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before i ask my question i just wanted to say you have a very cool site and i think its very cool how you help people out.. but moving on..
I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and i love him to death but i choose to make stupid mistakes.. for one i cheated on him and for two i can be so mean to him cause he makes me mad sometimes but deep down i love this kid. It's like one of those things where you dont expect to fall for the guy but then you do and its amazing. anyways we've been off and on more times then a light switch but we always get back together and the other day i found out that he cheated on me. so i ended the relationship and i told him that i wanted him out of my life. But unfortunatly thats not really what i want and i have no idea whether to try to make things work again or move on.. its so crazy cause i've never been like this wiht a boy.. i've always been the heartbreaker i've never been dumped cheated on or anything bad and now i feel horrible! but i definitly want him back.. it sucks to lose a guy but i feel like i lost my best friend as well... what should i do???
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hey thank you so much about the comment on mii site and im glad somebody appreciates it
but back to your question
ok ii kno you love him to death.. but ii don think you should just dump him cause he cheated on you in any normal situation it wouldve been ok but you cheated on him before too so ii guess you can say karma hit you lol . if you really truly love him and from what you told me i definetly picked that up, then you need to show him how much you truly love him and how much he means to you because ii think after all you guys have been through together he needs to hear that kinda reassurance. and if you happen to get mad at him try to b leniant and kinda open for discussion cause if you just close him off like that your not gonna get any higher in your relationship. ii kno a lot of people cant stand it when they get cheated on but know you probably know how he mustve felt when you did and iim so sorry that you feel like youve lost someone so important to you .. but if you really want him back you need to tell him how you truly feel and be somewhat emotional about it .. and then you need to truly stay commited!and promise him youll be faithful thats the most important thing ever.. cause no one wants to be with someone they cant trust.. no one is perfect its all about seeing beyond the imperfections and embracing them.. so truly tell him how you feel and maybe things will change for you .. good luck gurl!
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