I like alot of sports: paintball and swimming are mostly my things. I like to hang out with my friends alot. We do anything sometimes we do some stupid shit but thats okay. Ask me a question if ya want some advice ill help you as good as i can.
Gender: Male
Location: SC
Occupation: teenager
Age: 15
AIM: kuzo811
Member Since: July 4, 2004
Answers: 31
Last Update: March 26, 2005
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Hey, I'm a girl and I'm 14 years old. Okay I'm sure I love guys and everything, but I'm attracted to my best friend and my best friend is also a girl and 13 years old. I know I'm not attracted to any other girls, but her. It's weird because I feel if I could be with her it would be less complex then with a guy and since I know everything about her and she knows everything about me I feel we could be very happy together. I don't look at other girls or watch porno to see girls at all. I flirt with guys but just a lot less now because I'm focused on my best friend and I. I know for a fact if she doesn't want to be with me that way I'll go back to guys and I'll have no regret in my life becuase i went for her. We've experimented 3 times now and liked it time. One time she's wanted me so badly she's licked her lips at me and at the same time stared deep in my eyes craving to touch me. We do have a plan to try to go to college together and live together and get a big house together. We feel very relaxed and happy around each other. My life couldn't feel anymore complete without her. It's like guys are a last resort because I know if I can't have be with her then I'll go for guys. I'm very scared to tell her because if I do she'll be freaked out and wouldn't wanna be best freinds with me anymore or just be around me anymore. Please help a girl out! (link)
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First off I think you need to tell her keeping a secret like this could turn out bad if she finds out in a bad time or w/e. Tell her you think that if you are happy being bisexual you should do what makes you happy. Ask her if it makes her happy doing these things. It sounds like you really like her as more than a friend, just tell her and see where it goes from there. If you need anything else AIM- kuzo811 and email: kuzo811@yahoo.com
--Kuzo
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Hey Ya'll,
First off Im male and 15. I've kinda got a problem... There is this girl that is pretty much one of my best friends I guess you'd say. But we hang out alot or atleast when we can. And for the last few(2) months I started liking her as more than a friend. But the problem is that I don't know if she likes me as more than a BFF. I mean some days she really seems to like me as more than a friend in my opinion and some days it just seems like were just like best friends. I really don't know what to do cause i dont want to hurt our friendship if she doesnt feel that way... Because I love hangn with this girl shes so awsome!
I was thinking of asking her to prom (my schools screwed up and small so I can go to prom if I pay) because I know she'll make it a fun time even if she doesnt like me that way because she just makes me have a great time hangn with her... Should I ask her? (link)
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I think you should tell her that you think you like her more than a friend and tell her that you would love to be more than friends. But make it clear that if she doesnt feel that way also that you still want to be BFF's. Because you think she is "so awsome!". And hopefully you're friendship will stay strong and firm if it stays as just a friendship. Good Luck!
And for sure ask her to prom going as friends would be kool! Thats what Im doin this yr.
--Kuzo
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my school is not fair to me. all the kids that go to junior high work 7 hours and only get a 15 minute break! to me that is completely outragous! and the high school students either dont get lunch or get lunch 1 time a week! and they work longer. i cant stand my school. how can i change how my illegal school is treating kids that they think have no responcibility even to have enough time to relax at lunch. my friend's school has freakin 50 minutes! i hate school. im so stressed and i feel like killing myself because i dont have any break time. please help (link)
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Dont kill yourself. And do you have time for lunch or do you just have other stuff to do during it. Because im pretty sure its illegal for you to be denied a time to eat lunch most highschool give 20 or 30 minutes for lunch daily. Is your school public or private?
--Kuzo
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hey im a good writer and all but im havin trouble writing a poem to my friend. I wrote it out in a paragraph saying
"I've been doing some thinking. This may sound a little akward but I'm sorry I know your right. I guess I haven't been using my head so greatly these past few weeks. I'm happy to finally know I actually have someone who will give me helpful advice and a shoulder to cry on. When I need it. I guess we can thank those summer night chats with out those I guess we really wouldn't have all those memories and inside jokes made.
Thanks for being there for me"
I know if I work for hours I can get it but I can't seem to get it out. Can someone write a poem for me? or should I just leave it as it is and explain that in a paragraph form and not make any changes. I'm not sure what to do... thanks for helping if you do.
(P.S. he writes as well)
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Actually not many people know this about me but i write... lyrics and poetry mostly... I think that its pretty good. I would leave it mostly the same maybe put it in paragraph form but spread it out a little bit and personally if you love this person add a big I LOVE YOU! at the end thats just me tho you should do what you want...
