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17/F. My girlfriend dumped me just before Christmas saying she was unhappy with me. Now she won't talk to me. I won't be back in school for a week because I'm going on a family trip. I can only talk to her in school becuase she won't answer her phone. We were doing great for a week or two, then it all came unglued. Should i confront her or just move on?

i think that you should do both. because if you just try to move on you will always think about her and why she didnt ever talk to you. but confronting her too will help that not happen.

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Well I really like this guy and it seems like he likes me too. Should I ask him out or wait for him to ask me out?

well, you dont really know if he likes you so i think you should have a friend start up a covertation with him and start talking about you and have her say it looks like you like my friend and he will tell her if he likes you or not. and have your friend say that you like him too and should ask you out. =]. hope i helped

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Umm Ok, I play Basketball and Softball and I love them both but I also wanted to try Soccer...I know how to play a little bit but I don't know the postions, or the rules does anybody have any good websites or know all that stuff??? And do you think I should try out next year? I have to admit I'm A little nervous

i dont know any websites but the rules are if you kick the ball too the goal but it goes to the corner a little thats a corner kick for the other team.can't use your hands,elbows,or arms. ar free kick for the other team.if your team was the last one to touch it and it goes out then the other team throws/kicks the ball in.there is goaly(person theat gards the net)they are the only one that can touch the ballthen there is two defence they stand infrot of the goally..they try to stop it from getting to the goally then the rest is offence. they play all around.i defently think you should try out you would probley be grade from the running skill you get from softball(witch i love and play too

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about what age do boys and girls start french kissing?

usally when your 13 after mabey a month of dating or when your ready.hope i helped you

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12/f/fl i like this boy but he like another girl but every time i ask him he says he dont like her and i asked him out and he said he will tell me when he gets back but im not sure if he like this girl but now i hear he likes another girl to0o i need advice jackie???

this guy really doesnt know who he likes because he says he like this girl but then denys..i really dont think he knows who to love and who to leave behind..he is kidda stressing over them.and he may like you too. you just never know.because at this point he can like 5 people but at the end he'll pick one..hopfully if you

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I need a job i wanna babysitt.
Wat should i do ?

you can post flyers about you that say you babysitt anytime for eveny one.put you house phone and your cell phone or moms/dads cell numbers so they can contact you. also leave your adress.or you can ask ur mom/dad if they have any friends that need a baby sitter and your good to go

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I'm making a CD.Does anyone know of any good rock songs that I may have forgotten to add to my list? I don't mind if the songs are a little old.

i know some good songs:)some of them you might have not heard of
Hands Down-Dashboard Confestional
At Least I'm Known For Something-New Found Glory
Dead on Arivle-Fall Out Boy
Be My Escape-Relient K
Best of You-Foo Fighters
Swing Swing-The All American Rejects
99 Red Ballons-Goldfinger
hope i helped

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Hey my parents are going away for a few days and I want to have a proper big house party. Any tips? And I mean like music, like alcohol, like CLEANING UP afterwards, and how many people is too many! Thanks (I have a couple weeks yet)
I rate high

ok the music depens on the people that come like skater,(rockers)getto(rapers)..4 the alcohol make sure that they don't get drunk to bad because then after u have to clean their throw-up(ewww)lol..and have your parents room off limmits..lol...that would be hard to hide and crap..lol..HAVE FUN!

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ok,when i wake up/when i change my under wear,there is yellow-white stuff in it. is that discharge? and if so how long dose it last/is it a sign of getting my period?

yes that is a discharge it last the most at like a month.

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ok, so i am going shopping and i like sean john but i'm an oero (black on the outside white on the inside) and i was wondering if sean john is a black or white person brand??

it is both a lot of my friends ware sean john both black and white.♥.

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Okay:
Put yourself in my position, say you like a girl. But, you have heard they like someone else. You can do one of two things, either keep quiet and stay quiet. Or you can play the risk card and ask her out(You dont give a F if it makes you lok like a total loser) What would you do? In my opinion this girl is absolutly BEAUTIFUL. She is smart, funny,great friend,awsome all-around person. And like I sais absolutely gorgous(sp?)

What Would *You* do?

well i am a girl so i would say go for it ask her out you will feel a lot better

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lastnite i was on the fone with my boyfriend and my mom kept coming in saying she needs the phone and i wouldn't get off cause my boyfriend and i were in the middle of a conversation. So... she took my cell phone which in this case my dad bought for me (parents are split up) and i pay for monthly and she only did it to waste my minutes. so when i got off the phone i walked into the living room and there she was on the couch talking on my phone and i got pretty pissed off about it. So... i tried grabbing it from her and told her to give me my damn phone but she pushed me away and slapped my arm and then she finally got off but she wouldn't give it to me and she went and got the home phone so again i tried grabbing for my cell phone and she pushed me into the wall and started choking me and cussing at me and so i called her a fucking bitch and she pushed me onto the couch and punched me in the chest and in the face and slapped me across the face and kept saying what did you just call me and i tried kicking her off me and then i finally got her off me and she goes to my stepdad you wanted her here then you can stay with her and she left..... thats just the background... but my question is what am i supposed to do, I have a HUGE mark on my neck from where she was choking me and now i have worse breathing problems (i have asthma pretty bad) i mean like should i call the poilce or should i call child services i have no idea what to do!! HELP ME PLEASE

you should call both!!!

