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What should I do??
I met this guy last summer at a resort, and I fell in love with him! Both of us had fun all week. We had a bond fire played basketball and alot more.At the end of the week we both had to go home, ( and he lives in a different state)so I figured I would see him again next year. I've talked to him all year on the internet and the phone and ect. When ever I talk to him it always sounds like he likes me and when we say good bye on the internet he types " Bye bye kiss kiss" Now I have had my friends ask him if he likes me and he wont answer them. I even asked him if he liked me. He did not answer me back. What does it meen when he didnt answer me back? Should I talk to him about it and tell him how I feel? and Do you think that he likes me?
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Well if he doesn't answer to the question, then most likely he does like you. If you feel the same way towards him, then maybe he'd feel more comfortable if you expressed your feelings for him first. So give it a shot!
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This guy sounds like he used to like you but for some reason doesn't anymore. Ask him straight up "Do you like me or what?" and don't leave until you get a damn answer this time. When he didn't answer you back,then he probably doesn't like you and doesn't know how to say it without hurting your feelings. Tell him you'd be interested in going out with him and that he owes you an answer. If he doesn't feel the same way,forget him,and find a guy who does.
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He could be kinda shy.. maybe he does like you and doesnt know how to react. why dont you try to tell him how you feel and then something could happen , he could be waiting for you to make the first move. ya never know.. good luck
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well guys when ya ask him that kind of stuff they SOMETIMES don't answer b/c mayb they think u don't feel the same way so i think u should tell him how u feel mayb he will come out and tell u that he feels the same way and he probley does because he alwayz say bye bye kiss kiss
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Kool kool meeting people is at resorts and stuff iz always fun... He doesnt know you friends so he doesnt have to answer them... When you ask him and he doesnt say anything maybe he is afraid to say yes or maybe in a bad case has a gf there... Maybe he doesnt want to say he doesnt because he doesnt want to hurt you. But i suggest you do talk to him about it ... And im not sure if he likes you or not ive never talked to him or you before...
--Kuzo
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You know the saying I pass on grass? Well you need to do the same about a long distances relationship. I am guessing both of you are probably younger then 18 and have no other way of getting to see each. And to get your friends to ask him if he likes you when yall are in different states and on the internet is just straight up kiddish. I would suggest for you to get out and meet someone that lives more or less around the corner. Thats all I got for ya. Good luck
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I think you should get a hold of him on the phone because it does not allow him to sort of flake the subject off as easily as the internet. Talk to him about how you feel and tell him that you need to know how he feels if you are to continue to feel the way you do about him. He then should give a strait up answer.
When he didnt answer you back, there are two possiblilites.
1. He is shy and is thinking of a way to tell you.
2. He does not feel the same way or has a girlfriend and does not want to tell you.
If he flirts with you on the phone and on the net, then I believe that he is interested in you and you should make sure that the way you feel is mutual.
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Hey,
Well first i think its great that you found the guy you like alot. Ok maybe he dosnt want anyone eles to know how he fells about you or anything like that. Sometimes i thing he mite also at the same time like someone eles. You should tell him how you fell, and let it of your shoulders.
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i think he likes you ... the reason i think that is because it is obvious ( KISS KISS )and then again he is probally shy to tell you he likes you back so if you tell him how you feel he might tell you how he feels
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*If he didn't answer you back he either doesn't like you or he's nervous to answer. You should tell him how you feel so he'd know. But ya'll do live in different states and most of the time long distance doesn't work...*
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Tell him how you feel about him, maybe then once he knows how you feel he will let you know how he feels. He probably wouldnt answer your question because he didnt want to feel rejected if you didnt like him the same way, i dunno, some guys are like that. They dont like being rejected... so just talk to him and let him know...
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Are u sure that you are in love?Maybe it's just an infactuation or somethin'!But if u r in love then plz plz plz DONT ASK UR FRENZ TO ASK HIM ANYTHING.If he's not saying anything to you then he must be afraid that your answer mite be a straight "NO NO".So reassure him a thousand and one times that u like him.Things will surely work out for you....
PS-Rate me puh-leez...^_~.
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i think that you guys should be stright forward with each other because you may never know whats going on in his life if you dont talk to him about these things because hats the only way to learn about each others lives when you live in different states
~jessica~
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The chance to me that he 'likes' you seems just as high as the chance he wouldn't. Maybe he is afraid to say he likes you because he wasn't originally planning on any kind of commitment and doesn't know how to act and express his feelings? Maybe he thinks that you don’t like him and so doesn’t want to say that he does? Perhaps, even, he may not like you and may think it pointless to hurt your feelings by telling you so. Either way, I would calm down a little, take it slow, and he will give you his answer when he is ready. Just be prepared for any outcome =). I think you may be taking it slightly more seriously than he anticipated, and he doesn't know what to do, but that's just at first glance. Good luck.
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Sounds to me he does like you, but when it comes to guys sometimes, they either play hard to get or just are too shy to admit it. But I think you should tell him you like him, maybe he is waiting for you to tell him you like him! You never know what goes on in boys' heads sometimes lol. But when you do talk to him just be all serious and tell him be like "I really want to know, so please just tell me, I like you, but I just want to know do you like me too" or you could say something else. But be serious about it so he knows! Good luck!
xoxo Kourtney
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I think it sounds like he does like you but he doesn't want to be come committed. So i'd just let it run it's course and don't be to pushy! Flirt with him if ya want ;) rate me plz!
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Personally i think he does like you, he's probably just not sure how and when to tell you or maybe he's shy. but don't give up cause i see fate in yall.
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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