Gender: Female
Location: Katy
Occupation: School
Age: 16
AIM: nannerziznude214
Member Since: July 20, 2004
Answers: 13
Last Update: July 26, 2004
Visitors: 1241
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ok me and this girl used to be like best friends...and things happend and were not near as close as we used to be, but while we were best friends we always talked about how stupid drinkin was and all this stuff... so neither of us ever did... then we became not friends and i found out she started drinkin... it bothered me really bad knowin she did this... and now were friends again, but she still drinks... i told her it didnt bother me but it really does, i dont know what to say to her because i know were not as close as we used to be... so i dont want to tell her not to drink bc our friendship isnt close enough to do that anymore, but it really bothers me and i hate seeing her like that and i hate knowin she does this stuff again, what should i do? (link)
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u should tell her so ya'll can tlk bout it, b/c i'm sure if u told her she would respect it...n try 2 stop atleast, b/c i'm sure other people that mean alot 2 her n r close 2 her, r tellin her the same things.....maybe one more discusion w/sumone that means alot 2 her will make her realize sumthing or 2 slow down??
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i was in two carwrecks with my mom. i am now in a
wheelchair. i go to the doctor alot so i miss school alot. but i still have a 3.5 . anyways,
i can't go and be in sports anymore and i can't ride the rides at the fair and i can't do all of the stuff i used to. is it wrong for me to cry when all of that stuff gets to me? am i just being selfish and a cry baby? if you could please help. signed,
feelin blu (link)
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it's not wrong 4 u 2 cry, everyone cries it's apart of life, and u're just obviously not accustom 2 the life style that has just hit u.. it'll take time, n i'm sure u can find fun and exciting things 2 keep u occupied....just hang in there!!
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I had it good for a while. I guess most of us dont realize when to appreciate what you have. I had it so good id do just anything to back on the past. But lets forget me... my sister used to be average wieght.. NOT fat at all just not as skinny as everyone else. I used to call her fat tho just in spite of her when i wanted something and she wouldnt give me something or if we were fighting. I regret that in every way shape or form. PLEASE if you've been calling some1 fat dont do it, you will hospitilize some1 no joke it gets to people. So anyway shes been away at camp for 5 weeks.. and shes not the same. She wont let herself touch a hamburger, or anything besides salad and yogurts and rice cakes and such. She wont let herself have even a rootbeer float.. its so wierd. But worst of all shes not anything like she used to be. She used to be happy. Shes really homesick right now and she admits when she comes back shes going to need therapy because she even KNOWS that her lifestyles are messed up. Its not that she doesnt want to eat all those foods she CANT. She always feels so compared her whole life she has and now im fearing for her and wishing things were back to normal. Nothing has ever been this screwed up in my life i have never been asked to handle this 1nce before in my life and now its my own sister... and i just dont know what to do. Its like no1 cares... my aunt only has mean things to say like shes starving herself and she yells at my sister. Yelling wont help her any! My mom understands and so does my dad and they care but it hurts to see them so worried. I cant take it! This could all be my fault.. i should have never called her names.... what do i do to keep myself from getting overly sick at myself. Im not about to go anerexic or cut myself or anything lame like that im too full of life and i could never stoop down to that level but i always feel like i just want to stay in bed all day. I want my life to be normal, but i cant have that...
for a person thats going to be sensitive to my feelings... *PLEASE* answer asap
and 2 the rest of u.. never say anything you could regret
XoxOO-
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people always say things they regret n u're right sumtimes it's too late 2 take the harsh words back. but while u've got the chance b4 it's too late, tell her how much u care about her n that the names u used 2 call her u never meant n ne mean way at all. i'm sure she has called u names b4 that have got 2 u really bad. granted calling sumone "FAT" when they've got a weight prob is really mean n it can really hurt sumone inside, u're titled 2 ur own opionion but the worst thing u can do is ruien sumone elses self esteem. just appoligize n tell her how much u care, n u shouldn't put it all on urself 4 her actions now.
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I just turned 14. I'm about 5'5 and weigh about 105 lbs. I feel I am fat for some reason even though I wear extra smalls and zero's in clothing and everything. Everyone thinks I am very tiny but I don't see myself that way. Because I feel I am fat I try to do 200 crunches a day along with running for about a half hour. Is there anything else I can do to loose weight and just tone up more? I also don't eat much. Like for maybe a couple days a month I'll eat like breakfast, lunch, and dinner. But all the rest of the time I usually only eat a small breakfast and that's it. Am I over doing the whole weight loss thing? Everyone has been yelling at me and saying I am overdoing it and I really want to know if I am. Please help and answer. Is my weight ok for my height and age? I both cheerlead and run track and want to make sure I am skinny cause for some reason I feel people won't like me otherwise. Can someone please give me some advise and help on the situation? Thanks. *Love Always Annonomous*
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i think that at this point u shouldn't worry bout ur weight b/c u're only 14 yrs old n u have alot more growin 2 do, so stop tryin 2 loose weight. it's not helpin n later on it could really catch up 2 u, so just calm dwn n live life 2 the fullest!!