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Sorry this is long, but I rate high.

Im moving soon, August to be exact. But there is this guy where i live now that Ive had a crush on since Feb. of 2004. I guess it's more than a crush now. Anyways, some people say he likes me but he never tells anyone who he likes so they just assume he does. Well, now that I'm moving I want to truly find out if he likes me so I can possibly make a move or I know to flirt more and w/e. Im so confused. I don't want to leave wishing I had done something. What do I do? Sorry this might be a little confusing...but Im just as confused. PLEASE HELP!

well the same thing happened to me i moved in 2000 in august and i had a big crush on this one guy but i never told him when i moved here i couldn't stop thinking about him i would always call and we would talk i never told him how i felt so when you have the time tell him you really like him

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Hey! I got my teacher this awesome gift for the end of the year, and I want to make it from the whole class. I spent $25 on it, and I want everyone in te class to pay $1 to 'chip in'. Our teacher is rarely absent, and she never leaves the room. how can I distract her in order to get the $$$?

well i think you should get it before school or after school..but if not everyone is there have everyone bring the money to school and act like it is your birthday..and put the money in an onvalope..she will never kno

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I need help... well i am going out wit someone lets call him Jason! well anyways I really like Jason but I really love my old boyfreind lets call him Jon.. well me and Jon talk alot on the phone.. i loved him since we started goin out heck, ive liked him since i first saw him! lol .. well what I am asking is should i break up with "Jason" or stay with him.. I mean i like him and dont want to hurt him but I love Jon! I cant not think about him.. i dont kno I am so confused

well it seems that you don't have true feelings for Jason..but you have true feelings for Jon..I say follow your heart and do wut is right for you..so i would go out with the one I love because the you like will leave you for the ones they love

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ok, heres my problem. im in 7th grade (13 years old). ive gone out with the same guy three times in the past two years, and everyone thinks thats really weird. ive had other boyfriends, of course, but he was always the best. no matter how hard we try, everytime either of us gets a crush on someone else, it only lasts for a couple of weeks, then we realize how much we love each other. i think theyre really might be something between us, but i would feel SO embarrased to get back together with him because everyone at my school would think it odd for it to be the 4th time to go out with him in 2 years!!! but then again, i dont want to loose what i have... hes a REALLY awesome guy! hes a good football player, and hes really hot, but also he has another artsy side to him. he can find beauty in almost anything and aif your in a bad mood, he makes you feel like youre the most amazing person on the planet. so what should i do? i rate good responses.

there is no embarrasment of going out with someone more then once. I think that both of you have a very stronge realationship together..my friend went out with someone 15 times in one year lol..you to were ment to be.

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ok, well i'm an 8th grade girl and i really like this 7th grade guy, and he asked me out and i said yes, but i'm wondering if that's weird or not.. idk, i'm just confused, please help me!
~mandy

thats not weird at all..my friends mom is older then her dad from like 3 years! lol

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I noticed I was one of your favorite columnists so I looked at your column. Then I noticed you were only answering questions that were asked to you. And I thought your advice was good and should be shared with more people. So what you should do is hit the View Questions link. There is where you can find questions asked to the whole site that you can answer. And once you answer 5 questions your column can be searched for and shows up on the list pages. Also after 30 days if you have been rated 5 times you can become a moderator. These are just some tips from an advicenators user. Send me one in my inbox so I know how it works for you! ~help4ualwayz17

awsome thanks

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this reli sucks..this guy likes me but hes reli sweet but i dont wanna go out with him cause i like someone else...andi herd that this other peroson likes me and this is so confuzinnn...mann i neeeed help..

well this is hard...first you should try to find out if the boy you like likes you back before you anser the other boys..so then if the boy you like likes you you can go out and the other boys won't ask you out any more but if the boy you like doesn't like you then you should just move on..and if one the boys that want to ask you out you should go out with the one that you can see your self being with I hope I helped

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LIFE SUCKS

no one understands
*tear*
i kno i sound emo but no one ever understands..no one every knows why and they blame me for stuff everyone thinks im all happy...im not...
i dont kno why i even try no one cares
no one fu**ing cares
not even my fu**ing frends

and of coarce the usuall...
i like this guy but he doesnt like me..i dont think....my frends told him thati like him but he doesnt believe them...wut do i do

me

I know how you feel...trust me same thing happened to me..you may think that no one cares but there is some one that does care..the guy I like doesn't like me back either..if all your friends did tell him that you liked him get a friend that don't lie to tell him he will probally belive them..and if that doesn't work try finding someone new in your life...in a guy go for persanalaty and not looks (well not if they are beoned uglt lol)I hope I helped you

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