hey iim krista and ii like to help other people out when they need me!
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okay .. well recently mee and my boyfriend got into a little fiite.. well he broke up with mee.. and i dnt understand why he does thiis to mee.. every once n a while we get into it over really stupid thiings and then we break up .. and its never mee who breaks up.. its always him.. and i am soo in love with him i dnt kno what to do.. usualy i would call him cryin and wantin him back but im soo tired of that i jst wish he would come back to me for once.. what do you thiink i should do.. another prob i have is that he keeps in touch with his ex grl all the tiime.. granted they was together for about 3 years but its like he still puts her first and it kinda bugs mee.. ive said something about it and he jst says that he isnt gona drop her and that he wil always b friiends with her and stuff.. i jst dnt kno ne more what to do.. im soo in love but its like he dnt feel the same i dnt kno (link)
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hey -
ok ii kno what your talkin bout cause ive seen it happen so many times before its not even funny. i think you should be outgoing about the fact that him and his ex are still friends because they have gone out with each other for 3 years and you gotta admit that is a pretty long god damn time lol. and its not easy maybe he goes to that girl for advice ... however its not right that he puts her over you and everyone else so let him kno that its ok for him to be friends with her but to treat you guys equally cause thats the only fair way.ok but to answer your first question ii think you guys should have like a long talk and open up your heart to him - dont cry just b strong - cause sometimes guys dont like it when girls cry cause it comes off as too much for them to handle so while ur having this talk ask him for the favor in return ask him how he feels about you - and if his feelings are just as strong as yours then you can build somethin off of that - if not ii think its time you move on and find someone knew - ii kno that ur madly in love with him and its gonna be hard - trust me ii was stuck on someone for a long ass time- but then maybe youll find someone thatll care just as much about you and youll actually b happier than you are now - good luck girl
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Well I guess that depends on what you mean by cool. It dosen't make you're cool if that's what you mean, you have to be ready for it. But yes to have sex with someone your love can be cool I guess... more intense than anything. But don't do it just cuz ppl say it's cool or you should beacuse it's cool, just wait until your ready and be sure about the guy you lose it to. Hope I helped and if you want to talk more leave me a message :)!
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hey everyone...ive never had a guy treat me right...they all use me for sex, my body or watever and i dont do nething wit them tho...im pretty every 1 says and alot of guys like me but they r all the same...they ALL even tell me "when u gonna let me hit that" im like never and theyll ask me out n juss wanna fuck...so i kinda juss stopped well im startin h.s this yr and im hoping to meet a guy ther...who will love me for me....the thing is...im going camping on tuesday..i think its a gr8 chance to meet guyz...i juss dont kno wat to say to them if i see a hott one....wat shuld i do? do i wait for one to come to me? do i go up to a guy if i think ill like him? help...i want a bf s0o bad... (link)
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Yeah if you see a hottie, just go up and talk to him introduce yourself ask where he lives. But i want to warn you something about high school, your middle school guys are always saying want to **** and stuff, well sometimes it gets worse in high school. Take your time finding the right guy dont rush into things, I dont want you to get hurt! The right guy is out there it just takes time to find him
-krista-
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Does anyone know any good places to get good brands of hair straightners (sp)? what are some good brands??? please respond asap i rate really good!
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Under 20 dollars? Under 20 dollars and u cannot get a good straightener. but, the best u can buy for about 20 is hot tools. you can buy it like in a eckard or drug store of that sort. if you want to go all out (which i recomend) or you have curly curly hair (or hair that u want PERFECTLY straight) i would go for the CHI or the Superstar iron. A chi can range from about 120 - 200 dollars and a superstar is about 80-150 dollars. I would not buy a straightener off of ebay b/c you dont know whos hair touched it and the person could've had lice! i recomend only buying brand new ones! and make sure to use a heat styling product in your hair to prevent dead ends when you get your straightener! also, if u cannot find a CHI or superstar, make sure u get one with CERAMIC plates because they are less damaging to your hair and they stay hot and the heat is even as opposed to metal plated
xoxo
krista
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do you think girls like me need to get sexy underwear like thongs to impress her boyfriend, or do u think there are more important things to worry about in a relationship, like having fun together or their personalities? should i get some to make him the slightest bit happier, or should i just not get anymore? does it turn guys on to see girls in their sexy underwear or anything? where is the best place to get cute, but inexpensive thongs? (link)
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guys are guys. they enjoy things like sexy underwear etc. if you and your boyfriend have already established the emotional part of your relationship and want to establish mor of the phsycial, you should buy some sexy underwear. you can get cute lacy boyshorts at a store like marshalls or kohls. target and walmart also may sell them but they also sell packs of like 5-6 thongs. if you want something very sexy, but slightly pricy, try victora's secret. they have awesome like bra and panties sets and its all sexy. charlotte russe also has very cute thongs.
