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i dont wanna loose what ive got...
ok, heres my problem. im in 7th grade (13 years old). ive gone out with the same guy three times in the past two years, and everyone thinks thats really weird. ive had other boyfriends, of course, but he was always the best. no matter how hard we try, everytime either of us gets a crush on someone else, it only lasts for a couple of weeks, then we realize how much we love each other. i think theyre really might be something between us, but i would feel SO embarrased to get back together with him because everyone at my school would think it odd for it to be the 4th time to go out with him in 2 years!!! but then again, i dont want to loose what i have... hes a REALLY awesome guy! hes a good football player, and hes really hot, but also he has another artsy side to him. he can find beauty in almost anything and aif your in a bad mood, he makes you feel like youre the most amazing person on the planet. so what should i do? i rate good responses.
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Dont worry about whut other people think. If you love him, you go out with him. If you dont, dont go out with him. Your friends and other people shouldnt have control ovr hoo you like!
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there is no embarrasment of going out with someone more then once. I think that both of you have a very stronge realationship together..my friend went out with someone 15 times in one year lol..you to were ment to be.
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Honestly, I think that if you feel that strongly for him, then you shouldn't question your actions. Follow your heart!
I'm curious, though, if you really think it's a big deal about your friends thinking you weird.. I know how easy it is to say "Just go do it!" but much harder to actually do it, since a lot of things are involved. If your friends' opinion of you change because of the action you took, then you can question if they really are your friends. I think they should respect you and your choices...
I mean, half of the school probably don't know you and you don't know them, so it won't really be that big a deal if they think poorly of you, since you don't even talk. Their opinions shouldn't matter much to you at all...
If you also have a lot of strong feelings, maybe you and him should pursue a more long-time relationship, as opposed to the on-again, off-again relationship you currently have..
If you can give me more details, maybe I can help you better...
ANyway, if you want, drop me a line.. ^___^
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i think that if you really like this person, then it shouldnt matter what other people think. you should follow your heart and not let it bother you that people think its weird. me and my boy friend have been on and off six or seven times in the past two years. everyone at our school thinks its weird, but we dont care because they dont run our lives and tell us what is weird or not. we do. and if they have a problem with you and ur friend getting together for the 4th time then that is their problem not yours. they arent the ones running ya'lls lives....you are. and you should go out with him if you want to because that is your personal life not theirs and they should realize that they dont have a say in who you do and dont go out with.
Thanks for asking...i am glad to help in anything the best i can.
signed:~Des~
p.s. if you have any other questions feel free to drop one in my inbox thanks again.
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you shouldnt care what other poeple think.all your doing is going out with people that make you look good and thats not the right thing and you really like this kid so go out with him work things out but.in my theory once its broke its broke, you cant put it back together, so once its over its over.but i dont always follow that rule either so go out with him.
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