Question Posted Wednesday January 12 2005, 7:18 pm
this is aways a problem for me to ask i guy out or wait for him to ask. last year i liked this boy but i thought he should ask me cause it was a boy thing. then in the summer when i was going to 7th grade in one school and he was going to another he told my friend if i had asked he would have said yes. so this year i liked this boy and i asked him out he said no i think i should have gotten to know him better. so what do i do the next time i like someone ask or don't ask?
sorry 4 being so long
kuzo811 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 8:03 pm: Just giving a guys point of view... Ok well heres how i see it... Yeah traditionally a guy asks the gurl out but wake up ya'll it doesn't always have 2 be like that anymore its not... I know plenty of gurls who wait around and the guy iz to scared/shy he will get rejected etc... He never does it and the gurl just sits and wait I mean come on u should maybe not flat out tell him you like him but try to kind of hint him on if you dont want to straight out tell him that you want 2 be more than friends sometimes its more awfward when they dont know ya know wha i mean? Sry 4 goin on and on...In other words be friends first, atleast hint him on, then if he doesnt make the move damn gurl go for it hell ya!! --Kuzo [ kuzo811's advice column | Ask kuzo811 A Question ]
BehindBluEyes892 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 7:45 pm: hey! well i think you should get to know him better and just stay friends for a little while, and then as you guys move on a bit, flirt a little and then make sure you really like him..and then go for it =)
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday January 12 2005, 7:41 pm: dont worry about length. worry about getting this worked out. Wait.. just hang out with them first go to the movies and talk. Thats what I do I hung out with my boyfriend for like 2 months.. before he asked me out. then ask away! It doesnt neccesarily have to be that long but just wait and talk and be friends first-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
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