--Kuzo
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Hi, I'm 13 years old, and i recently started cutting. Don't think " I'm a physco Freak " or whatever you want to call me. My Friend introduced me into it. She said it really helps. so one day i was really angry, i was crying and all, and i cut all up and down on my arm/wrist. To me, i felt better, but just the next day it hurted. From then on, i have been cutting myself all the time when i am mad. the last time i did was actually last night. I use " Scissors , Razors , Saftey Pin , or any sharp objects round the house " . my mom saw my arm by acident, and i told her i fell on a side walk. well my friends are so worried about me. they think im ganna end up killing myself, because i almost did. i really do hate my life even if i have friends and a boyfriend. i JUST hate it, and i think sometimes i was just a mistake, that i ruin other people lives. well i dont know, if i should continue, and and my friends upset, or not, and stay here. I DONT KNOW?! its just really hard to stop though, cuz im so addicted to it. EHH` . what should i do ? thanks . if you wanna i.m. me on AIM ; BlinkBabex33 .. or you can email me ; BlinkBabex33@comcast.net (link)
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Hey I know where you coming from i was on the cutting thing before... Its not good at all I learned after i stopped or atleast stopped for the most part... No one knows about my cutting myself but ya know i guess there about 2! I wish I had never started... I've went from doing it when im mad to barely doing it at all...Anyways seeing a counciler will help... Actually legally without ur permission I believe your school counciler cant tell you parents unless she/he thinks you have an ammidet suicide risk... And I wouldnt consider that rape but its more like molestation... But about that just try to never let it happen again... I know that sucky advice about that but you dont want to start something that big with ur cutting problem bc ya it will get very stressful and then ull end up cuttn more. just try not to go over to that friends house for a little while...
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this is aways a problem for me to ask i guy out or wait for him to ask. last year i liked this boy but i thought he should ask me cause it was a boy thing. then in the summer when i was going to 7th grade in one school and he was going to another he told my friend if i had asked he would have said yes. so this year i liked this boy and i asked him out he said no i think i should have gotten to know him better. so what do i do the next time i like someone ask or don't ask?
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Just giving a guys point of view... Ok well heres how i see it... Yeah traditionally a guy asks the gurl out but wake up ya'll it doesn't always have 2 be like that anymore its not... I know plenty of gurls who wait around and the guy iz to scared/shy he will get rejected etc... He never does it and the gurl just sits and wait I mean come on u should maybe not flat out tell him you like him but try to kind of hint him on if you dont want to straight out tell him that you want 2 be more than friends sometimes its more awfward when they dont know ya know wha i mean? Sry 4 goin on and on...In other words be friends first, atleast hint him on, then if he doesnt make the move damn gurl go for it hell ya!! --Kuzo
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i really love my hair being long but i sort of wanna cut it up to my shoulders so it looks thicker and just i think it'd look cute! but im scared that i'll hate it. should i play it safe and keep my hair long? my hair takes forever to grow. (link)
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Fold your hair up and c how it looks with it that short.
--Kuzo
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HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way? (link)
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Actually on this one im not totally sure. It sounds like he likes you and you like him. Ive changed my mind about liking a gurl before because i wanted to keep our friendship cause that was more important to me. If he likes you make sure he treats you right and dont have sex with him.
--Kuzo
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My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom? (link)
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Getting drunk isnt that bad unless u make to much of a habit of it. Smoking personally i hate it cause its stupid and pointless you dont even get a good feeling of it. He is old enough to make his own decisions but he should respect what you think about what he's doin. U should talk to him and tell his friends that tell you that F U!
--Kuzo
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there is this girl whos is really really really nice but some of my friends make fun of her b/c she can't afford new clothes i want to make her have really cool clothes but the problem is i don't have any money to get her new clothes how can i make her look stylish w/ out usin alot of money?? (link)
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Thas so mean making fun of someone because of how the dress and because there less fortunate than them. They are very shallow for that. You need to definetly stick up for her and stock by her side. Tell your friends dont be F***ing a**holes. Try finding a way to earn money and go to stores/shops where clothes arnt so expensive... I go buy clothes w/ her when there are sales and stuff because its just plain cheaper. You should talk to her about it before you go buy her stuff... You 2 should go shopping together and tell her its your treat and get her some stuff ( go on sales ) Try doing some kool stuff to her clothes like doing diffrent new designs to them you could ask someone who knows how to sew and stuff to help you. I WISH U SOME MUCH LUCK!
--Kuzo
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I met this guy last summer at a resort, and I fell in love with him! Both of us had fun all week. We had a bond fire played basketball and alot more.At the end of the week we both had to go home, ( and he lives in a different state)so I figured I would see him again next year. I've talked to him all year on the internet and the phone and ect. When ever I talk to him it always sounds like he likes me and when we say good bye on the internet he types " Bye bye kiss kiss" Now I have had my friends ask him if he likes me and he wont answer them. I even asked him if he liked me. He did not answer me back. What does it meen when he didnt answer me back? Should I talk to him about it and tell him how I feel? and Do you think that he likes me?
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Kool kool meeting people is at resorts and stuff iz always fun... He doesnt know you friends so he doesnt have to answer them... When you ask him and he doesnt say anything maybe he is afraid to say yes or maybe in a bad case has a gf there... Maybe he doesnt want to say he doesnt because he doesnt want to hurt you. But i suggest you do talk to him about it ... And im not sure if he likes you or not ive never talked to him or you before...
