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I THINK I'M BISEXUAL!!
Hey, I'm a girl and I'm 14 years old. Okay I'm sure I love guys and everything, but I'm attracted to my best friend and my best friend is also a girl and 13 years old. I know I'm not attracted to any other girls, but her. It's weird because I feel if I could be with her it would be less complex then with a guy and since I know everything about her and she knows everything about me I feel we could be very happy together. I don't look at other girls or watch porno to see girls at all. I flirt with guys but just a lot less now because I'm focused on my best friend and I. I know for a fact if she doesn't want to be with me that way I'll go back to guys and I'll have no regret in my life becuase i went for her. We've experimented 3 times now and liked it time. One time she's wanted me so badly she's licked her lips at me and at the same time stared deep in my eyes craving to touch me. We do have a plan to try to go to college together and live together and get a big house together. We feel very relaxed and happy around each other. My life couldn't feel anymore complete without her. It's like guys are a last resort because I know if I can't have be with her then I'll go for guys. I'm very scared to tell her because if I do she'll be freaked out and wouldn't wanna be best freinds with me anymore or just be around me anymore. Please help a girl out!
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ok now you have asked this question three other times later..you were afriad of rejection,, and then there was another one..stop freaking parading around that your a hoochie slut that likes other females no one cares that you have dont stuff with her three times...you a lesbian ok everyone understands that...now are you asking all these questions because you are trying to convince yourself you are...because your a lesbian got it?
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I'm bi myself...and kind of the same thing happened to me. If she did do those things and you could tell her anything, you should tell her how you feel. There is nothing wrong with who you like, you can't help who you are attracted to. If she tells you that she has the same feelings for you, then go for it and be with her. If she does not share the same points, try your best to move on. It will hurt, but it is better to know then to live in secret. Relationships always make things complicated though, so maybe you could be friends with benifits even? But living with this deep inside of you will kill you eventually. Tell her how you feel. That is the least you could do. Who knows? She might feel like you would feel like that towards her! Best wishes and good luck.
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If she was craving for you to touch her.. most likely she's bi, or lesbian.. I'd say go for it, like you said yourself what do you really have to lose? You could always go back to guys if you want to.. or find another girl.
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Listen, you are 14 years old, please don't identify yourself yet. Don't try so hard to figure out your true sexuality, let things go on, and don't experiment with your friend if you aren't going to tell her you like it, and why would she be so freaked out if shes been 'licking her lips at you'? And not to mention, experimenting with you? If shes going to hate you for liking to experiment, then shes just a bit messed up because shes doing it too. I thought experimenting meant, 'deciding what you are', and so, shes going to get upset for feeling like you are attracted to her? Don't hide all of this, just tell her, because the more you plan on things, and the more you keep 'loving her' the way you do, she might have the reaction you said and you will be crushed. Shes a 13 year old girl! No wonder she might freak out, you and her are way too young to decide what you are, you should now just be stepping into puberty, you don't know what your true feelings are yet in my opinion, sorry, but you're trying to label your sexuality too early.
-TheTeenGirl
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First off I think you need to tell her keeping a secret like this could turn out bad if she finds out in a bad time or w/e. Tell her you think that if you are happy being bisexual you should do what makes you happy. Ask her if it makes her happy doing these things. It sounds like you really like her as more than a friend, just tell her and see where it goes from there. If you need anything else AIM- kuzo811 and email: kuzo811@yahoo.com
--Kuzo
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i think you should tell her. if shes your best friend then i dont think she would mind if she does get freaked out just say i think its a stage and i will get over it. try to be calm and serous when telling her so she knows your not joking around!
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Tell her i dont think she will mind, because she is your bestfriend and she should be able to understand if not then shes not a good enough mate. She might be shaken up about it but she will help you and you never no she might feel the say.
luv roxie
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i think your confusing a deep friendship love with a sexual love. sometimes that happens where you love someone a lot, so you think it must mean you are in love with them also. i think your just confused.. but your not gay. or who knows, you might be bi. but youd probably like more girls than that if you were bi
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Tell her about these feelings. What's the worst that can happen?
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hey hun... I think she is attracted to you too. I mean she obviously shows it.. I think you should go for it whats the worst thats gonna happen if she is really a true friend she won't leave you.. okay well hope i helped and good luck
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My brilliant answer is this...
GO FOR IT.
I'm pretty sure she feels the exact same way.
~SAM
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okay, well if she did that, she's probably attracted to you, so i'd just talk to her, and be completely honest.
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it seems like she is thinkin the same thing that you are, hun... shes your best friend so dont worry! she wont care.. just talk to her about it!!
hope i helped!!
~*~frenchfries21~*~
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