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HELP PLEASE!
alright, you might all think i'm crazy but don't judge me CAUSE YOU DONT KNOW ME! anyway..sorry but umm i'm 8 months pregnant and no one knows, not my parents, not my friends- no one...i've been able to hide it pretty well with baggy clothes and the fact that i'm a little big as it is naturally..since it's getting pretty close to my due date- and i havent seen a doctor once, yet...does anyone have ANY advice..please i'm in desperate need...and i'm really scared...i don't live at home beacuse my dad used to beat me and my mom was having an affair..so i moved out and i live with a friend..im 15 but my friend is 19..and he's not really good with this stuff..please help me !
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ok if you dont want ne1 to know.. go to a docters office in another city.. maybe you should tell the daddy? or maybe a rly rly good friend.. so she or he can come with you for support
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ok wow um. im not going to judge you because this sort of thing can happen to anyone. i think you should tell your parents that your pregant and have them take you to a doctor because their going to find out sooner or later and their going to know when you come home with a baby in your hand! and you need to see a doctor to have a check up. and if they disaprove of your baby then you and your friend or the babys daddy can help you out with out your parents help. good luck!
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You should tell a doctor and if you want to, put the baby up for adoption. Your too younge and cant give the baby what it really needs. But, keeping it is totally up to you. Dont be afraid to tell the doctor. But the doctor might tell your parents. And really do something about your dad beating you. *BROOKIE* rate me
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you need to tell someone! you are 15 and about to deliver a baby. if your parents are as bad as they sound i don't blame you form not telling them, but you need to tell an adult. just go to a doctor. good luck with everything!
~*~Natalie~*~
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go tell someone right away and get to a doctor emediatly
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If you need help, you should go to Planned Parent Hood. They will take you with out any questions. They won't tell your parents anything. You really should see a doctor there. They are there to help pregnant teens. They are not judgemental or anything. Also, you should read "Annie's Baby" It's they diary of a pregnant teen and she is only 14 or 15. Please please e-mail me if you have anymore questions! 2 of my friends got pregnant before and I helped them through. My e-mail is Sweetie4143@aol.com!
Good luck sweetie!
-Bonnie*
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okay..Well i think you should go see a doctor really really fast as u can cuz its not very healthy not to go get a check up..Once you have the baby its gunna be pretty hard to take care of it with out your parents findin out or any family member or friends..so i say you give it up for adoption or just take care of it the best u can without anyone findin out which other wise i think you should just try to explain to your mom why u dont come around her at all anymore and stuff like that about the baby..good luck
~bubbles~
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Definetly go see a doctor very very soon like in the week... That is going to be really important seeing a doctor because u want the baby to be ok. Also before the baby is born you need to find out what your going to do with the baby... put it up for adoption or keep it... Hurry 2 the doctor i wish u so much luck u can IM on aol me at kuzo811 plz IM i would like to tlk to u a lil on there so i can give u a lil more advice... Make sure 2 post how the baby is once it gets born i would like 2 know! GOOD LUCK!
--Kuzo
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First of all you and you older friend are doing this thing all wrong Well all I can say is go see a doctor and tell the family! No baby was born as a mistake! Tell someone now ! if not you could be living on the streets!!!
Bianca
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Get yourself to a doctor QUICK!! Prenatal care is SO important!!!It might be a hard thing to do,but you need to let someone know.You should be going over your options,meaning whether or not you want to keep the baby,and if you do,you have a lot of things you need to do to get ready for the baby.You'll need all the necessities to take care of him/her.Sounds to me like your parents are pretty unstable as it is,so they might not be the best support system right now.Go to your closest friends who you know will support you in whatever you do,and love you no matter what!If you need to talk any further at ANY time just leave your AIM or Yahoo name in my column and we'll talk all you want!!I certainly won't judge you!
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alright just find someone to take you to the doctor and set things up like who you want to be in the room...if you dont want alot of people to know then just tell your close friends and just do all that stuff...dose the dad know?? i hope the best for you and your baby!!! XoXo Sara
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def. tell someone n go see a doctor as soon as possble!! good luck xoxo effy
p.s. dont b scared everything will b fine!!! the best wishes!!
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I'm sooooo sorry but you need to go see a doctor!!! I hope everything goes ok!
~*Bates*~
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well tell every one the truth...because they are gonna find out in a month
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you should defintely see a doctor!!
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im really sorry to say this but ur baby might be born with alot of problems??? have you been smoking drinking??? you arent taking the proper vitamins that you should be taking..becuase you havent been to a doctor for all you know ur baby might not even live...and i dont be surprised if its born with a million complications...there are alot things that you are supposed to do during pregnancies and most of them you cant do without being to a doctor....so if ur babys born wiht a million problems you can blame urself cause you put it in that situation and you cause ur baby to have all of these problems....you are obviously not ready to have a baby or else you would have cared for it and got the proper help you needed....wait to go i wouldnt be surprised if ur baby didnt make it
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you.....doctor.......now
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if you reley need help that bad you can email me at mrjones_2004@hotmail.com thats my msn add as well
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ok , u have to see a doctor immediatley!!!!! go to your local hospital . its fine if u dont live with ur parents but what u need to do is see the doctor to make sure the baby is ok and able to be born without a problem . im soo sad to here about your family and evrything . do you have ANY relatives at all , sister , or brother or aunt anybody . usually when ur at the hospital on the day the baby comes they ask for a relative besides ur b/f .in ur case , u dont have any . if i wer you i would go to the hospital in the emergency room and tell them ur situation like u havent been to a doctor in 8 monthes . the rest is up to u . take care of urself and good luck with ur baby!!!
-Francesca
hope i helped!
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I think you should go to the doctor and see if there is anything you can do. I know your scared, but you should probably try to calm yourself.
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~Brooke~ :)
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That's horrible how your dad used to beat you! And I'm sorry about that and how your mom was having an affair. You need to see a doctor immediately though. Even if your parents find out, go to the doctor for YOUR BABY'S health! I don't think you're crazy. Finding out your pregnant with bad family issues at home seems like such a stressful situation I can't imagine. But you NEED to go to a doctor. Make sure (if your friend isn't the father) that the father knows you're pregnant! (Incase you haven't told him.) Or else he will be SO mad. I would be! You have not that much time to get ready for the baby if you aren't already, so hopefully you'll have plenty of diapers and little toys and things for your baby...but no matter what, you are eventually going to have to tell someone...why not it be a doctor? Tell him that you're scared! Say how your dad used to beat you and that you've moved out with your 19 year old friend. In Georgia, they have DEFACS:
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The Mission of the Division of Family and Children Services is to help families provide the care, protection, and experiences essential to their well-being. Through the Georgia Department of Human Resources, millions of Georgians receive health care, protection, financial assistance treatment and rehabilitation for disabling conditions. Our goal is to help families and individuals stay healthy and self-sufficient. Visit www.dhr.georgia.gov for more information.
I hope I helped, maybe just even a little. Just always do what's best for your baby. Please rate me! :)
Sincerely, Cammie
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ok... did u decide if you are going 2 keep the child, adoption, abortion... all things 2 think and talk about. do u have enough money 2 raise a child? you should tell your parents because they will help you. you also NEED to see a doctor or something could go wrong. i hope that helped, good luck!
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