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ok so ive liked this kid for a really long time he liked me too but he didnt want to go out. then one day he invited to his house to hang out and "do stuff" and i couldnt go that day so i went 2 days later. we did and i had fun things were going good then the other night i was talking to him and he told me that he had a gf the day we met. he said he didnt when he first invited me...but got one in the 2 days i didnt c him. it really hurt and i dont kno what to do..i like him alot but i hate him at the same time. please help me. he said he was going to change before but he never did and i jus need advice.. (link)
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if u love him, then there isn't ne thing u can do it takes time 2 blow over, it could even take a yr or more.... maybe him doin that 2 u should let u c that he's already hurt u n think bout if u want 2 b hurt more?
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i want to tell my ex-boyfriend that i still have feelings for him even thought i know nothing will happen cuz he has a gf that i'm sure he loves but how do i say it??!! (link)
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well if u kno that nuthins gunna happen don't waste ur time tellin him b/c u'll just get hurt even more but if u still want him 2 kno just tell him that u still have feelings 4 him n tell him how u feel. maybe u'll get lucky n sumthin will happen..... but u can still have feelings 4 sumone n not b w/em!!!TRUST ME!!!!
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well... ever since i was lets say... about 7 i wanted a lil sis. but now that my aunt is trying to give us coustudy of my 6 or 7 yr old cousin b/c she is being trialed and can possibly convicted of child abuse. she knows our house hold is better than hers but i don't want a lil bratty girl getting into my buisness. i wouldn't mind if she was like 2 or 3 but then she will get into my buisness. what do i do? She will have to know everything that is going on and i will have to spend the rest of my spare time playing with her! i already hate my older bro! HELP!! (link)
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she won't b n ur business if u're nice 2 her...she'll only try n get u n troubble if u're mean 2 her...so make her feel loved n show her attention b/c obv she hasn't been gettin enough, i'd rather have a 7yr old sis then a 2 or 3 yr old...n u won't always have 2 ply w/her they can intertain them selves.... n u don't hate ur bro!
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is it ok that i like older guys?? they are more mature and cuter in my opinion. i was wondering is this ok?? (link)
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it just depends the age diff n how old u r n how old he is?
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I'm addicted to taking pictures of myself, i have lyke over 400 recent pics. All of my friends lyke always say that I'm lyke conceited or that I'm in love with myself, but I honestly think their just jealous!...what should i lyke do?!@#$^&!? (link)
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stop takin pics of urself if ur friends think that....i don't take pics of myself 2 often, so maybe u r??!??
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when are the earliest signs of pregnancy and what are they??? how can you avoid a birth IF NESSECARY?? (link)
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don't have sex or if u do protect urself!
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My best guy friend hangs out with my boyfriend. Today he told me that my boyfriend was talkin about how annoying I am because I play mind games with him (I have NO idea what kind of mind games I play..) He said he doesn't love me as much anymore and he might break up with me.
Should I believe my best guy friend and expect the worst... or do I just ask my boyfriend about it and hope he doesn't get mad at my guy friend.
I don't want to ruin their friendship, but I don't want to get my heart broken because I didn't listen to my guy friend... What should I do?? (link)
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u should ask b/c ur guy friend could b just tryn' 2 break ya'll up...it happends!
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im not really aloud to wear thongz but i reall wunna ask my mom but she thinks there really painful n how girls can wear em. also i think she thinks their for hoes n slutz etc. i dont she does. lol. well how do i ask her in a way she might say yes? i already have one but i have to wash it wen shez not home. i kno itz weird but i use it alot. lol. but i wash it! cuz i dont really like wearing regualr underwear that much n i wunna buy thongz n throw away them grnnyz. lol. oh my goodness. lol. okay this is a little embarassing but i dont really wear big underwear like underwear thats even a little losse i call grnnyz. wellz plz help! (link)
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just ask it won't hurt!!!!
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no one turns me better than you and the things you do.... i need some help.... (link)
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how am i supposed 2 help u w/that whenever it's a pleasure 2 have the ability 2 crave ur hormones :-D
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