xoxo
krista
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This year my mom gave me a budget for school clothes, only 500 dollars. Last year I got twice as much and this money includes clothes, shoes, accesories, bras and panties! I'm spending my money wisely but what should I spend the most on and where should I go?
I spent 200 bucks today and didnt get hardly anything... I went to Buckle, Hollister, and Gadzooks! I need fashion HeLp please!!
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Buckle is more expensive..when you can get stuff 10x cheaper! so ive found TONS of places to get a lot of stuff! You can try going to Abercrombie, claire's, target, and the list goes on. If you get stuff on sale, shirts can be as low as $4-5 or so!! I got 3 shirts on sale @ forever 21 for $20 just last week! You should probably evenly spend your money..then again i spent over $200 at hollister lol... as long as you have enough jeans and shoes, you could focus more money on shirts! You can NEVER have enough of them! hehehe! =) Just be able to buy stuff so you can mix and match! Hope i helped! =)
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Okay i have this friend named Jesse and i really really like him and i think im in love but im only 13 so prolly not. But he started talking all sweet like he likes me but i dunno. He sometimes acts like that btu then he doesnt. He sometimes acts like he dont even care! And i dunno if i should still like him or move one..
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ok wOw have ii heard this story over and over again .. lol ii think ii can give yOu better advice on this topic since ive seen it happen over and over again. i think iits important that you sit the guy that you like down or call him and ask him how he truly feels about you and be very forward about your feelings. sometimes guys tend to play mind games with you because theyre unsure of how they feel bout you . and age is just a number trust me gurl you can fall in love at any age cause the feeling will always be the same even if your 25 or 80. Once youve talked to him and like found out how he truly feels you can move on from there. if he gives you a stupid reply to you when you ask odds are hes not in it for the right reasons. if he truly opens up to you and tells you how he feels about you with some genuity then he truly does like you. and you should try to have a relationship then. good luck !
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well hi krista well i have a bit of a problem.... well right now i'm away from home and i've been away for a lil more then a month i guess well while i been away so many more problems have occired in my life and the only way i can deal with it is to cut myself i cut before i left but now it's gotten worse i can't get through the day withought cuttin myself it's turned into a daily ritual and i dunno how to stop and now i do have sum problems with myself and i'm just afriad that when i come home none of my friends are foin to wanna be around me b/c i'm afraid i'm gunna scare them but i can't change wat i've become and i know i'm gunna scare them i scare the lil kids at the mall...well i guess i did before but ............now it's worse lol but i dunno hwo to get my friends to accept wat i've become now i guess you could say i've become a lil unstable and i scare myself so how am i supposed to expect them to except me i mean a lil girl was afraid of me ! wat do i do ........and an old lady made fun of me cuz the way i dress! i mean i haven't changed like the wasy i dress but i do look unstable more then before and that aint good wut do i do?