--Kuzo
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I lived in Cleveland for a really long time and had a great bf (of two years), then two years ago, i moved, now i have this thing that whenever i get into a relationship, i compare them to my cleveland bf. My best friend told me to get an internet bf to start off slow, but i am scared to death that they will be gringy. question: are internet relationships dangerous and disgusting?
(sorry i asked you in your inbox, but my advice thing isn't working well)
Lizzy (link)
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Hey lizzy,
Its fine you sent it to my inbox. You should try not to compare new bf's to old ones. Do not get an internet bf. Yes, it can be dangerous they could be physco's stalkers etc.... Also if there an "internet bf" they can lie about who they really are etc... Its not disgusting just a little dangerous and not the best thing to do...
--Kuzo
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I think I might be pregnant because I had sex with this guy and we didn't use protection. I don't want to tell anyone though because I wasn't supposed 2 have sex until I was married. What should I do?
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First find out if your pregnant. If so decide if you are going to have the baby or not. And you did so the fact you werent suppose 2 until you were married if your pregnant is going to matter much. And you didnt use protection...Just no comment on that except for it was stupid of you...
--Kuzo
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Hey kuzo!
You know who i am man! Cmon guess.............Get it on the first try and u'll get some mula........still haven't figured it out.........dork............i'll be waiting for ur post. BTW I was just wondering how the weather in FL will be soon. jw. Later spanky (link)
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Samuel this iz for advice not ur stupid games... And give me my money... Also the weather in Fl. will be really sunny and warm perfect big paintball game weather!!
--Kuzo
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hey im on here and ive answered 50 or more questions and ive been rated why dont i have any stars ?!? please and thanks (link)
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I have no clue i would think you would have stars if you have been rated...
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alright, you might all think i'm crazy but don't judge me CAUSE YOU DONT KNOW ME! anyway..sorry but umm i'm 8 months pregnant and no one knows, not my parents, not my friends- no one...i've been able to hide it pretty well with baggy clothes and the fact that i'm a little big as it is naturally..since it's getting pretty close to my due date- and i havent seen a doctor once, yet...does anyone have ANY advice..please i'm in desperate need...and i'm really scared...i don't live at home beacuse my dad used to beat me and my mom was having an affair..so i moved out and i live with a friend..im 15 but my friend is 19..and he's not really good with this stuff..please help me ! (link)
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Definetly go see a doctor very very soon like in the week... That is going to be really important seeing a doctor because u want the baby to be ok. Also before the baby is born you need to find out what your going to do with the baby... put it up for adoption or keep it... Hurry 2 the doctor i wish u so much luck u can IM on aol me at kuzo811 plz IM i would like to tlk to u a lil on there so i can give u a lil more advice... Make sure 2 post how the baby is once it gets born i would like 2 know! GOOD LUCK!
--Kuzo
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I'm 13 and i'm dating a 17 year old...is that ok.?..but we're in love and he dosent ask me fo sex and treats me great...so why do my friends hate him and are mad at me fo me to hang out in public with him???? are they jealous or are they juss lookin out fo me???? should i have sex with him( if he did ask?????
signed, young love
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Ill start from the bottom up... Do NOT have sex with him... your a little young to be doing tha with someone ur age never the less a guy thas 17. He could get introuble if anyone ever found out. ALso they are not jealous... they just dont want you to get in trouble and they r just tryn to watch out for you. As long as he treats u good and doesnt ask u for sex itz okay but remember NO SEX... BTW ur friends r rly just watchn out for u mostly but in a case him 2... IM me at kuzo811 if you need anything i can help more on there =)
--Kuzo
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Emotions
I feel as if i'm outside myself watching life. It feels so stange, like a cat in new land.
YOu think I have no emotion, then you don't know me. If you could understand me, just listen you can hear my thoughts. The volume is always hight never quiet.
my smile is automatic, like a machine programed.
I want to tell you more, I want you to understand.
I don't know who I am. Too many voices. too many emotions.
I feel so lost! No one understands. I'm so insecure just waiting for your secure.
I reach out, I yell but my arms don't move not a sound escapes my mouth.
I'm so alone, So many voices, so many emotions....
Copyright ©2004 Kathleen Janette Bare
Is this a good poem? Let me know. I just wrote it.
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awsome poem!! totally into it...
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Hi ummm everytime Im on the beach playing Vollyball Im in my bikni, and boys just keep trying to get my attintion alot!! umm and it makes me feel weird, why is that??? Im 15/fm (link)
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Its bc you look good. Guys check out girls all the time and try to get the hott ones attentions.
--Kuzo
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how do you have sex.. I'm 10 going to be 11 in september and no one ever told me how. My mom died and I feel uncomfortable asking my daddy. and I don't have any brother's or sisters.. please tell me. (link)
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You stick the penis into the vagina. There isnt a really "correct" way to have sex. Your only going on 11 you shouldnt even be worrying about this yet. BTW dont go having sex to young your not ready for anything that could happen and your not physically or mentally ready for a baby.
--Kuzo
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