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a new lil sis... NO!!!
well... ever since i was lets say... about 7 i wanted a lil sis. but now that my aunt is trying to give us coustudy of my 6 or 7 yr old cousin b/c she is being trialed and can possibly convicted of child abuse. she knows our house hold is better than hers but i don't want a lil bratty girl getting into my buisness. i wouldn't mind if she was like 2 or 3 but then she will get into my buisness. what do i do? She will have to know everything that is going on and i will have to spend the rest of my spare time playing with her! i already hate my older bro! HELP!!
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she won't b n ur business if u're nice 2 her...she'll only try n get u n troubble if u're mean 2 her...so make her feel loved n show her attention b/c obv she hasn't been gettin enough, i'd rather have a 7yr old sis then a 2 or 3 yr old...n u won't always have 2 ply w/her they can intertain them selves.... n u don't hate ur bro!
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Give her something to do that entertains her, tell her you'll play a game with her if she leaves you alone after the game is over, lol, or let her watch TV so shes occupied by that while you do what you want
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I know what you mean...but your probaly gonna have to be nice to the kids becuz if they are going to live w/ you becuz of child abuse then they will probaly need someone thats pretty loving and nice..just be nice and tell them how its gonna be..your business is your business and then need to stay out..I think they'll understand and if they don't they will when they get a little older and they'll realize what brats they were when tehy were younger..Hope i helped!! GOOD LUCK!!
*much love*
*~tasha~*
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Ok ik exacly how you feel because i have two little brothers. Sometimes they can be cool and other times they can be well..a pain in the butt! Having a little sister is going to be hard because she will prombley want to be like you-ik my friends sisters do-so times it will get annoying but thats when you put your foot down and go i have had enough get out or you wnt be cool! lol something like that..just talk to your mom would be the best advice because she will understand what you are going through..and she will be able to make the child listen to her..thats what i do with my brothers when they become too annnoying! Hope it helps..if not write back!-x0x becca
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stop thinking about just you... think of what they are going through... your cousin is prob. going through alot... she will need your comfort... just be there for her ya know... it might be hard for you but... its the right thing to do... *mare*
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talk to your parents about it. make sure they know you like your privacy & you dont want this girl invading it whatsoever. tell them you'll play with her sometimes, but you would like your own life too! they'll understand if you're mature about it. hope i helped xo
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