ok so ive liked this kid for a really long time he liked me too but he didnt want to go out. then one day he invited to his house to hang out and "do stuff" and i couldnt go that day so i went 2 days later. we did and i had fun things were going good then the other night i was talking to him and he told me that he had a gf the day we met. he said he didnt when he first invited me...but got one in the 2 days i didnt c him. it really hurt and i dont kno what to do..i like him alot but i hate him at the same time. please help me. he said he was going to change before but he never did and i jus need advice..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AskKara answered Saturday July 24 2004, 2:07 pm: This just goes to show you how some guys are. Most of the time they only think about themselves and getting their "little jimmy" some special attention. I'm sorry to say but I think he already had things lined up with this one girl. She probably wasn't giving him any at the time and viewed you as a perfect target. Its harsh but unfortunately its the sad truth. I doubt theres any hope for change at the time. He's young,immature,and doesn't know what he wants. For all you know he has secret fetishes and a background you probably don't know about. I'd investigate. [ AskKara's advice column | Ask AskKara A Question ]
goodgurl answered Saturday July 24 2004, 1:06 pm: bab dont ever trust a guy because they only want 1 or 2 things from you you know what i mean but if you find a good on hold on to him b-cuz they are hard to find
LilMia811 answered Saturday July 24 2004, 1:05 pm: Chances are if he played his last girl. He will play you. I'm not saying that guys don't change. But he obviously wasn't liking you that much to have went and got a girl in the 2 days you didn't come. And if he thought that you would think that was okay, then he probably doesn't thik to highly of you neither. I think reguardless of how you feel for him, you have to push those feelings aside and move on. Find a guy who will treat you with soem respect, because thats what you deserve and you shouldn't settle for anything less. Hope I helped and Good Luck! :)
ClurBur answered Saturday July 24 2004, 12:58 pm: Seriously.. i dont think you need this guy! Its upsetting you and come on no1 wants a guy who upsets them! dont waste your energy! Im sure you can do alot better! Stay confident and im sure the right guy will come along soon! And when he does you'll appreciate it a whole lot more! [ ClurBur's advice column | Ask ClurBur A Question ]
12bRe28 answered Saturday July 24 2004, 12:58 pm: if u love him, then there isn't ne thing u can do it takes time 2 blow over, it could even take a yr or more.... maybe him doin that 2 u should let u c that he's already hurt u n think bout if u want 2 b hurt more? [ 12bRe28's advice column | Ask 12bRe28 A Question ]
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