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My best friend told me ... do i believe him...?
My best guy friend hangs out with my boyfriend. Today he told me that my boyfriend was talkin about how annoying I am because I play mind games with him (I have NO idea what kind of mind games I play..) He said he doesn't love me as much anymore and he might break up with me.
Should I believe my best guy friend and expect the worst... or do I just ask my boyfriend about it and hope he doesn't get mad at my guy friend.
I don't want to ruin their friendship, but I don't want to get my heart broken because I didn't listen to my guy friend... What should I do??
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ask your boyfriend and tell him to tell u the honest truth. then ask ur best friend if he was just saying that bc he has feelings for u or something. thats more than l;ikely why if he is lying
-katie
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You should try and just question your boyfriend. Don't tell him who told you. Just question him. I've done it before. But your guy-friend might only be saying this to try and get you to break up with your boyfriend because he likes you. But you don't know that for sure so I would just question your boyfriend about it.
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Your "guy friend" could be telling the truth, of course if he is hes not being a good friend by telling what your boyfriend said to him. Dont say anything to your boyfriend, if your really annoying him he should have the guts to tell you himself.
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Well i say you should take your best friends word..but you if your haven't doubts then just sit your boyfriend down n tell him not to get mad at the other guy..ask him about it n tell him that you have strong feelings for him n you want to stop the mind games, ask him what games you play wit him.
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i think u should talk to your boyfriend bout it.. ask him about it and but dont tell him.. if he denys then ok.. jus move on but expect some bad things but dont rly necessarily think hes dumping u
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ask your best friend if he minds that you talk to your boyfriend about it... if he says yeah then confront him about it... if he says no... have him talk to your boyfriend for you. *mare*
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if ur best friend tells u this then its most likely true .. listen to him .. its up to u to talk to him about it or just simply dump him ..
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Alright, if you ask your boyfriend he might try to lie and you might want to believe him. But asking him is still the most direct way to go, I would just expect that Both of them might be lying, and go with your gut feeling.
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I'm really sorry to hear that! You definitly need to ask your boyfriend before you go and belive your friend and just assume things. Once one of my best friend guy friends told me my boyfriend was dancing with other girls and I got so mad at my boyfriend and dumped him. The worst part was, it wasnt true. So just assuming things and believing other people can lead to trouble. Talking to him will give you a chance to prove to your boyfriend you dont play mind games if he seriously said it and you will get closer than before. Good luck sweetie with your boyfriend!!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!
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i think you should just ask your boyfriend straight up, i mean i think you could tell if hes lying? don't like accuse him of saying it incase its just your ex making it up because he wants you back...so just try that!
xoxo
ali
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i would just ask ur bf and see wat he says. tell him that u like it when ppl talk to them face to face not behind there back. (if he was talking about u)ooo and if he was then he is a dumbass
punk4lyfe
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I wouldn't bring it up. Your guy friend told you because he wanted you to know, he probably doesn't want you telling your boyfriend he told you. This or he's trying to break you two up. Ask your boyfriend how he feels, ask him were he sees you two in the future. You can probably tell whether or not he wants to break up by how comfortable he is after you've asked.
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Ask your boyfriend-trix
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Sounds to me like you need to talk to your boyfriend. If your guy friend is right, then your boyfriend should be the one talking to you, not your guy friend.
Ever thought of the possibility that your guy friend might like you, and might be trying to kill your relationship with your guy?
Might be unlikely, but you never know...
You should brace yourself, though, 'cause you might get hurt anyway, but you do need to talk to your boyfriend. Tell him what your guy friend told you, and ask him what's going on.
I hope things work out!
-Siren =)
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u should ask b/c ur guy friend could b just tryn' 2 break ya'll up...it happends!
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You should definetely tell you boyfriend and ask him whats up...If he gets mad at ur guyfriend then thats his problem..he shouldn't have said anything in the first place..Ihope I helped..GOOD LUCK!!
*much love*
*~tasha~*
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