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hi -
ok i read this and seriously got emotional cause i know a lot of people that cut themselves hun youve gotta stop tho because what happens if you hit an important areterie or vein? you do not know the impact of that situation. sometimes people are afraid to accept and embrace individuality - but look where it got them? theyre never gonna b kool cause they all are the same .. i kno a lot of people that love people who are different and i do know however that the town we do live in is afraid of people changing cause everyone around here are the same.. but it wont matter what they say.. yea it might hurt for awhile but personally id rather be friends with someone with a uniquer quality then everybody else and one of these days people will realize it.. until then stay true to yourself.. and be who ever you want to be dontlet people putyou down and even if they do just bounce back from it .. ii kno a lot of people tend to believe that no one cares about them but seriously girl in reality there will always be that one person that would give up everything they have for you.. ii kno that the reason why people cut themselves is because they believe that if they do it'll take theyre mind off of emotional pain and theyll focus more on the physical aspective of pain .. but ii think instead of cutting yourself you need to find someone you can truly open up your heart to and pour yourself out to them.. and if you dont have that write it in a diary lemme tell you somethin.. from personal experience it HELPS A LOT . lol dont let anybody ever bring you down. and please dont cut yourself theyre millions of things you can do instead - and i kno its become a ritual to you.. but think of everybody that care for you and how many peoples lives would get shooken up.. you may not realize it when i tell you this now but there a lot of people that would ... well if u ever need help im me - you kno tha screename ! take care gurl
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hey hun jus annoying u again! oka well this tyme i gotta bigger prob. oka i meet this guy online his name is unknown! ha ha oka well i talk to him on tha phone all tha tyme n he tells me he loves me n i tell him i love him but u kno me i wanna be wit a guy n he lives far away n hes 18 i dunno should i tell him its off or jus keep it as it is? i'm 14 (link)
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ok hey gurl..
first off hes 18 and your only 14 your a minor and if you do anything and if anybody finds out he can be in serious trouble..next.. if you tell him you love him make sure you actually mean it because seriously ive learned not to toss those three powerful and destructive words around .. next 75% of the time online relationships dont work nor last. dont use the fact that you want a guy to like this dude. if you truly like him no ones stopping you but if not i think you need to tell him off.. you guys live far away from each other too which is another con - youll hardly see him you wanna be with someone who you can hold in your arms and touch - not someone who you can only hear there voice on the phone and type a message to online..
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hey um i hav this friend n everytyme that she comes over somethin is always missin. at first i think its just a coincedence but then i realize that they are seriously gone n then i would go to her house n see the items at her house but im too scared to steal them back. i dont wanna confront my friend cuz i know shes just gonna deny it n it would cause a huge fight but i want all my stuff back ya know?¿? most of it is pretty expensiv stuff too like cds and one of my hoodies and earings n shit like that. i really dont know what to do i mean i dont wanna be friends wit someone thats gonna steal from me but then i dont want to lose her as a friend. what should i do?¿?
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ok ii think that when shes not realizing that you should steal the stuff back because it is your stuff . if she truly was ur friend she wouldnt steal from you in the first place . and if ur saying shes one of your good friends then youve gotta be able to trust her otherwise shes not your good friend because the meaning of having a true friend is being able to trust them. and if she truly did steal those things of course shes not qonna admit to it . but then again what your thinking could b a coincidence . because ii kno a friend who lost a CD from her collection and totally freaked out and blamed it on everybody and then later on found it lying in her own room . stealing is such a stupid thinq ta do and can really ruin someones friendship or relationship with someone and it shouldnt b even an issue. and you shouldnt be friends with someone like that. ive had people steal stuff from me and it makes me mad and ive never stolen anything from anybody because whats the point of it? your just gonna get caught and feel stupid lol so i know what your going through dont deal with it, just make sure that this isnt all a coincidence though because its not worth losing a friend over .good luck!
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hey girl i jus bought the Ashlee Simpson CD and i love it! she is soo much betta then her sis! i really like her music! chex my page outz at cutie4life (link)
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yea me too ii love her shes so awesome!
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ok krista i nEed some help -- ok yeah im 14 years old and all.. and my life is a living hell. no matter what i do nothing seems to get better with my life. im on heavy medication, and that doesn't help with any of my mental problems, my schizophrenia, or my outrageous thoughts of suicide. im OVERLY sick of my life, and i dont know what to do.. i REALLY need help krista, im scared of what im capable of doing... damn im crying about all that happened but i REALLY need some sort of help. the thoughts just keep getting worse. (link)
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hey -
i think a lot of people are suicidal at one point or another in time - but as time qoes by it gets better and i can promise that . if you just learn to relax and think rationally thinqs will definetly lighten up in your life ii gaurantee it . and if you need to vent out someone you need to find someone you can really open up yourself to when things get too hard and you cant handle things on your own OR this always works too .. as gay as it sounds write in a journal or somethin it seriousli takes your frustration off of ur mind and itll let it loose on paper.. and the medication you take aew supposed to make you calmer but ii kno a lot of the times iit makes you hallucinate even more and it makes matters worse. but ii seriously think you need help with schizo cause that is seriously a hard thing to deal with alone ..and if you ever need help im here for you.
