close friends sometimes i feel like you sometimes act like you're more then a friend to me...and if she says no then be like ohh i was just wondering it felt like it. and for prom definitly you should ask her to go with you...friends going to prom together is fun! hope i can help. take care. x3 SweetStar.+
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heyy ive gone through the same problem i liked my best friend too but all you have to do is tell her and she'll understand you never know she might like you to more than a best friend so i say go for it
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You should definetly ask her! Tell her you think it would be more fun if you two went together! But I think if you tell her that you like her as more that a friend, then I don't think you'd get rejected right off the bat. Every girl thinks what things would be like if she were dating one of her guy friends. One time or another it crosses her mind. So most likely she's thought about you like that. I think at prom night if you two slow dance, you could tell her then. I think it would be very cute!
♥ Always,
Maria
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