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Is it okay to fall for someone if they complement you and make you feel amazing when ever your feeling down and make you laugh all the time?
What if they were 6 years older than you?
Please help...
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yes.. thats sweet.. and dont worry bout age.. unless... ur like.. 12.. and theyre 18.. omg.. lol.. or if ur 11.. and theyre 17.. wow.. well.. maybe it would be better if you were like... 18 and they were 24
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Sounds like a pretty good reason to fall for someone if you ask me so thats no problem! as for the age difference ir doesnt really matter if you've simply fallen for them. However if you are interested in starting something with them the age difference may be a problem depending on how old you are. Say if you're 12 or 13 going out with someone who is 18 or 19 may not work, but if you're say 17 or 18 it wouldnt necessarily be a problem. You also need to take into account depending on your age how interested this person would be in starting a relationship with someone who is 6 years younger than themselves. However if its just a casual crush theres no problem at all!
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damn 6 years is pushing it babe....
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Is it okay? It's completely normal..but I mean the whole 6 years thing..yeah..thats kinda tough. I mean it's definitely possible to fall for him, but the whole thing with the age difference and if you're a minor...then thats a little risky..
There is nothing you could do if it's in a situation where you may get in trouble..=/
good luck
`jeSsie
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thats kinda weird but its not ur fault for fallin for a guy that is six years older then you.. i mean if he makes u feel so good then y does it matter how old he is.. atleast hes not lik 20 years older then you
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Well.. I wouldn't go for it just because it could be dangerous. If you're over eighteen, then you have the right to do as you please.. this is also the age that rape becomes legal. (it also is called "sex" at this point.) Six years is a very large age gap, my friend.. maybe this person thinks of you as a sister? (you're a girl, right?) Because sometimes guys will "adopt" a younger sister or brother and basically keep them under their wings.. keepin' them cheerful, helpin' with homework, makin' them feel special.. OR, on the other end of the scale, you could say that this guy is only trying to use you. Maybe he just wants sex from this.. pleasure. Maybe he's only interested in your body. Or, in the middle of the road, maybe he just likes you for you. Maybe he wants to get to know you better, hang out, maybe date? I wouldn't do it, just... I wouldn't. I would, however, be his friend, talk to him and stuff.. but not let the relationship excel from that stage. There is no answer to this question that is proven.. because I cannot tell you what is going through this person's mind. If you're really ambitious (or bold..) then ask the person if he (or she.. if you're a guy..) likes you as more than a friend. Or get a friend to ask him. Be careful.. don't do anything you'll later regret, my friend.
-FunnyCide
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anonymous -
It's not wrong to fall for them at all. Dating might be a different story. Not because he's older, but there are some other aspects you need to take into consideration.
Keep in mind his personality, his flaws, his relationship past, etc. If it's a little shady, I suggest you find someone else cuz he could possibly be playing you for a fool. But if he is nice, his girlfriend history checks out and is pretty reasonable, go for it.
Also remember that if he's over 18 and your an underage minor (17 and below), if he has sex with you, it would be considered illegal.
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maybe if theyre 6 years older, theyre more expirienced with the sweet talk and just do it to drive u wild even thought they have no intention of being with you. if they like you then sure go for it. <3
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Well if you were 18 and he/she was 24 it would be okay. If you were 20 and he was 26, it would be okay. If your younger than 18 then its not okay! I know you makes you feel wonderful but if your 13, 14, 15, or even 16 then thats definatley not something you should mess around with. Lots of guys try to go for the younger girls and stuff..but its just too dangerous.
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