Hey krista i have a question i have been going out with this guy for about two months everything is great i love him i can tell him anything and i jus adore him but the problem is he is like 4 states and i mean we still talk online and on the phone all the time i mean i truly do love him and he tells me he loves me and im his everythin you know that type of stuff but the other problem is he has alot of family prob. and hes like suicidal and it hurts me to know who goes through alot and i dont know what to do alot of the time so my question is do you think this will work out? and what should i do to help him out? thnk you very much!
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ii kno how it must feel to go out with someone you love when its a long distance relationship.its extremely hard and its qotta suck that you cant see the person you love everyday. ii kno that you say you love him and when he does things regarding suicide your left helpless because all you can really do is comfort him and not really like actually be there to stop him.. i think that the best thing that you can probably do in a situation like this is whenever he gets really upset and tense like that again just get him to relax reassure him about how much you love him and how you couldnt live without him and how things will get a lot better for him soon. probably by you comforting him he'll realize how much somebody actually cares for him and itll get him to stop. if you truly stay commited to one another i promise it will work but the fact that he lives 4 states away will make the task even harder. if things get to hard on you and your always gettin pressured by him threatening suicide.. and you cant deal with all the stress maybe you quys would just be better off as friends but dont totally abandon him like always be there to comfort him when he needs someone to turn to.. but like i said if u really want thinqs to work out just b one of those gurlfriends that he can count on regardless of the situation - sorta like he found a best friend in his girl.. and hopefully things will work out for the best! good luck ! [ HollisterxBaBi15's advice column | Ask HollisterxBaBi15 A Question ]
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