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Ok well you know me really well and i have a problem i like to meet strangers online and meet up with them and fuck them i lost my viginity at 13 and i go to clubs all the time just to leave with people and screw them i also like to use drugs such as cocaine, marijuana, and heroin i dont know why i just like the thrill of being able to fly plus it calms me down i no a friend whos a docter and she said if i continue down this path ill get aids most likely or within the next 5 years i will most likely die what should i do to stop my addictions??
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ok this really really REALLY scares me because you told me that ii knO yOu really well and seriously ii think yOu should somehow have a one on one conversation with mii cause this topic an get really personal. you never kno what the intentions are of the guys you meet online so youve really gotta be careful...theyll say anything to get into your pants because theyre desperate..not to be mean but its so true and yOuve gotta stOp ii knO that sOme peOple onlii like talkiin ta guys online ta get attention that the people you kno .. and plus ii kno a lOt of peOple whO like ta qet hiqh and seriouslii its not worth it .. because ive seen somebody get really messed up with it and sOme people even got in trOuble with the authorities..i dont really wanna continue on with this cause its gonna get really personal.. andim gettin really worried so if your reading this response im me : HollisterxBabi15 ...please be careful!
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i have a ? .. how do u make out ?
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haha lol .. um here its kinda hard to explain so ima get a websites answer that will explain it better
How to kiss
When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and
press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.
What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands,
and looking in his eyes.
On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...
French kissing
(or Frenching)
French kisses are kisses in which you also use your
tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.
Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!) LOL
see there ya go lol better advice
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Hey krista i have a question i have been going out with this guy for about two months everything is great i love him i can tell him anything and i jus adore him but the problem is he is like 4 states and i mean we still talk online and on the phone all the time i mean i truly do love him and he tells me he loves me and im his everythin you know that type of stuff but the other problem is he has alot of family prob. and hes like suicidal and it hurts me to know who goes through alot and i dont know what to do alot of the time so my question is do you think this will work out? and what should i do to help him out? thnk you very much!
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hey-
ii kno how it must feel to go out with someone you love when its a long distance relationship.its extremely hard and its qotta suck that you cant see the person you love everyday. ii kno that you say you love him and when he does things regarding suicide your left helpless because all you can really do is comfort him and not really like actually be there to stop him.. i think that the best thing that you can probably do in a situation like this is whenever he gets really upset and tense like that again just get him to relax reassure him about how much you love him and how you couldnt live without him and how things will get a lot better for him soon. probably by you comforting him he'll realize how much somebody actually cares for him and itll get him to stop. if you truly stay commited to one another i promise it will work but the fact that he lives 4 states away will make the task even harder. if things get to hard on you and your always gettin pressured by him threatening suicide.. and you cant deal with all the stress maybe you quys would just be better off as friends but dont totally abandon him like always be there to comfort him when he needs someone to turn to.. but like i said if u really want thinqs to work out just b one of those gurlfriends that he can count on regardless of the situation - sorta like he found a best friend in his girl.. and hopefully things will work out for the best! good luck !
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0ok well I've been goin out with this guy (we'll call him Henry), for like a month. i realLly like him and all, but now I'm finding out that my ex-boyfriend (we'll call him Harold), really likes me again. But when I was going out with "Harold" I really liked him like more than any other guy. The problem is though, that "Harold" lives where I used to live before I moved and ever since we broke up in like Feburary, we haven't been as close until about a week or two ago. I reeaallyy like "Henry" though like a whole whole lott.. but his momma i think hates me so I don't really get to see him until school starts back up. I don't wanna dump "Henry" cuz i really like him, but I'm startin to like "Harold" again and I don't know what to do. Too make things worse, "Harold's" cousin, (we'll call him Herman??) likes me too and tells me he loves me. So what should I do???
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wOw youve got a lot of people after you lol ii think you should follow your heart either way your gonna end up breaking someones heart.. but ii think yOu shouldnt use the fact that the guys mom probably doesnt like you for an excuse theres ways you can still see him before skool starts. .ii think u need to go with the person you like a lot more and the person you kno will treat you better outta all 3. good luck!
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if i talk about cutting (like someone else or myself) do u have to report that? and does it come up anonymous?
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well it would b the right thing to do - maybe not reporting to the authorities .. but getting your friend some help of some sort- and yes this is completely anonymous
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ohh okay well i have this friend and she seems to get rly mad rly easily.. like she gets either mad over jealously or jus gets rly mad cuz so much just builds up because shes not the type to let it all out. she cuts her arm.. not her wrist just like.. cuts places bcuz she gets so mad, it seems that she thinks its the only thing to do, she hasn't even told me but i can tell.. shes not the type that opens up either.. but i dont know. i dont kno wut to do neither.. i would listen to her any second of the day but she rly just likes to hold things in. i dont kno wut to do about her stop cutting.. wut shuld i do? and how do u think shes doin.. or somehting?
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im so sorry ii never got around to answering this.. you seriously need to get your friend some help because if you dont itll be too late.. ii think you need to tell your friend that she needs to open up to someone cause if she doesnt she seriously has the potential to hurt herself or someone else..odds are shes not doing to well if she has to resort to cutting.. its a scary thing to hear that one of your closest friend does that..ii think you need to comfort her even though she doesnt want you to get involved - you kinda have to before it comes down to suicide..ii think you should also sit her down and explain to her the severity of the issue..your a really great friend for being worried for her but if thinqs qet outta hand you need to confront a respectable adult to try and help too.. good luck
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Krista,
i need help. ok see me nd my friend (he's a boy) are lyk rele close, nd i can tell him practically everything. well i have had a crush on him for sooo long now, nd i want to tell him i have feelings for him, but i dunno how to tell him, nd i wanna kno if he has feelings for me too. wat do i do?
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hey -
ok ive been thrOugh this like soo many times lol and so have a lot of my friends so ill give you the best advice that ii possibly can..ii think you should confront him and be completely open with how you feel about him thats the only thing you can really do.. and the worst he can tell you is no... and ii kno how bad that sucks .. because a lot of guys like to use the classic excuse.."we're too good of friends.." but sometimes its true. you said you could talk to him about anythin and if u guys end up going out and breaking up theres a high chance he wont wanna b friends with you after that.. and thats the worst feeling in the world next to rejection knowing that the person you were realli close with doesnt wanna talk to you anymore.but honestly dont hold in your feelings anymore .. just completely open up and tell him how you feel and ask him for the same in return. good luck!
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before i ask my question i just wanted to say you have a very cool site and i think its very cool how you help people out.. but moving on..
I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and i love him to death but i choose to make stupid mistakes.. for one i cheated on him and for two i can be so mean to him cause he makes me mad sometimes but deep down i love this kid. It's like one of those things where you dont expect to fall for the guy but then you do and its amazing. anyways we've been off and on more times then a light switch but we always get back together and the other day i found out that he cheated on me. so i ended the relationship and i told him that i wanted him out of my life. But unfortunatly thats not really what i want and i have no idea whether to try to make things work again or move on.. its so crazy cause i've never been like this wiht a boy.. i've always been the heartbreaker i've never been dumped cheated on or anything bad and now i feel horrible! but i definitly want him back.. it sucks to lose a guy but i feel like i lost my best friend as well... what should i do???
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hey thank you so much about the comment on mii site and im glad somebody appreciates it
but back to your question
ok ii kno you love him to death.. but ii don think you should just dump him cause he cheated on you in any normal situation it wouldve been ok but you cheated on him before too so ii guess you can say karma hit you lol . if you really truly love him and from what you told me i definetly picked that up, then you need to show him how much you truly love him and how much he means to you because ii think after all you guys have been through together he needs to hear that kinda reassurance. and if you happen to get mad at him try to b leniant and kinda open for discussion cause if you just close him off like that your not gonna get any higher in your relationship. ii kno a lot of people cant stand it when they get cheated on but know you probably know how he mustve felt when you did and iim so sorry that you feel like youve lost someone so important to you .. but if you really want him back you need to tell him how you truly feel and be somewhat emotional about it .. and then you need to truly stay commited!and promise him youll be faithful thats the most important thing ever.. cause no one wants to be with someone they cant trust.. no one is perfect its all about seeing beyond the imperfections and embracing them.. so truly tell him how you feel and maybe things will change for you .. good luck gurl!
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